I am new to the game and love it, but there seems to be a glaring oversight---how do you send a private message to a player who is not yet on your Friends list, and whose avatar is not there to click on? There are instances where they might DC, or the room may suddenly close, or you simply forget to add them to your Friends list...and then there is apparently NO way to send them a message, or even know if they are online!! I can't believe something this fundamental and basic escaped the developers. Does anyone have an answer??