Some thought to share about this topic For those of you who don't know me, I used to play female avatar called KitCat. I played it for almost a month. I think I was very good at it, and managed to fool almost everyone. And yes, that includes sexual interactions with girls. I didnt try sexual interactions with the boys, so maybe they would have cought me if I did, but im not attracted to the male genitalia. Now lets get on to the imprtant stuff. The reason which made me play female. I must say I tried several avatars when I just started playing 3DXChat. some of them were males and some females. I felt more comofortable playing female. I still do. For those of us who try to interact with others in 3DXChat world, and I mean meaningfull interactions, as one might suggest that cold invitation and mute intercorse are also ways of interaction, but im not talking about those ways. Im talking about conversation, both in pms and in public chat, about all sort of topics, not just sex, social interactions as we experiance them irl. In those interactions, I felt more free to be myself, while playing female avatar. let me give you an example. One of the days we were a group of 7 on the beach. 5 girls and 2 guys, one of them was semi afk. Im counting myself as one of the girls. We were having lots of fun, and all the girls were dancing in a cricle around the guy who wasnt afk. At one point one of the girls crashed. after a few minutes she came back. and crashed again. I said its not fair, and we should protest against the server kicking her. I sugested that we all take off our bikini tops as protest. now imagine the whole situation but with me as a male there. I couldnt be dancing in a circle around the guy, couldnt I? How would you interpurt my sugestion to take off our bikini top, had it been said by a man? knowing I have a libido and sexual drive, seeing the girls as potential partners? just think about it. We all take our interactions experiance from rl and use it here on 3DXChat world. There is no escape from it. And we all treat males and females differently. And im not talking about discrimination here. Im talking about basic expectations we have for proper conduct from each gender. Thus if I played male avatar on the example I gave, I would have missed the fun. You can say I had a chance to get a different kind of fun. But this is disrespectful. I know myself good enough to decide what kind of fun I like. And if you think my fun comes from cheating the girls to take off their clothes... for all I care you can stop reading now, cos obviously Im not getting through to you. I remember kindergarden. At that early age of 4 and 5 we already were devided to gender groups, crated by sociaty and not by the teacher. The division was not complete so I got to "cross the lines" occasionaly. My personal experiance from that was profound. The boys where pushing, shoving, shouting, and competing. The girls were quiete, laughing, helping and sharing. Im not ashamed to say I liked playing with the girls more than I enjoyed playing with the boys. I still do. I think this experiance can help shed more light on my playing female decision. Now I play male avatar. I miss playing female. In most part, girls precived to be more communicative than males. They have to be that way, since solving conflicts using raw power is hardly an option for them. So they communicate themselvs out of conflicts. Being the communicative person that I am, I can totaly relate to that. and this is why I miss playing a female. Not to mention all the pretty clothes they have... There is one thing im not missing. That is lying to my friends. It was never comfortable for me. I dont like to lie and Im trying not to lie at all when I dont have to. My reason is simple: there are many lies but only one truth. Its so much easyer to remember the truth, than many lies told to different people. Lying here wasnt hard in that sense, since I told the same lie to many people. But it was still a lie, and I feel better, now that I dont have to lie. I think this is all I had to say, but feel free to ask me here or ingame any question. Worse thing I will not answer it. Have a nice day.