Baishun

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRYpd3_roHg

I'd love to be a part to this! Though in fairness it might be moot. I'm not sure anyone will ever top the "Recycle Strip"...

So, um...why the limit on how many things we can "like" on the forums in one day? Seems kinda silly to me that anyone thinks they can tell me I've reached my limit for what I can like in a day. I mean, I'm a very liking person. I like to like things, things I like, which are numerous and many. I want to like them. I need to like them. So why the like hate?

*crumbles into little bite-sized pieces* Awww...It won't let me like your hugs. Guess I'll have to wait til tomrrow to like 'em.

I can live with that! Thanks!

Why did the Height slider disappear from the Shapes section of the Dressing Room? It was may almost-favorite slider...

Soooo...this one isn't dirty or anything, but I laugh so hard when I watch it. The people who did this one have lots of funny ones, but this is by far my favorite. It will be especially poignant to fans of Game of Thrones.

Hmmm...My sweetheart and I came here after almost two years on Utherverse's Red Light Center (she'd actually been there a lot longer, but we were there together for nearly two years). There were a lot of things we loved about it: You could go dancing, watch TV, go out to the movies, hang out with friends at home or in one of the hundreds of user-created locations, tour haunted houses and make out with ghosts, turn into mermaids and go swimming under the sea, go camping and get lost in the woods. And a lot of other stuff I'm too tired and too tipsy to remember well enough to list out. In any case, the point is there was something to do besides just fuck. That said, most people did go on RLC to just fuck. And despite that, we knew lots of people who met on that site and became virtual lovers and eventually met IRL, some of whom even married or cohabited or whatever their fancy was. So in that sense it served as a dating site, at least for those people. I think if 3DX offered some more activities that went beyond just sex, it could very well serve as a place for people to meet and bond virtually, and maybe even eventually IRL. But I still think that you don't make that connection usually with plain old--or even not plain old--sex (though I'm sure some people would disagree with me; so I'll say I don't usually make a strong connection with someone through just sex alone). There have to be some things that aren't as wholly engrossing as sex to give you a feel for a person in everyday situations. And 3DX just doesn't offer that at this point. If it did, I think, whether it meant to or not, it would perhaps facilitate some real-life hookups and eventual long-term relationships. As it stands, like you say, it's mostly about the quickie with random strangers unless we get creative and imaginative as users and make it otherwise. And that isn't the best environment to shop for potential life-long partners. With a little tweaking and some fun non-sexual activities thrown in though, who knows...?

...or...

I think this is the part I agree with most. Maybe it's just my mindset, but a site like 3DXChat just isn't conducive to a real romance. And the atmosphere here isn't the one you'd come to to find some sort of exclusive romantic partnerhip. It's like going to a NASCAR race to recruit members for Mensa, or to Sweden to look for ugly people. It's just very, very unlikely to happen. There simply isn't much to do in the realm of romantic encounters in 3DX. Maybe 3 poses I can think of are sweet like that; the rest are all geared far more towards the dirty/raunchy/hypersexual, which is fine and has its place, but isn't the kind of place you generally expect to find romance. The new Love Island is a start, I guess. At least you can sit down at a table with your partner and stare out over the waves at the moon. But you can't really hold hands or play footsies while you do that. You can walk down to the beach and get naked and fuck like bunnies, though; and that's why this place exists. I mean, you can even see it in the prop actions we have here. You can buy and drink a bottle of beer/wine (I hate beer so I tend to think of them as mini-bottles of Barefoot Sweet Red), and even get a 10-second buzz from it. But you can't pick up and drink the cup of coffee on the table, or sip the bowl of tomato soup. It's the mundane little things that seem magical when you're with someone you love that help cement that sort of relationship. And there's really not much mundane stuff to do here.

Thanks so much, Giz! I'm Baishun nao! *does happy dance (which is mostly just hyperactive regular dancing while falling out of clothing)*

Thank you all for your replies. And thanks Giz for contacting me about getting it changed! *hugs all the bodies*

Is there a way to change your name here on the forum? Originally, I made my forum name match the first character I had in-game. But after being talked into changing that in-game name, people usually don't know who I am here on the forums, and it's annoying. So, is there a way to change your forum name? Thanks!

At the risk of being redundant (5 pages is a lot and my eyes get tired), here's what I would like to see: An Option to open your Room to only Specific Users, perhaps from your Friend's List, without the ridiculous cost of Invites (what's up with that, btw?)A Day/Night settingPersistent settings (so that you don't have to recreate it every time you log on; should be enough to make it unavailable when you're offline) While we're at it, can we have an option to PM people on our Friend's List without having to be in the same location as they are? That's really kinda annoying...

I'm very interested in the results of this poll, mainly just because I'm a very curious person. But I think what it will tell is a lot more about the difference in people's world-views, especially around sexuality and relationships. There's obviously an overwhelming majority of people who believe that commitment to one partner has to include some kind of exclusivity when it comes to sexuality, and maybe even affection in general. Like, if you have a significant other, you aren't supposed to participate sexually with anyone else, and maybe not even show a certain amount of non-sexual affection to anyone other than that partner. I personally believe that's counter to our nature as human beings. I won't go as far as to say that everyone who believes that is fooling themselves or giving into societal pressure; I'll concede that for some very small subset of people, singular coupling fulfills them completely and they might never have a want or need to explore beyond what they have with their partner. But I think the genuine, legitimate cases of that are probably really, really rare. Human beings are naturally curious, exploratory beings, with strong sexual urges, and being arbitrarily locked into an exclusive sexual partnership just castrates a lot of our creativity and natural curiosity, at least for most of us. I think most of us go along with it because we're thought from as far back as we can remember that monogamy is morally correct, that loving more than one person must subtract from the love we feel for each one of them individually, and that love itself has to fall into some specific definition. Most of this is based around judeo-christian philosophy, or other similar religious teachings. But there are societies in which sexuality isn't limited by definition to one partner at a time, and in general, these societies see far fewer cases of rape and sexual assault, murder, etc. And to me that's pretty strong evidence that we bring a lot of hardship upon ourselves by trying to live to a forced and artificial standard that simply doesn't fit our nature as sexual, nurturing, affectionate and living beings.

Hiya everybody! New here. My second day. My best and dearest friend turned me on to this place yesterday after we'd spent nearly two years in Red Light Center. I have to say I'm incredibly inpressed with 3DX and all its potential. I've already met some wonderful people here, and am really enjoying the general vibe inside the 3DX world. Big shout out to the devs for a breathtakingly beautiful world with plenty to, um...do.