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I think that is what she wants. To show that I don’t have control over who posts here. That point is important enough to her so she repeats. That is ok if it is an honest belief, which is why reply. It is not ok if it intended to be annoying.

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Mar, do you want this to just be another tit for tat argument?

 

It’s easy to play this game, I thought I showed you that. Don’t you want to rise above this now?

I think that is what she wants. To show that I don’t have control over who posts here. That point is important enough to her so she repeats. That is ok if it is an honest belief, which is why reply. It is not ok if it intended to be annoying.

So it's clear to both of you, no tit for tat, certainly no game or done to be annoying.  I'm pointing out that Tamsin is doing exactly what she doesn't want done which is bullying by flat out saying another user's name and/or using a certain person in place of their name.  I'm not trying to show you don't have control, I've asked you to realize you are doing exactly what you don't want done on this very forum and your thread which is bullying.  If you want to have a good diary, then lead by example, don't mention any user(s) where you're directly stating their name or state certain person/people or situations that people are aware of as then they know who you're speaking about as it is masked insults and harassment.

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I think that is what she wants. To show that I don’t have control over who posts here. That point is important enough to her so she repeats. That is ok if it is an honest belief, which is why reply. It is not ok if it intended to be annoying.

Again, you should really check out Manage Ignore Preferences, it is awesome. You cannot read what you cannot see.

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I will do that. I had busy day in real today. Looking at today's posts I am very dissapointed. The usual troll activity has been bad. They have posted some really awful things. I do not want to read this. I do my best to show this for what it is, I make reports about any posts I think break the rules. I feel that I flog the dead donkey but somebody has to stand up for what they believe is right.

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Make sure to report all guilty users not just the ones you don't like.  It is sad that the forum has become this way.  Lead by example, make the change.

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I had made a new post and was ready to copy it here. A lot of what I wanted to say has already been said. Back to the drawing board, no?

 

Last night I had a long conversation in game with a good friend. It was about the recent forum activity. I will not go in to detail now because I do not want to encourage more trolling and bullying. My friend said this 'You can tell from the forum whether or not you want somebody to be your friend in game'. I think this is true, it got me thinking about how we accept people in game. I think it is like real. Close friends the boundaries are wide, no? The relationship takes in a lot. Aquaintances the boundaries are more narrow. People you do not know at all then the boundaries are very tight until you get to know the person. I will risk using a hug as and example. With close friends hugs are wonderful and help support the friendship. Aquaintances perhaps it depends on the person. In most cases probably no. People you do not know at all, or do not like, then a hugs is definately a no. As you get to know someone I think as you come to know them better, perhaps to like them, the boundaries expand.

 

I think shows how 3dxChat mirrors real more than you think. I think this is good. I have made good friends in 3dxChat and have said many times how much I value them. I like that we have conversations about many topics. Serious, just chatting, silly. I like that my good friends often say things that make me think.

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Last night my friends asked me why I decided to start posting feminist memes in another diary. Many questions friends ask make me think. It is part of why they are friends. My reasons are not simple. I admit that I do want to annoy the owner of the diary. That is only part of it. I think that there is a more serious point. I think that some men here think sexism is OK in a sex game. I think some men want the women here to be sex objects. Just like in real, women want to be accepted for who they are as an individual and as a woman. In the same way a man wants acceptance as an individual as well as a man. I think the same goes for others on the, I hope that this is right, gender continuum. It is part of what makes us who we are. I think it is important to challenge sexism when it occurs. I hope in this case it is amusing. It will become boring eventually. Then I will stop.

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Last night my friends asked me why I decided to start posting feminist memes in another diary. Many questions friends ask make me think. It is part of why they are friends. My reasons are not simple. I admit that I do want to annoy the owner of the diary. That is only part of it. I think that there is a more serious point. I think that some men here think sexism is OK in a sex game. I think some men want the women here to be sex objects. Just like in real, women want to be accepted for who they are as an individual and as a woman. In the same way a man wants acceptance as an individual as well as a man. I think the same goes for others on the, I hope that this is right, gender continuum. It is part of what makes us who we are. I think it is important to challenge sexism when it occurs. I hope in this case it is amusing. It will become boring eventually. Then I will stop.

Sexism, prejudice or discrimination based on sex or gender, especially against women and girls. Although its origin is unclear, the term sexism emerged from the so-called “second-wave” feminism of the 1960s through the ’80s and was most likely modeled on the civil rights movement’s term racism (prejudice or discrimination based on race). Sexism can be a belief that one sex is superior to or more valuable than another sex. It imposes limits on what men and boys can and should do and what women and girls can and should do. The concept of sexism was originally formulated to raise consciousness about the oppression of girls and women, although by the early 21st century it had sometimes been expanded to include the oppression of any sex, including men and boys, intersexual people, and transgender people.

 

Yet you're going after a male on here including his diary by making those comments with memes about feminism.  Do you no realize how sexist that is against males?

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This is interesting, like why does Xandi support RobT pretty much all the time when he posts derogatory memes towards women when she says in her last post that she supports gender, and probably other, equality.

 

Actually I don’t think it’s really about feminism or anything other than simply showing dominance over the forums and the game. To my mind the troll of myself, Twiggy, Tamsin and Chloe makes this absolutely clear. Oh and btw it revealed who the main players were, that they troll as a group and who their various alts are.

 

Big respect to Tams for drawing this one out in to the open forum.

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Also why do you assume I'm supporting him? Yall have been bringing my name into this since the great hug debate. Just because I dont agree with you or your opinions doesnt mean anything other than that.. and yes, if you need a reason why I back him up when he is right its cuz I love him.

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You’ve been found out, three trolls, maybe only two, and a shed load of alts to troll a minority sex game and it’s forum. Does that seem like big time trolling? No way, lmao. They’re here because they’ve been kicked out of most places and can’t take the heat elsewhere.

 

What is really sad is that the big loser will be Gizmo who has money invested in this. Our investment only extends to when our sub expires, so if it gets that bad or the plug gets pulled then our loss is limited.

 

A quick edit to avoid a multiple post - so it is right to denigrate women? Ok that’s what you think, just don’t go thinking you’ll get on in rl with that attitude.

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Also why do you assume I'm supporting him? Yall have been bringing my name into this since the great hug debate. Just because I dont agree with you or your opinions doesnt mean anything other than that.. and yes, if you need a reason why I back him up when he is right its cuz I love him.

She has her nose buried way up in his butt, all she can smell is his poop, which by chance she also loves.

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Yep you did. If only by implication. No need to pick up on your other point, really. You show yourself up for who, and what, you are.

 

Further edit - sorry for first edit. Rl intrusion.

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