Most men on men are hiding, because they're worried that they wouldn't be accepted. Contrary to common believe not all men want to be with men as men, if that makes any sense. They wish to be treated as women, and live their lives as such, so the question now remains, should they declare that they're men or not. Personally, i don't think so, and i don't think any of you would walk out to a complete stranger and tell him/her his secrets. Part of the appeal of being online is the anonymity behind it, after all I don't see many who use their real names or put their real life information on their profile. Imagine if you were secretly gay, lesbian, a cross-dresser, or someone who wishes he was on the opposite gender (Transsexual.) Do you really think it is easy to come out and say hey I'm gay? Society puts pressure on people to be who they are born not who they actually are, and the internet is the breathing ground. Most people here would say yes, but we are open minded we would have accepted them! Well, they just did come out and guess what you folks did, you shunned them out. How many here are willing to share their deepest secrets and shames, and god knows we all do have them. He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at them!