Brad.m1

Interesting choice of profile picture for someone so demur...

"I <3 bald pussy"...? that pic...? that's not really a bold statement.  

That's b/c you're seeing her as a person rather than a sex ... thing.

 

So talk to her, and enjoy the convo. <3

 

There aren't any rules that say sex is required... ever.

 

Have fun

 

xo,

 

Caren

that's true, no where does it say sex is a requirement. I'll just see how things work out over time. 

thanks for your advice

Well... hmmm... interesting one - but where does it say on the can that you *have* to have sex with someone you've met on 3dx? Is it possible that you could simply remain friends and the deed will never happen? Or would this be some sort of 'failure' on your part? Does connecting with  a girl have to equal a quick shag?

 

What is her take on this (your best guess)? Maybe she doesn't feel the time is right. Maybe she doesn't want it. From my POV when I was in-game there was something quite cool in a slightly sadistic sort of way about knowing a good friend wanted it and not allowing it

 

My advice for now: let it be, enjoy her company and friendship and see what happens naturally. Above all, don't force the issue and risk losing a great friendship just on account of a cheap thrill.

Good advice. Seeing what happens naturally is a good idea. Thanks for the advice. 

I'm not sure where to post this, so I apologize if this is in the wrong place. 

So anyway, I'm new to 3DXChat, but, not new to sex chats. I've made some friendships in the past that lasted several months and some that lasted years. I have a fair amount of experience

A problem I've always had in chats is almost friend zoning girls that I have a lot of things in common with. Every once in a while, you meet some girl you wish you met offline. She likes most of the same music as you, she is hilarious, you have a lot of the same hobbies, sexually you'd be compatible...etc

Whenever I find a girl like that I talk to them for hours...and, learn a lot about them...and sex is not on my mind anymore really. I respect this girl that is so similar to myself...asking to fuck almost feels...lame. 

I don't know if this makes sense to anyone else :'(

I feel awkward talking to her now as well. I feel obligated to have sex with her. Saying, "I like you a lot, but sex feels like an obligation...I want to talk to talk to you until I feel it's the right time to fuck you"...comes off like fucked up insult lol

I'm not bad at rp, I've had lots of sex in 3DXChat...but, not with anyone I relate to on the same level. I feel like a weird creeper, especially cause I'm a guy who just likes talking to her...likes her a lot, would like to have sex with her...but feels weird about it.

Should I tell her I like her...or should I just leave her alone...? I'm not usually dependent on the opinions of others...some times it helps though. 

Thanks anyone who feels like answering me...

Hi Brad!

 

well, define large or decent sized... 

 

I have only little experiences with other (sex-) chats, but I'd say the community size is.... ok. I wouldn't call it large but large enough. A very rough estimation would be 200 ppl playing it now at this time while I write this comment. So if you keep going to the same places at the same times you will meet the same people day by day of course.

 

You will find plenty of people looking for random sex I'd say. (right now there are 40 ppl in a room called "cold fuck club") Of course it always depends on how you approach them and what you do. Just because it is a sexgame it doesn't mean that everyone jumps onto you. Most user start playing it for the sex (and get plenty of it) and stay for the friends.

 

Speaking of the sex. The animations the game gives us are vanilla only, and with the experience of 2 years I would say the chance to get poses that match your kink (if it is not vanilla) are close to zero. Any other sexchat I know offers animations for bdsm or rough sex, yet this one offers the best graphics. So what we have here is watching nice and well done vanilla poses and rp'ing the rest. 

Speaking of numbers: 

just to give an example, we have 12 foreplay, 12 vaginal, 11 anal, 10 oral, 3 cumshot, 1 footjob poses for FM sex (including beds, couches and pools).

 

In the end I'd say the only way to find out if it meets your expectations is to buy a month and test it. Compared to other sexchats it is rather affordable, as you only pay the monthly subscription and get access to all poses, clothing options and so on. 

 

cheers, Vero

Thanks for the timely reply  

I should have stated my question a little differently, but, you managed to answer my questions perfectly lol, thanks. 

I will definitely be joining September 1st then...I've spent too much money on music software/hardware equipment, impulse buys...and other shit I shouldn't have bought lol 

Looking forward to meeting more like minded people 

Hi, and sorry if I made this thread in the wrong place. 

I have a lot of experience with chats and online games and in my experience they die eventually or their numbers dwindle to a depressing number. Sex chats that have been out for years turn into cliques where new people are ignored and no one talks about fucking anymore. 

Anyway, did this game peak and is now on the decline or is the game growing...? Another big concern is, is this game still text based or mic based...? Another concern (lol) how many people want to have random sex or just have small talk and sex...? Or is this game people looking for people to talk to...?

I don't mind talking, I have tons of hobbies, I listen to a massive variety of music, have both life experience and do normal shit like play video games...not trying to brag but I'm interesting, I can start and keep a conversation with pretty much anyone. However, I have a high sex drive, so obligatory friendship for virtual sex doesn't interest me, though, online friendships, are cool. I have multiple online friends I've had for years.

So yeah, is this a large or decent sized community? Is finding someone to have sex with like super hard? Oh, can you have rough sex...? Hair pulling, spanking/slapping, rough trade...no gimp masks, no razors, no fire (lol), no caning, etc. The preview video looked pretty vanilla, which is fine, I'm just curious.

Thanks