I would like to clarify~~~~~We all may as well make it clear that I'm "that friend" bc for one, I don't really mind, and two, I need to say something about it~~~ What the heck, you guys! I don't know what's been going on, aside from an and old friend, who was once a very good friend, is now dating the ex girlfriend of another old, very good friend. I checked in, twice, on Rhet, but if anyone in this place knows me at all~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~You know I don't whine or get involved in petty domestic disputes~~unless they involve my SO, then scratch scratch slice slice. I was not upset, in the slightest, that I was deleted, bc Rhet added me right back when I messaged him the other night and he told me what was up. Like. Sigh. I care for all of you, but there either needs to be a complete parting of the seas for the time being, or someone needs to talk to someone. Not publicly, privately, and civil. If they are deleting friends on behalf of a new girlfriend then sure, that is shitty, and it should be talked about first bc there are way better ways this can go about, not just done willy nilly because some of us aren't drama central. I have enough of my own haters to deal with over different things. I consider Rhet, and Captain, both good friends that I've known a very long time. Rhet I've known for almost a year and a half ish and we were immensely close once, and Captain I've known about a year or so, same thing. Both of you are decent and good peoples, and even if this is all a MESSSSSSSSSS right now, you'll all get over it. But let's throw away the spears for now, aye. And for this post, it was very unnecessary to bring in a situation involving me when I directly had no fluffed tail over the matter. Also Rhet, there are more talks than every few months, almost every other time we run into each other in the same rooms, I get your PM even if I'm AFK and come back to you offline, which is nice, you know? So there we go. Get off the paranoia train and zippidy doo da, all of you
I think this should be called “unnecessary drama”. break ups suck in general. 3DX break ups tend to be 10 times as sucky. The only thing you can control is your reaction to the situation. It’s ok to be mad and voice your opinion... but better done in the company of close friends. Degrading an ex pisses me off to the highest degree because I’ve been in her shoes. Not the same situation and not the same context, but to where my exes had put me on blast for the world to see continuously. And what I didn’t understand is how they so quickly forgot the time we’d spend happily. People change and unfortunately sometimes so does the way we feel for people. Friends and loves come and go frequently in 3DX. The best thing to do is pull up(or down) your pants and move on. Holding a grudge and openly spreading hate will only make others weary about filling her shoes.
