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Click on what looks like the picture next to the blue double arrows and then paste the url into that then the picture will show.

 

Thank you, Mar_Mohan. That is what I did. I will try again sometime. The Dalai Lama is somebody who cannot fail to be respected.

 

Edit here. Thank you too Mikey.

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Click on what looks like the picture next to the blue double arrows and then paste the url into that then the picture will show.

Yeah this works too, unless your trying to pull it using an iPhone and chrome, me thinks some copyright protection is afoot.

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RobT and LilCal have nothing to offer my diary. They go away now.

Again, I have not been rude, or even very argumentative. Only spoke on my opinion which differs from yours. So thank you for also illustrating my point for me. I have no intentions to take over your diary. I have spoken my piece..I will step out for now. Sends out hugs.

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RobT and LilCal have nothing to offer my diary. They go away now.

Some just can't help themselves. Try using Manage Ignore Preferences. Edited by Sleeper_Girl

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Thank you Xandisweet, I think you will understand why I take your good wishes with a lot of caution. Now i ask everybody to take their altercations elsewhere, even those people i normally accept. I suggest a certain new diary that has appeared is a good place. I say that anybody can post here if they abide by my rules and show respect and talk with intelligence, humour and consideration for other people. I make exception for RobT who I do not want here again.

 

I do not think that is too much to ask.

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http://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/1425-3dxchat-community-rules/

I'm posting this here because this may be your diary you can't control who or who does not post on it as it's public.  I'm not saying this because of anyone, I'm saying it because of what the site is.  You can't state they need to follow your rules, a user must follow the rules set forth by the Devs provide as this is their forum.

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http://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/1425-3dxchat-community-rules/

I'm posting this here because this may be your diary you can't control who or who does not post on it as it's public.  I'm not saying this because of anyone, I'm saying it because of what the site is.  You can't state they need to follow your rules, a user must follow the rules set forth by the Devs provide as this is their forum.

So helpful always, thanks Mar. Knew you did care.

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I want to reply to Mar_Mohan. She has missed my point. I do realise that I do not have any control over who posts here. What I was asking for was for people to to show each other respect when they do. That is why I say it is not too much to ask. I would like this thread to be a beacon to show how the forums could be if people want it. I want it to be a positive diary. I want it to be a brave diary too, that does not avoid controversy. Where difficult topics are discussed with respect, intelligence and consideration for others. I would like humour as well, teasing is OK, no. Bullying and trolling will be reported. I think this is what was intended when the user diaries were created.

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Ah ha!

I don’t see that on the mobile version so that explains it, thank you for stopping me from the use of my office computer to post to a a sex site forum test it lol

Okay I won’t detract any further. Carry on! As you were!

Using my celly right now and it works exactly the same on the phone’s web browser as on my lap top browser. I didn’t use the actual mobile app but going to check it out now.

 

EDIT: The mobile app was useless.

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Thank you Xandisweet, I think you will understand why I take your good wishes with a lot of caution. Now i ask everybody to take their altercations elsewhere, even those people i normally accept. I suggest a certain new diary that has appeared is a good place. I say that anybody can post here if they abide by my rules and show respect and talk with intelligence, humour and consideration for other people. I make exception for RobT who I do not want here again.

 

I do not think that is too much to ask.

 

 

http://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/1425-3dxchat-community-rules/

 

I'm posting this here because this may be your diary you can't control who or who does not post on it as it's public.  I'm not saying this because of anyone, I'm saying it because of what the site is.  You can't state they need to follow your rules, a user must follow the rules set forth by the Devs provide as this is their forum.

 

 

I want to reply to Mar_Mohan. She has missed my point. I do realise that I do not have any control over who posts here. What I was asking for was for people to to show each other respect when they do. That is why I say it is not too much to ask. I would like this thread to be a beacon to show how the forums could be if people want it. I want it to be a positive diary. I want it to be a brave diary too, that does not avoid controversy. Where difficult topics are discussed with respect, intelligence and consideration for others. I would like humour as well, teasing is OK, no. Bullying and trolling will be reported. I think this is what was intended when the user diaries were created.

I didn't miss your point.  While you want your diary to be one thing, that's all well and good but as you has stated and I quoted it this time, you don't have rules.  All you can do is ask people to be respectful in how they comment.  It shouldn't matter who they are as you even stated that.  Then you singled out RobT who you don't want on your public diary.  Given that we can't control it maybe not provoking a response would be a good start to keep the diary as you want it.  I do want you or anyone else to have a good diary or even forum but at the same time we all need to understand in this day and age, everyone has an opinion even if it differs from ours.  All the best in a good diary.

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I try to set an example. That is all. I do not want RobT to post here because I do not think he will follow that example. I change my mind if he shows he can. I say the same to everybody else who I am not sure of. I cannot enforce my wishes, I can only ask people to abide by them. I do not want to have to enforce my wishes. The point of my request is for people to show that they can moderate themselves. I think you understand this and you are finding your own approach.

 

Today has been a better day on the forums. Very quiet therefore not a good example. I cannot hope that it is anything to do with my diary. That will come if enough people decide they want to be mindful of others.

 

Please forgive if you think I preach.

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I try to set an example. That is all. I do not want RobT to post here because I do not think he will follow that example. I change my mind if he shows he can. I say the same to everybody else who I am not sure of. I cannot enforce my wishes, I can only ask people to abide by them. I do not want to have to enforce my wishes. The point of my request is for people to show that they can moderate themselves. I think you understand this and you are finding your own approach.

 

Today has been a better day on the forums. Very quiet therefore not a good example. I cannot hope that it is anything to do with my diary. That will come if enough people decide they want to be mindful of others.

 

Please forgive if you think I preach.

You are directly targeting one user who you don't like, this is considered a form of harassment as he's not even replied you thread recently, yet you continue to bring him up.  If you don't want a reply from him, wouldn't it be easier to not mention him or a masked comment directed about him?  I clearly understood the point of a forum and I know how to control myself as I do it very well even when things were horrific against me by others.  I don't think you preach but as I said in my previous post, if you wish to have a good diary make that change yourself, don't bring up others even without mentioning their name.  If you state you don't want bullies to be on this forum, lead by example.

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Mar, do you want this to just be another tit for tat argument?

 

It’s easy to play this game, I thought I showed you that. Don’t you want to rise above this now?

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