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Is there still a gentelman?

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Its been very disapointing lately that whrn inlog on to have some fun all i found is horny assholes who only insult or degrade a woman and think that will give them a chance. And what aboutbthe ones who only said " hey nice ass i want to fuck you" 

Wahts wtong with guys lately im aware its a sex based game but seriously none a 5 minutes conversation after getting in to it. Come on. Girls want to be seduced and turned on boys not just boring clicking poses sex. 

Am i right?

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13 minutes ago, TheRealHenkie said:

Only boomers use the word gentleman unironically

maybe i didnt write it right; english is not my native lenguaje.

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Hello Thania,

that seems to be the direction it all takes in the game: Just silent pose-hopping.

Well...fine with me...but all respect and interest in the partner's wishes and joy are gone with it, too.

Feels like what you long for is not "mainstream" here anymore? -a bit sad!

 

 

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Yeah, some guys are total arseholes and think that sex is their right rather than something given. There’s also some guys whose English is crap and they aren’t sure how to start a convo. Still there’s no excuse for not trying.

I’d rather a guy said hello and tried to chat than random partner invites.

 

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10 hours ago, Thania said:

maybe i didnt write it right; english is not my native lenguaje.

You wrote it just fine.  Yes, there are still gentlemen in game. Respect is not dead.  However there are plenty of women out there who find this totally acceptable and say the same things to men and on their profiles.  Keep your standards high, make sure your profile speaks of who you are as he is searching for a lady too.

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10 hours ago, Bridget_Cleary said:

Yeah, some guys are total arseholes and think that sex is their right rather than something given. There’s also some guys whose English is crap and they aren’t sure how to start a convo. Still there’s no excuse for not trying.

I’d rather a guy said hello and tried to chat than random partner invites.

 

Thats right a couople of minutes of chat wont hurt anybody.

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18 hours ago, AvatarDor said:

Hello Thania,

that seems to be the direction it all takes in the game: Just silent pose-hopping.

Well...fine with me...but all respect and interest in the partner's wishes and joy are gone with it, too.

Feels like what you long for is not "mainstream" here anymore? -a bit sad!

 

 

What its really sad is that this crapy behaviour is also in real life. Some guys dont know how to talk to a lady and its very sad that young guys thinks that a picture of their dick is the way to get in someone pants. Its very disapointing

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10 hours ago, SusanLouisa said:

You wrote it just fine.  Yes, there are still gentlemen in game. Respect is not dead.  However there are plenty of women out there who find this totally acceptable and say the same things to men and on their profiles.  Keep your standards high, make sure your profile speaks of who you are as he is searching for a lady too.

I actually think most of that woman in the game are actually guys running a girls avatar. 

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Some of the nicest, sweetest people I have met here are guys.

 

Some of the worst behaviour I have witnessed has been by people I know to be girls.

 

There are undoubtedly a lot of female avi’s controlled by guys, I’ve seen figures as high as 80% quoted by some, though I have no idea how accurate that is.

 

What I do know is, if it’s based on the premise that girls only ever act like angels you should take it with a pinch of salt.

 

If you’re not here for quick sex, then best advice really is to treat this like real life.

 

Wait till you find someone you have a connection with and who is willing to move at your pace, but even then, don’t be surprised if they disappear afterwards.  It’s no secret that patience and honeyed words often include false promises.

 

Take care and have fun  :)

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22 hours ago, Thania said:

I actually think most of that woman in the game are actually guys running a girls avatar. 

And you, are you? No, just saying idk and idgas in fact , I already checked at your profile and your gender is not specified ,just like me, I don't tell, so ,don't be surprise ,most avatar players are not really what they are in real life. And yes, some ppl's play the wrong way.You must choose carefuly with who you hanging on

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20 hours ago, HazyRays said:

If you’re not here for quick sex, then best advice really is to treat this like real life.

I don't think that treating game like a real life is really a good advice in any case :P

Being nice and respectful to people and remembering that they have a real, not virtual hearth and have a real feelings – sure. Treating the game like a real life? Nah, will only drastically increase drama if one will happen. 

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From what I've seen so far in this game, it seems that playing the douchebag card or colding works better than being yourself to get into someone's virtual panties. After playing for around 2 months now I realized how this shit is sooo not me... 

Back to being AFK on a stool I guess.

 

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Man… Woman… and everything in between.

Gender matters not to me

It’s all about who’s behind the curtain

 

Each of us capable of comforting as easily as inflicting pain. Not always in our control. Each responsible for our own actions… as well as our own hearts.

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20 hours ago, Xizl said:

I don't think that treating game like a real life is really a good advice in any case :P

Being nice and respectful to people and remembering that they have a real, not virtual hearth and have a real feelings – sure. Treating the game like a real life? Nah, will only drastically increase drama if one will happen. 

i really dont think that treating like real life its healty, i mean its justa a game but even in a virtual relity i think respect should be a given

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I am a gentleman from the Southern U.S. I am 52 years old. I treat ALL ladies with respect and kindness on 3DX and in real life. Guys, learn some manners towards women, and that goes not just for here, but everywhere!!!!! You would be surprised how far a little respect, courtesy, etc towards the ladies, will go.

 

John

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6 hours ago, Kaitlyn1989 said:

Man… Woman… and everything in between.

 

Gender matters not to me

 

It’s all about who’s behind the curtain

 

 

 

Each of us capable of comforting as easily as inflicting pain. Not always in our control. Each responsible for our own actions… as well as our own hearts.

 

youre right wahtever you decide to play as respect and kindness should be at front, and i dont speak for just in the game situations, even in real life guys (mostly young guys) are acting like assholes. they think a woman will drop her panties just for a horrible dickpic or a patetic pickupline, and you just have to let them have thir way,  i blame the porn indutry lol it kills the romance ;) 

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3 minutes ago, Johnfuzzy said:

I am a gentleman from the Southern U.S. I am 52 years old. I treat ALL ladies with respect and kindness on 3DX and in real life. Guys, learn some manners towards women, and that goes not just for here, but everywhere!!!!! You would be surprised how far a little respect, courtesy, etc towards the ladies, will go.

 

John

beacuse baby you are an oldschool gentelman, and you have been raised to be one, i think most of the guys who act like assholes are young guys in his early 20s or so, they dont have the same culture and education a guy your age has

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6 hours ago, Phoenixsong said:

yes, you are right, and yes there are very few 'gentlemen' on 3dx, but i mean ... it's 3dx .

youre right all in all is justa agame is notlike somene force you to play but come one some guys could try a little more, even like a real life experiment.

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Just now, Thania said:

beacuse baby you are an oldschool gentelman, and you have been raised to be one, i think most of the guys who act like assholes are young guys in his early 20s or so, they dont have the same culture and education a guy your age has

Thank you ma'am for the kind words. I try to be a gentleman because like you said, I was raised that way.

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15 hours ago, rhet said:

Most of the 'women' ain't much better.

Without turning it into a sexist battle, there are injustices committed by both sides. Now I don't know what it "feels" like to have someone say "hey nice ass lets fuck" but I would gather that most didn't come into it speaking in such a way. Colds are a different topic but this is delving into societal and peer behavioral cause and effect as well. As a guy when time and time again, women do some pretty cold and heartless things. Yes some say it's a game and if that's true then things like emotions, courtesy even, and simple community rules almost wouldn't even matter. A game in the sense of dont let emotions get involved is simply a parallel to COD for example. Dangerous thinking. So when a guy is treated worse than a dog when he has been a total gentleman what ends up happening? Of course his line of thinking changes. Same for the ladies. I don't know about anyone else but I could handle someone just bluntly saying "hey lets fuck' a helluva alot easier than putting time, effort, manners into people and they just shit on it. If we want real change we all must do our part and it starts here, communicating. Always be polite be a gentleman be a lady, but also don't let people walk all over you either. 

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People come here for many reasons, you are never going to stop guys from doing that because for some females here, that works. Some here want to be romanced but some come just to fuck and as long as those types are here and like that direct approach, guys will do it. 

 

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