MalissiaLawson

[Lilypond]

[English version below]

 

Il était une fois un doux ange du nom de Malissia, qui vint dans 3DXchat insuffler un peu d'amour, de passion et de tendresse dans nos cœurs.

J'ai eu l'heur de connaître Malissia dans ma chair, et de recevoir dans mon cœur sa tendresse et sa luxure.

A mes yeux, Malissia était une sainte, parce que sa joie résidait dans le don, dans la satisfaction  et la plénitude des autres. Malissia n'était pas comme ces personnes soumises qui dans le fond sont dominantes, parce qu'elles obligent leur partenaire à être dur(e) ou violent(e) avec elles. Malissia ne pensait qu'à votre propre bonheur, et remplissait son cœur de votre propre joie, qu'il s'agisse de tendresse, d'échange, de luxure, ou des ébats les plus violents (ou tout cela à la fois). Il me semble que c'est cela un saint ; non ?

J'ai partagé avec Malissia quelques uns de mes plus beaux instants sur le jeu.

Maintenant, Malissia a disparu, quelque part dans les profondeurs du monde virtuel. Je pleure sa disparition, je ressens terriblement le vide provoqué par son manque, mais je bénis les dieux qui m'ont permis de croiser son chemin dans un moment de grâce.

 

Once upon a time, a sweet angel named Malissia came in 3DXchat, to bring love, passion and tenderness in our hearts.

I had the chance to meet that angel "in the flesh", and to fulfil my heart with her sweetness. and her lust.

To me, Malissia was a saint, as her only joy was to give, and to satisfy the lucky choosen ones. She was not like those subs who are in fact dominant, as they oblige you to be hard or violent with them. Malissia was just thinking about your happiness, not hers, and she was giving you the joy you wanted, no matter if it was via tenderness, lust, or violent intercourse (or a mix of all those things). Thi total gift of her soul and person,  this is what a saint is, I guess.

I shared with her some of my brightest and deepest times in the 3D world.

Now Malissia has disappeared, somewhere in the dephts of the virtual world. I weep for her, I miss her, but I will always thank the gods who gave me the chance to croos her way for some time in my life.

[Fus]

*invoque l'esprit du commandant cousteau en espérant qu'il t'apporte son aide pour sonder profondément les mères matricielles.

 

Au cas où tu retrouves les pixels de la belle.

 

Ce monsieur peut te prêter sa clé à molette pour les rassembler 

[Guest SayaX]

Beautifully written as always Lily and I am we glad we stay in touch offline as your friendship and advice is wonderful. I will repost something I have posted before because I think it is very relevant.

 

(French version is not below - because I suck! )

 

Ever ask yourself why you log in here? I have never found myself asking this as often as I do now. We roam this pixelated version of reality amongst thousands of others. Some are escaping real life, some are searching for something or someone to add to it, and some are even trying to replace it altogether. Yet at the end of the day, all our reasons for being here are temporary. Places, objects, even people will all one day disappear from our 3DX lives. I'm sure many will disagree, but I ask you this: How many times have you stood in a room filled with other people in silence? How many times have you built rooms just to delete them from existence? We enter into 3DX alone with almost nothing, and at the end of our time here, we'll leave the exact same way. So why am I here? I think the most honest answer is to simply enjoy the moment while it lasts, because tomorrow is promised to no one, not even in your 3DX life.

[Yowan]

Lovely to read this, Lily, and cherish those moments.

 

Is it better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all ?
My answer is an absolute yes.

Although (romantic) regret is difficult, it lingers more when we regret not doing something than it does when we regret doing something.

So make sure you tell the truth. Express your feelings and have some good fun, keep on smiling.
If you like someone, tell them. If you don’t, leave or at least be upfront with them about it.

 

Life (especially in 3DX) should be that simple.

[Lilypond]

My dear Saya,

dear Yowan,

Saya, the question you express is definitely very relevant. It seems to me it has to come with a second question : why do we stay in the game? (when we stay...). As the motivation for coming in 3DXchat can br different with the motivation we get to stay in it. I remember vividly someting that DEElicious (my sweet Cupido) told me one day: "You come for sex, you stay for friends". In my case, there is a lot of truth in that assumption.

I think I came in 3D to experience something new (a virtual world) and to experience a complete freedom in sex and relationships. There is no AIDS in 3D, and I was expecting a complete freedom, swingers who pass on the flame of love and lust, without jalousy or exclusivity (I quickly realised it was rarely the case on that point, many people people bringing in the games some rl disavantadges such as weddings, mockery or jalousy).

But virtual sex can be boring after some time, and the flame and inspiration for a good descriptive chat is not always there (in my case, it's much more difficult in English, as my muse always inspire me in French, even if English for me is not a problem when it's just about talking). Then if I stayed in the game for many months without getting bored, if I come back in a couple of weeks, it is mainly because of the people I love there, at least those who are still around. Those friendships are a bit strange, half real, and half virtual, and maybe they will not end for a very long time, as you think. But I think I will always remember my pets from the game, and among them MalissiaLawson.

This makes a connection with what Yowan is saying. Saya expresses the rational side of it, Yowan the positive (and probably wise) side. Maybe I will never chat again with Malissia (who is not using the forum anymore, and probably not opening the mailbox she was using for me), but I will never forget what I experienced with her, and this experience should make me happy. In 3D, there are less barriers than in rl, and it's easier to experience very warm, sexy and very intimate moments with a friend. This is one of the good things in the game, and we should not spoli that treasure, and maybe take a lesson from it for rl.

Love,

Lily

Beautifully written as always Lily and I am we glad we stay in touch offline as your friendship and advice is wonderful. I will repost something I have posted before because I think it is very relevant.

(French version is not below - because I suck! )

Ever ask yourself why you log in here? I have never found myself asking this as often as I do now. We roam this pixelated version of reality amongst thousands of others. Some are escaping real life, some are searching for something or someone to add to it, and some are even trying to replace it altogether. Yet at the end of the day, all our reasons for being here are temporary. Places, objects, even people will all one day disappear from our 3DX lives. I'm sure many will disagree, but I ask you this: How many times have you stood in a room filled with other people in silence? How many times have you built rooms just to delete them from existence? We enter into 3DX alone with almost nothing, and at the end of our time here, we'll leave the exact same way. So why am I here? I think the most honest answer is to simply enjoy the moment while it lasts, because tomorrow is promised to no one, not even in your 3DX life.

 

 

Lovely to read this, Lily, and cherish those moments.

 

Is it better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all ?
My answer is an absolute yes.

Although (romantic) regret is difficult, it lingers more when we regret not doing something than it does when we regret doing something.

So make sure you tell the truth. Express your feelings and have some good fun, keep on smiling.
If you like someone, tell them. If you don’t, leave or at least be upfront with them about it.

 

Life (especially in 3DX) should be that simple.

[Guest SayaX]

 ...Saya expresses the rational side of it...

 

 

Hey I am British, therefore I am naturally cynical and rational