okay East coasters go get yourself a VPN.. there's usually free ones out there that will solve your problem 3DX's security system is fucking with you pretty much what it comes down to...
Don't mislead people please. Verizon users less than 1% of customers. Also, while we are looking for solutions to the problem, we recommend to use a free VPN (https://www.tunnelbear.com/pricing) that allows to play 3DXChat on Verizon ISP.