MinervaX

The lie is 2. 1. I was once a born again christian 2. I have a published book. 3. I have at least one piercing.

Well.... kind of, depending on what you are looking for. Eventually the limited clothes, locations and poses get worn out. For me the value in it is for the friends I have made and.... Lilly.

I think I saw a bar near here? Who is for some drinks? Mini and Phili... you buying?

Wait! So you think this is all a ploy to bring us together, blinking, into the sunlight?

Anyone got any cards? I know a few games?

Yep... Same... also a few others I know.

Well.... surprising as it may seem... I suspect a lot of people are here to... indulge in sexual activities.... Not much tends to happen in the main public rooms... and you see a room... where it's clear from the name that sex is on the table and encouraged.... it's full of people.... That's the reason. Sure... it's newcomer bait..... and sure.. after a while you develop friendships and meaningful relationships and want to hang out and do social activities.... but.... for newcomers, in particular... that's a big draw.

It's hard to suggest much, because you don't reveal the nature of the problem. It sounds like you knew they were male beforehand, so presumably you didn't like the looks of them for some reason. Maybe you can move past it... maybe you can't... give it a few days or a couple of weeks to see if you can move past it. If you don't want to, or you can't, even with a week or two to adjust.... then tell them... as politely as you possibly can... that you cannot continue. If you can't get over it.... honestly... you don't want to be continuing out of guilt. That's a horrible place to be in.