Lovers

Ever heard of using the right pose for the right moment? I often have a full sexual encounter using just a slow dance and text .... But I pay for graphics so like to use them .... And its nicer if I can pick poses that actually mirror what I am doing and saying. Personally what other people get up to doesn't bother me ... I don't go around watching other people fuck ... so why would the way they choose to fuck spoil my game?

I Vote yes /// 1) How can you vote no becasuse YOU DON'T want to use the new poses ... SIMPLE DON'T USE THEM ...... and let those that want to use them use them .... 2) Why do you want devs to check poses? you have a room and betty/bob ... check out which poses you want to use. Like with a bad room I can choose not to go back. 3) And if it concerns you that there will be some considered as better lovers because they select better poses with better text ... ITS THE SAME IN REAL LIFE ... those prepared to spend time on how they make love and consider their partners will be better lovers .... learn or stay a mediocre lover.

On top of extra poses ... in particular single, foreplay and interim poses moving from one pose to another ... a simple coherence could easily be added with a pose queue. If you could load poses into a queue, a fluent story line could be created. Basically hit the queue button and you go to pose one .... hit the button again you go to pose two, then three and so forth (maybe also allow forward and backward through the queue, eg: three back to two) Point is you can spend as much or as little time in a pose ... and with prior consent flow fluently through the fantasy. without all the agree buttons. Extra poses could be added that may or may not used as a quick click could pass an unwanted pose by ....

Hey Cas, say Hi to mads ... not been opening, may open again soon ..... Seems you need fuck, slut, shag in the title to attract people lol. Always makes me laugh that some people need to be told they can have sex in a sex game before they will go to a room lol. Maybe when things settle down I will open again. But yes you two will always be welcome ... and yes I have been great, hope you two special people are still having a great time ... I think of you two as the bonnie and clyde of 3DXchat haha

Great story But I hate a story without an ending ..... As the heat rushed through her body she slowly parted her lips making the inner creases glisten as her fingers slid over her crevice that burrrowed seductively from her anus to the fine stubble of her shaved pubic mound. She moaned again imagining a real man sucking her flaps into his mouth sucking them in and out in a fucking motion as his top teeth slid over her expanding clit. She let images of his growing girth dapple her growing lust, her mind now crowded with dirty thoughts of toying with the purple head of his cock, the growing penis glans filling with blood pumped from his beating heart, his cum slit opening as if smiling at her touch. She so wished the man would share his passion and let her use her seductive body to coat him with her soft compliant flesh. Yes she wanted to be used, maybe abused sexually, but she so wanted to be a part of the mans experience. As the man slowly slid into his own world that was filled with images obsessively collected from the internet, the frustrated woman, sadly departed, the image of the man still beating his own cock imprinted in her consciousness.

Ps ... some of the extra stuff in the logo threw me so looked it up ..... Its Liam gallaghers Elvis Logo .... He has it tattooed on his arm

Not a lot of people will get the above, but it was a logo emblem that stood for take care of business The Elvis band, I have a ring with the emblem .... Nice find

Hey Vaughanrarius I note you posted in my thread earlier http://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/6276-elvis-club-and-friends/?p=272308 I actually really enjoyed the fun of the video, and you are welcome to post more and to start any discussions you wish. I assure you, I don't hide behind iggy buttons or get my girlfriends to speak on my behalf, so I will always read what you have to say and won't resort to making personal comments through third parties or in answer to third parties .... which you have done in this thread. I will say though posting in my thread, even though very welcome, shows inconsistency from how you have tried to portray your position. Just my opinion. You are free to ignore my questions, which are on topic and could only be taken as personal by those that have something to hide. So like you said in your last post directed at me ..... I'll tell those reading "Make your own mind up."

Dominant or Domineering Bully Not going to be sucked in by insults by the OP's very close friend or his answer to his very close friend, but for clarity I have never admitted to being "A" dominant, I am dominant by nature. But I would be interested in thoughts on "Dominant or Domineering Bully" or as was described earlier Dominant or Predator (Abuser) This is the second time the OP has opened this issuer and this time directed towards me ... So I am willing to look at how I act, is the OP?

OK wasn't going to respond again, but you do raise a big issue ..... People have disputes its a fact of life. People say horrible things to each other in a dispute, but you seem to think a person has a right to threaten someone outside of the discussion? Am I correct? You really are in the wrong occupation. It would really interest me how threatening to fuck a person that has just threatened to fuck my girlfriend makes threatening my girlfriend OK? How should you respond ... Yes Sir? Note I didn't threaten to fuck his family friends or loved ones, even after that threat. At what point in a discussion do you find it acceptable to threaten people not in the discussion and unable to defend themselves? Maybe ask the OP, he may let you respond.

We both know you are very very close to the OP ..... I would be glad to hear of any threats I have made? ..... And if you and your friend want a private thread I suggest you start a private forum. You have goaded me, the OP has goaded me, I have stayed on topic and asked about Moral judgements made in an earlier post .... Asking questions or having opinions is what the forum is for ... Its not somewhere for a private, controlled Diktat.

oops double post as I edited my original pst for spelling mistakes

Mmmm I have had 3 members respond to what I posted and a 4th aimed at me through another member .... I think you need to re-read the thread. Am I to assume questions you ask around the forum don't have grounds in actual events or issues that concern you?

Read back, I asked a question in a BDSM thread, if the OP has a problem with that you should discuss it with him. I never asked him the question and have never asked him a question ... I have not tried to get his attention in the many threads he posts in daily ... so why are you assuming this is something to do with the OP? I had no intention of posting a copy of this threat, of which this is just one of many times two men threatened to fuck my girlfriend. I have not said who those men are and will not ..... but just to show you I have an interest in an answer I will post this redacted PM in group chat.

PS .... on the issue of threatening friends family and loved ones 1) Threaten to abuse me and its water of a ducks back .... I'm a big boy. 2) Threatening to abuse someones friends, family and loved ones is either a..) The weapon of choice of the abuser, if that person is in control when the threats are made. b..) Or lack of control .... Any decent person that lost control and threatened to harm someone out side of the discussion would immediately appologise and withdraw their threats when they calmed down. Maybe you are too far down someones rabbit hole to see that though?

Well A) I have never referred to the OP, except when he referred to me. I could have made this personal When he said, I said, "I made him my concern" when speaking to Trance ... but I didn't and won't. Infact I am not going to say if that was or wasn't said .... I will say that anyone that repeatedly threatens my friends family or loved ones would become my concern ... How could they not? As to asking whether a criminal act is considered abuse in the BDSM community, why would that require any knowledge of the kink ... In fact who are you to decide what level of competence is required to ask questions about the kink?

Potential subs should be aware that anything can be written in a profile, It is very easy to get images and articles from the internet to make a person look an expert or something they are not .... Made a little collage that hopefully will make subs take a little more care before submitting to a person. Predator abusers can't actually do any physical damage within the game, but they can do mental damage if care is not taken. Hopefully more experienced BDSM members will share dangers they are aware of ?

Hi Trance, I actually re-thought my response to your question, to which I gave a personal opinion as a man that is just dominant. And I was probably the wrong person to give an opinion on that issue? As Jenc pointed out nothing is black and white in the BDSM scene, which is why a discussion thread where more experienced (genuine) BDSM experienced and the curious can discuss these issues. As I said, my response was based on my own experiences which have mainly been outside the BDSM world. But thinking about it .... In the bedroom or in roleplay, playing domme, dom, sub, switch is a totally different situation from living a life as a domme, dom, sub, etc outside of the bedroom, when a partner is unaware the personae is roleplay.

Just to be clear .... threatening to fuck another mans girl is a crime ... so opinions on such an abhorent practice is still sought.

Sorry to go back to what you said, but have you thought of starting a BDSM thread from a subs view point .... I imagine a lot of subs would feel overpowered in a thread by a dom ... not saying doms or dominant people shouldn't contribute, but I am sure a lot of subs or submissives would feel more comfortable commenting in such a thread

Personally I believe you are either dominant or submissive .... You can learn the theory, but when something goes wrong, some people are just capable of taking control of the situation and some need to be guided. This is why I find it wrong when people play at being something they are not .... its OK when everything is fine, but when things go wrong a lot of damage can be done.

Yes .... dicussion is definately needed .... every one needs advice ... would be nice to see discussion start

That is an excellent offer trance ... And I know a lot of subs come to this thread looking for help ... they are prime for abuse .... Some helping advice is so valuable

Ps .... I am dominant, but after seeing the actions of some "self proclaimed Doms" on the 3DXchat game, I would now consider being called a Dom an insult. Nothing any one could throw at me in a discussion could ever make me threaten another persons family, friends or loved ones.

I know the intention of what you say is correct, however it becomes very muddy when considering a game where people can hide behind a created personae. What I am raising is, does BDSM lack any moral compass .... the article posted by the OP states there are moral guidelines in this kink. I believe someone that will threaten a persons family, friends, loved ones has no morality, plus its also a crime. So I believe asking whether someone that would threaten to rape a persons girlfriend is a Dominant or Predator (Abuser) ? Is a relevant question to ask in this thread. One thing I have found in life is people don't usually change their inate personality, so if they would threaten to abuse someones girlfriend they would not think twice about abusing their own sub.