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[The dark horse]

Hi l,

I have only been on 3dx for 1 month and it was a bit daunting at first I must say but got the hang of it quite quickly.

Initially I was there just for fun and did make a few good friends 1 of I got close to and let my guard down which I now regret.

Long story short was having a bit of fun with a girl for some 2-3 weeks all was going really well and then she drops the bomb "I am falling in love with you" At first I didn't know what to make if it quite confused to be honest and I a bit of lovestruck person shall we say and I was falling for her too we spent hours and hours on there together it felt real good, I don't know if it's just me or maybe others too it's quite hard not to get attached to someone on there when they are the only people you spend time with because of my restricted time I get on there with work etc.

So it's going great, I see her online message her name meet 1 day and the next day I am already on she comes online and then messages me we meet, She tells me she misses me and in the end after so many hours I did miss her eventually so it was blooming, I got friendly with a few of her friends and made friends with them.

Then all of a sudden the last 2 days I message her through discord (Which she gave me to add her) Asking what is wrong no response, Ask again and nothing, So I left it a while and then messaged her on discord and she blatantly ignores me, Anyway I leave it until the next day see her online and message her and at this point I am not getting any feedback whatsoever from her. I have now deleted her from Discord and from my friends list on 3dx.

Now I am really not sure what to make of this I feel like I have been emotionally abused, To blatantly not say anything is so damn rude in my opinion, I asked multiple times what is bothering you and nothing whatsoever.

So really my question is how often does this happen on this game and are some people there just to mentally abuse peoples lives and minds, Have to say I am probably not going to resub as I am literally annoyed, Confused and a bit hurt to be honest, I wish we had a group on here of names of people who are disregarding this to affect people's lives and minds.

Why do people do this? Do they get a kick out of messing with people's heads.

 

 

 

 

Edited November 6, 2021 by The dark horse
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[Derai]

3 hours ago, The dark horse said:

So really my question is how often does this happen on this game and are some people there just to mentally abuse peoples lives and minds, Have to say I am probably not going to resub as I am literally annoyed, Confused and a bit hurt to be honest, I wish we had a group on here of names of people who are disregarding this to affect people's lives and minds.

Why do people do this? Do they get a kick out of messing with people's heads.

Sadly it’s rather common. 

There are some that get a kick out of toying with people’s feelings. Pretending to Love someone and sometimes asking them to commit. Be exclusive or marry. 
Sometimes even try to pretend the virtual relationship might become real. 
 

Most often though it’s all lies. 

I am sorry to hear that you had this bad experience. I can imagine it souring your feelings about 3DX. 

All I can say is this. Try not to let one bad experience taint the game for ya. 
Easier said than done. I know. 

Anyhow, thanks for sharing. And I hope you have some good memories of this place too. 
Take care. 

[The dark horse]

20 minutes ago, Derai said:

Sadly it’s rather common. 

There are some that get a kick out of toying with people’s feelings. Pretending to Love someone and sometimes asking them to commit. Be exclusive or marry. 
Sometimes even try to pretend the virtual relationship might become real. 
 

Most often though it’s all lies. 

I am sorry to hear that you had this bad experience. I can imagine it souring your feelings about 3DX. 

All I can say is this. Try not to let one bad experience taint the game for ya. 
Easier said than done. I know. 

Anyhow, thanks for sharing. And I hope you have some good memories of this place too. 
Take care. 

Hi,

Thank you it seems it is quite common on there I just didn't expect something like that so soon and such a bad feeling about 3dx already.

I appreciate the advice I will probably take a little while off there and see how things go, I have made a few good friends but also met some rather strange people and quite rude to be honest.

Thanks again and take care yourself.