I almost don't want to comment, as I've seen how the other threads on this topic have gone. Personally, I find it insulting and hurtful to be grilled about my gender or other facts about my real life by every other guy I talk to. I'm not here to skype, exchange naught pictures, give out my phone number or many other requests I get from total strangers in the first two minutes of chatting. And because I'm not willing to do this, it's assumed I'm lying about being a woman. I don't know what the answer to the problem is, other than if the fact you might accidentally have cybersex with someone of the same gender as you is really that disturbing, perhaps online sex games are not for you.