mikemuc1964

Well Madame Doleur asked Dom females to share their thoughts, but I would like to say a few words as a submissive male!
I live as a normal live for real, I found out my submissive side relatively late, in my late thirties. I tried to get my wife towards that when we have sex, I bought a strap on in a sex shop and the feeling to be penetrated by her was overwhelming! I felt degraded, horny and helpless at the same time, an amazing experience!
Unfortunately my wife isn't Dom so it soon stopped.
So I tried to get that experience in chats and now here! It isn't easy to find woman that like to dominate men in that way!
The thrill to submit to a strong woman is hard to describe, but I love it very much.
A lot of people think if you submit sexually and then to women too, you must be weak in normal life. That is not the case! Submitting sexually, doesn't mean that at all
A few years I discovered the thrill of cuckolding too, a fantasie to submit to the Dom female and her lover, being degraded as a sissy not able to satisfy her myself. It is a fantasy, that doesn't apply in reality, but nevertheless it is a powerful fantasie for me, that includes domination, humiliation and degradation as I like it!
I hope I will experience some more and that we will get some sexmoves that will undermine the role-play with visual effects.
Thanks to you Mistress Doleur *smile

Well Madame Doleur asked Dom females to share their thoughts, but I would like to say a few words as a submissive male!
I live as a normal live for real, I found out my submissive side relatively late, in my late thirties. I tried to get my wife towards that when we have sex, I bought a strap on in a sex shop and the feeling to be penetrated by her was overwhelming! I felt degraded, horny and helpless at the same time, an amazing experience!
Unfortunately my wife isn't Dom so it soon stopped.
So I tried to get that experience in chats and now here! It isn't easy to find woman that like to dominate men in that way!
The thrill to submit to a strong woman is hard to describe, but I love it very much.
A lot of people think if you submit sexually and then to women too, you must be weak in normal life. That is not the case! Submitting sexually, doesn't mean that at all
A few years I discovered the thrill of cuckolding too, a fantasie to submit to the Dom female and her lover, being degraded as a sissy not able to satisfy her myself. It is a fantasy, that doesn't apply in reality, but nevertheless it is a powerful fantasie for me, that includes domination, humiliation and degradation as I like it!
I hope I will experience some more and that we will get some sexmoves that will undermine the role-play with visual effects.
Thanks to you Mistress Doleur *smile

As I have said before in previous posts, I am quite taken with Female Domination aka Femdom. I, for the most part, play as Madame Douleur and of course I am a Dominatrix.  I love domination in all aspects, sexually and mentally, and towards all genders but what I want most is the ability to dominate men.
 
Now, I am not here to discuss things the devs could do to implement this. I’m in the wrong forum for that. I am more so here to discuss with others who share my fascination with bending a man over and taking him with a strap on. There is a certain beauty in forcing a man to submit to that.
 
So, ladies, am I the only one who shares this desire? What do you think drives those of us who partake in this particular, shall we say, sport? *giggles* What is that you take away from the experience? And how do we find the men that will enjoy this?
 
I get off on the power, but it’s so few and far between to find men who are willing spread their cheeks for me. This game is providing me with a somewhat fertile ground for this kind of play, but the lack of avatar ability makes it less. I do enjoy a good RP but I like the animations to go with it. So the physical side is lacking but the mental side is VERY workable.
 
 
A good Dom knows (I am someone who has been dabbling in that lifestyle for years but never seriously, so please correct me if I am wrong) that the mental aspect is just as important as the physical. Making him want it as much as you do, making him beg for it and of course the succulent language of creating a perfect submissive slave.
 
Worthless, dog, cumslut…. Words to some that are so derogatory that they become instantly defensive but to those of us who travel in the Dom/sub community, it’s not words of hate but of empowerment. The Dom is the total authority, yes but also behind the words there is love and compassion for the sub. The sub knows that only utter love for them drives the Dom.
 
So it’s an interesting mix, to say the least. The perfect man who can take as much cock as he can give but also submits wholly to a woman Dom.  I know I am one of many who enjoy this, the internet is littered with videos and pictures. I am looking for something far more personal and also, people I can call friends who share my desires and understand the need to dominate men. People who understand there is no shame in this calling.
 
Anyways, I think I have rambled enough *laughs*. Guys, feel free to throw your opinion into the mix! *big smile*
 
Much love!!!