I may not be the right guy to listen to, but don't use cheesy pick up lines. Read there profile comment on that, or something going on life, or in game life. Ask how there day's going, if they like the game, where there from, stuff like that. For example hear's one thing I said to someone when I was at the beach, she was laying under a char *Hello. Mind if I sit here? What are you doing? I see don't like the sun huh. Are you a vampire?*