Lots and lots of sex, roleplaying in particularly EROTIC roleplay, writing stories beyond 3DX, Lord of the Rings, Lucifer, Stranger Things, Star Wars and Star Trek (both are amazing ok), magic girl anime or manga, travelling around the world, shopping a lot whether bondage gear or lacy lingerie!
Got myself a bob just to see how it looks on me, the hair dye made my dark go the typical "Fobby Asian orange" luckily a quick re-dye solved the problem after fucking *phew*