hartsehrhart

Yeah, of course you can be betrayed in many different ways in real life - but it's kinda nearly impossible to conceal your real gender in real life. We don't deal with that problem in the real world. I don't have to wonder if a girl I'm having sex with is actually a girl - I see and feel her body, it's clearly female. The issue that I'm mostly trying to address is that a lot of guys play as female avis (and sometimes women play as male avis, but it's not as common), and they're not straight up about their real-life gender. Which isn't fair to the people they fuck in the game, who would be really creeped out and disgusted if they knew they were having virtual sex with someone of their same gender.

 

Mind you, there's a massive difference between exploring your own fantasies yet being clear with the people you play with about your true identity, and exploring your own fantasies with complete disregard for how much you might anger or hurt the people you play with by not being up front about yourself. You understand what I mean? I'm all for people doing whatever they want in 3DX - you're a guy that wants to play as a girl, that's totally cool...just be up front about it. That's all. And there are many, many players that are honest about that in their profiles, many more than there used to be, and I really respect and appreciate them for doing that. But some people just straight up don't give a shit, they don't think about the fact that there are real people behind the avatars they play with.

 

That's the main issue that I'm talking about. By making it incredibly easier for people to lie about their true identity, you make it incredibly easier for a lot more people to potentially get hurt by the indifference and selfishness of the "friends" they thought they could trust. 

 

And I mean, look, it's whatever. The devs don't give a fuck, nobody gives a fuck, this situation is never going to be remedied. But I think it's an important issue to address, regardless. I just hope that people that play as the opposite gender have a little consideration for the sexual preferences of the people they mess around with, that's all.

 

[spoiler: The majority of them won't, because as Slipknot once said, PEOPLE=SHIT]

Great Thought!!  Onesty and respect to other's