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13 hours ago, Twiggy said:

For starters there are not many countries, there are some but by far more do not. The UK for instance is now in dispute on the matter. Here in Australia we do not. In most countries Gender is black and white when it comes to male and female, if you have a penis you are male. Gender identity is becoming more accepted around the world as something where a person can have a penis and that persons gender identity can be female, but it is not widely accepted that persons gender can be female if they have a penis. In fact it is hardly accepted at all. Gender and gender identity are 2 different things and like you have here, I have often seen in these forums where people are trying to say that where things have been accepted in gender identity means it is accepted in reference to gender, it is not, it is only accepted in gender identity. In by far the majority of places in the world and by far the majority of people and laws around the world, if you have a penis you are male. I personally and I think that most would like to keep it that way. We accept that transgenders who for instance are female born in a male body want to identify themselves as female, but if they have a penis physically they are male, they cannot perform the female side in sex acts, they cannot have babies. You may not like it but you are different to us, you are not a female. Why is it that many of you seem to feel that us females are not entitled to have our own gender, that we should be happy to share our gender with you. You are different from us, you have a penis, and that difference needs to stay separated in reference to gender. 

Actually I am UK and its is accepted by law, gender is not your Sex, get into the 21st centuary and come back to me, and this is accepted through most of weatern Europe and the usa, so that counts for quite a bit of the world. I am not a man, either except what I am, as I except what you are, or don't bother, ive given you total respect for your opinions and not insulted you at all, If you can not give that back, then this debate is no longer, but I wont be bullied into anything, I have an opinion which is valid, as you do, but Facts are facts, your last words are totally offensive, Get over the fact of what you are and except we all exist, and are what we are, I will never be what you say or think, The people who love/like me do so cos of the person I am, if you cant except that then tough, but don't shove your 18th centuary beliefs as facts, cos they are not. You do not decide who I am, I do!!!!!!!!!!!!

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6 hours ago, Dana Rocks said:

I'm not hurting a preop trans person or futa fetish boy to say I don't want a [Penis] button on my screen at all times or poses that make me grow one. 😕

Achat has the (s) gender. They get all the same clothes and cosmetic options the girls do, but the (s) is by the user name so people know what they're consenting to...it's a computer sex chat game, c'mon, you can build consent into the system. 

Actually I was in achat and still am, we asked to have our title changed and be given equal rights but was ignored, we are not shemales, that is a pornographic term used to sell videos, and we were refused over half the poses offered to girls and 2/3rd of the poses offered elsewhere. as to your last comment, check the titles, both have chat after them, virtual communities involving chat, dating, socialising and sim sex, not just sex. 3dx offers the TG a much more equal world and a much more interesting one. You can see the game as all of that or just sex, but all is available and helps many people, of all genders, to have a better life. As to the button, its your choice if you use it, but I do thank you for using the correct term for us and maybe an option to remove that option should be considered? where you can choose to have that or not? that might be a perfect answer to those that get offended by it and for those that need it?

Unfortunatley cos we are labelled together, there are 4 types of main TG, not 1, therefore 1 new gender just creates more demands, but for at least one of us, you may have hit on the answer, where all females that don't want that option, can opt out of having it, therefore making their experience much more comfortable for them without taking away from anyone else.

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No need to add four new genders in the game. I mean, postop mtf and ftm can just play female and male and add an info about who they are irl in profile if needed. Ftm who wants to play as a boy with a vagina... Well, I play this game more than a year and never seen anyone asking for it, so I guess there is no demand for it, so no need to waste time on it then. But the preop mtf is another case... There is tons of people - actual preop mtf who wants to be in the game like irl, boys exploring their femenine side, crossdressers and sissies, girls wanting to play with a cock - demand on 3rd gender is great. Plus regular girls pretty much tired of having a cock as a default option if choose a wrong pose and having some poses that was clearly created for girls with a cock and just makes no sense with a strapon (I mean stroking each other penises for example). 

So if you ask me – it seems pretty reasonable to add an aditional gender to the game. But yeah, no need to call it "futa" or "shemale". I mean people can use different names, but the official name should not be disrespectful. 

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1 hour ago, Davi said:

Actually I am UK and its is accepted by law, gender is not your Sex, get into the 21st centuary and come back to me, and this is accepted through most of weatern Europe and the usa, so that counts for quite a bit of the world. I am not a man, either except what I am, as I except what you are, or don't bother, ive given you total respect for your opinions and not insulted you at all, If you can not give that back, then this debate is no longer, but I wont be bullied into anything, I have an opinion which is valid, as you do, but Facts are facts, your last words are totally offensive, Get over the fact of what you are and except we all exist, and are what we are, I will never be what you say or think, The people who love/like me do so cos of the person I am, if you cant except that then tough, but don't shove your 18th centuary beliefs as facts, cos they are not. You do not decide who I am, I do!!!!!!!!!!!!

Your gender is not female, your gender is one of the 50 odd genders that account for all different types of transgenders and others including male and female. When it comes to things in life where only 2 genders are counted for such as public toilets, dorms and legal matters such as marriage and devorce. Laws have been introduced to account for that in many countries yes. These laws have been added so transgenders are accounted for in those areas. But those laws are not meant to make it that you can say you are female, only that gender identity when it comes to areas where only 2 genders are provided for can be female. Your gender still remains to be one of the 50 odd, your gender is not female.

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2 hours ago, Xizl said:

So if you ask me – it seems pretty reasonable to add an aditional gender to the game. But yeah, no need to call it "futa" or "shemale". I mean people can use different names, but the official name should not be disrespectful. 

This is where the problems lays, no matter what name is used there will be people that will say it is offensive. The only gender many of them want to use is female, they will not be happy with anything else. I am not going to get into the reasons why and just say that some are innocent and some are not. What I will get into is that every time this comes up in these forums or discussion in the game I as a woman feel my rights, feelings and needs are being pushed to the side and hardly considered. For all these different types of genders to be included under female it means that us females have to be included in it as well. I understand that there are so many different kinds of transgenders or reasons for men playing as women that finding one name to represent them will be a problem, but when that one name is female it then puts us females in the same boat and creates a lot of problems for not only us females but for a lot of others as well. That is what many of them are not willing to accept or show any real consideration to us for.

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3 hours ago, Xizl said:

 Well, I play this game more than a year and never seen anyone asking for it, so I guess there is no demand for it, so no need to waste time on it then.

There is a demand for it. So let's not lie here. and people are asking for it. Especialy women. But I also wholeheartedly support it.

Even  in this conversation we are talking about it. And it's not the first time this was brought up, and it will not be the last time, be sure of that. Yeah I know feels more convenient saying: Oh I'm not interested, so there is no demand for it, but rest assured, there is a big demand for this. It's not a waste of time and it's quite an issue for many

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4 hours ago, Davi said:

 You do not decide who I am, I do!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well that's why we need a third gender here. So you can freely decide to be... something else. while leaving actual men and women out of it.

Heck, there can be even a 4th for women who want to play guys wearing a pussy. But the point is, that men and women should not be involved in this

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5 hours ago, Twiggy said:

Your gender is not female, your gender is one of the 50 odd genders that account for all different types of transgenders and others including male and female. When it comes to things in life where only 2 genders are counted for such as public toilets, dorms and legal matters such as marriage and devorce. Laws have been introduced to account for that in many countries yes. These laws have been added so transgenders are accounted for in those areas. But those laws are not meant to make it that you can say you are female, only that gender identity when it comes to areas where only 2 genders are provided for can be female. Your gender still remains to be one of the 50 odd, your gender is not female.

You are Incorrect, Yes I can, Yes I do and Yes its legal, your Information is behind the times, your opinion is noted and respected but Your Facts are wrong.

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2 hours ago, Tsela said:

Well that's why we need a third gender here. So you can freely decide to be... something else. while leaving actual men and women out of it.

Heck, there can be even a 4th for women who want to play guys wearing a pussy. But the point is, that men and women should not be involved in this

You OBVIOUSLY didn't read my whole reply, there are 4 main types of transgender, not 1 or 2, then there are others like someone who replied, who wants to be a pumpkin, Man to Female pre and post-op, Female to Male pre and post op, therefore to be fair to all you would need genders for all, then many others would put a claim in too, and to be honest, if men and women should not be involved in this, why are you? why do so many men not play at being TG but play at being Women and don't declare it? Why are so many people not honest on their profiles? TG's, as in real life, Declare what and who they are on a normal basis, If everyone was totally honest on their profile and the suggestion by Dana was taken up but offered to male and female, then it would solve everything. Lets face it, in real life, none of us have labels over our heads so you can read a profile, how do you deal with that?

 

2 hours ago, Tsela said:

Well that's why we need a third gender here. So you can freely decide to be... something else. while leaving actual men and women out of it.

Heck, there can be even a 4th for women who want to play guys wearing a pussy. But the point is, that men and women should not be involved in this

 

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1 hour ago, Davi said:

You are Incorrect, Yes I can, Yes I do and Yes its legal, your Information is behind the times, your opinion is noted and respected but Your Facts are wrong.

I suggest you browse the Internet and see what is going on in your own country, as I said it is in dispute right now and your government is realising they have to do something to protect womens rights. I also suggest you look up female in any dictionary.

Plus if you were to get together with a man and let him believe you are female, declare yourself as female, marry him and let him find out you have a penis on your wedding night, do you think you won't find yourself in trouble. The laws are still not clear on it, and there has been many instances of where the law on the matter has been found lacking and courts have decided so. If you were to marry a man in the manner I said before and it went to court it would be decided you deceived the man and the marriage would be deemed invalid. Reason being you are not female. You cannot play pro sports as a female, you cannot do the female roll in sex, you cannot have a baby, you can marry as a female on paper but you cannot deceive your partner to do so, you have to make them aware of your true gender which is one of the 50 odd around transgenders. There are a lot of things both legally and through what is possible that you cannot do and I can, why because you are not female and I am. You can say I am wrong all you want, but it is you that is wrong, your gender is not female, it is one of the transgenders, it is only your gender identity that accounts to laws on certain matters where your gender identity can be female.

female
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female
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denoting the sex that can bear offspring or produce eggs, distinguished biologically by the production of gametes (ova) which can be fertilized by male gametes.
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5 hours ago, Tsela said:

There is a demand for it. So let's not lie here. and people are asking for it. Especialy women. But I also wholeheartedly support it.

Even  in this conversation we are talking about it. And it's not the first time this was brought up, and it will not be the last time, be sure of that. Yeah I know feels more convenient saying: Oh I'm not interested, so there is no demand for it, but rest assured, there is a big demand for this. It's not a waste of time and it's quite an issue for many

I think you understood my post wrong.

I am not saying that there is no demand for a third gender, for girls with a penis. There is demand for it and quite a big one.

What I was arguing with – a position of Davi. That if devs will add this third gender (preop mtf, pre operational male to female transsexual) then they also should add preop ftm, postop mtf and postop ftm. There is no reason to add any post operational transexuals as genders because they can just play as a male/female and if they wish – add info about their rl gender in a profile. If we talk about ftm (female to male) pre operational transgenders... Well, I never ever have seen any of them asking here to add an option to play as a boy with a vagina. I have talking with couple of them in 3dxchat, but both was simply playing as a male avi and was fine with it. And if someone don't ask for stuff – I consider that they don't want this stuff, because I can't read people's mind. But in the sametime I know that there is a huge demand for a third gender, for girls with penis, and this gender should be added to the game. 

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7 hours ago, Twiggy said:

This is where the problems lays, no matter what name is used there will be people that will say it is offensive.

There is a difference between being offensive and having people that will say that something is offensive. Officially naming a gender by it's porn name is offensive, no matter what you think about it. Shemale is derogatory slur. Same goes about tranny. 

Tgirl for example much more neutral word and will not be considered as something offensive by the majority. Yes, I agree that you always can find someone who will be offended but it's not a reason to use a name that considered as offensive one by a great part of community, especially as an official naming for a gender in the game.  

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9 hours ago, Davi said:

You are Incorrect, Yes I can, Yes I do and Yes its legal, your Information is behind the times, your opinion is noted and respected but Your Facts are wrong.

We all know that no matter what change you make on yourself in real life, it is purely cosmetic, and it is impossible to actually become a female if you are male, or the other way around. Now I do support you wearing anything changing your look in any way, or even change your name to have another gender's name, if you feel better in your shoes about it. 

But you will never really be a female, nor you ever were. So, stop pretending that you really know how a woman feels, since that clearly is disrespectful towards women, you are not them. You will never know what is like to be a woman. We do respect your choices, but let's not make a mockery of women, shall we?

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I would love to see more winter like locations created.  I can only imagine how awesome the falling snow would look like with the cool graphics you have in world.  IF that were to happen though, we need the clothing designers to create some cute winter clothes.   😀

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Can we unify the updates and messages into a single stream?  Right now, world/local/private messages appear in the chat window, but an alert that someone wants to partner you or friend you appears elsewhere, and an alert that the room is closing appears in the center.  I have to scan around to make sure I don't miss anything (and I do tend to miss those friend/pose alerts!).  Maybe make it so a "Person123 wants to partner with you" message appears inline with the ongoing message stream in the chat window.  Maybe the interaction has to remain somewhere else (buttons might not be possible in the chat window) but at least status changes and action alerts wouldn't get missed while deep in a chat.  I'd see that coloured message in the dialog stream, and pop down to where the action button is to respond to it.

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Native English speaker here, so this doesn't get in my way of understanding what the buttons on the screen are for, but is there a reason that the buttons are text buttons in English?  Could the location button be a globe?  The edit character button a human stick figure?  Chat a mouth icon?  The buttons could be a uniform size and shape, scale for easy viewability, have subtle backgrounds to make the simple icons pop, and be more universally understood.  It would certainly make the UI feel more modern.

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Add the name of the current location to the screen somewhere, so I don't need to go into the location list and scroll to see which is highlighted.  Maybe it's there and I missed it, but something simple like that shouldn't be easily missed.  I would put that in the chat window border title, since a fair amount of time is spent looking at the chat, but a separate screen element is OK too.  I get that the location names can vary widely in size, and can have oddball characters, so might not be so straightforward.

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On 12/28/2019 at 9:41 AM, Pandorra said:

In addition to what @HazyRays said you can use the camera zoom and see every tiny freckle.

unless I'm a complete idiot (always a distinct possibility}, are you talking freecam F5? or merely the mousewheel to zoom? I can't access freecam in edit mode, and all zoom does is allow me to gaze at my navel, not my face.

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Hi ya Oliver, welcome to Forum.

When you refer to “Edit” mode… ya talkin bout building in World Editor or getting dressed n preening in your ensuite?

If its your “mirror” you’re talkin bout,,, click on the HEAD option (upper left screen ) then use your mousewheel to scroll in or out. Use the BODY option when you want to make sure there is no dust bunny hiding in your belly button. ;)

/me thinks Pan is thinkin you’re in World Editor... building stuff, where she likes to hang out. :D

 

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