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30 minutes ago, Nektar said:

Angelqueen, I think what's important to remember here is consent. Nobody can force this pose on you. Anyone who agrees to this pose is not being abused or dehumanized, just playing a game or living out a fantasy.

There are a number of us submissives and degradees, guys and girls, who find being put in these kinds of poses thrilling, but also a number of decidedly more vanilla people who also find this kind of stuff titillating. Adding this pose just added a new toy to our playkit. No harm in having more options, the way I see it.

That being said, I hope upcoming updates will include some more positions with broader use/appeal for all users, now that us fabulous freaks in the crowd have gotten our glory holes, spankings, slappings and chokings :) It's nice to have ones kinks catered to, but going forward it's probably not a bad idea to focus more on fucking in general.

I have a honest question if you don't mind.
The 'fearful' expression of the 'choking' pose and the face slap one, is that then part of said kink?
I'm trying to word this so it can't be seen as kink shaming. As that is not my intention.
I'm genuinely asking if those expressions are part of the 'appeal' of said poses.
Because I admit they make me uncomfortable, but if that is part of said kink, well...
I'm never gonna use them, but if they appeal to others, that's their choice.

 

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16 minutes ago, MeiLing said:

Don't you think that a smile would be great there (not the choking position)

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I am not against this left pose, because a part of users likes this and many of us have kinks, but to make female avi smile in this action can be such a good idea (as an option) as a picture of mutual enjoyment. Good one.

ps: is there a lot of bdsm poses somewhere?

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1 hour ago, Derai said:

I have a honest question if you don't mind.
The 'fearful' expression of the 'choking' pose and the face slap one, is that then part of said kink?
I'm trying to word this so it can't be seen as kink shaming. As that is not my intention.
I'm genuinely asking if those expressions are part of the 'appeal' of said poses.
Because I admit they make me uncomfortable, but if that is part of said kink, well...
I'm never gonna use them, but if they appeal to others, that's their choice.

 

I don't mind, and I don't think you're kink shaming :) I'll do my best to answer this, but keep in mind I can't speak for everyone on this.

The expression is not ideal in my book, but neither would having the woman smiling felt right. An expression of exhiliration or anticipation would have served better, but it's hard to get subtle nuances across in a 3d model. The thing about chocking is the recipient is potentially quite literally putting his or her life in another person's hands irl, and the rollercoaster of emotions, from excitement to fear, lust and trust, well, how does one convey that on an avatar?

Keep in mind, a lot of bdsm has a bit of a playacting element to it. People step into roles of subs, doms, brats etc. so in my mind the female avatar is probably hamming the fear up a bit, to add to the roleplay involved. I admit that this is just me adding context to a still picture, but I have a hard time imagining a real life bdsm couple where the sub is in mortal fear of the dominant.

I fully get that this makes a lot of people uncomfortable. This is niche, advanced stuff. It is absolutely not for everybody. Like I said in my last post in the thread, I do hope future poses will be a bit less niche and have a broader appeal.

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22 minutes ago, Ross the RoberT said:

im no expert but even if it was my kink, i dont think you would smile while getting your oxygen supply cut off, just saying. just like a person wouldnt jump for joy if a 15 inch dildo got jammed up his or her ass. they might be into that but im pretty sure at first it doesnt feel great

You probably right to some point, but did you see a new pose? It's not some hardcore choking that cuts off oxygen supply. It's more about dominance/roughness. Active partner choke girl only a tiny bit in this pose, I am not even sure the word "choking" is related to this pose, more like just a grip (and not very tight one) on girl's throat. So it would be okay if the girl would smile in this case, if she into it. I probably would prefer smiling/happy version over current, somewhat scary one. 

Tho tbh, smiling is really not very related to such a pose, even if it's not a real choking. Horny/excited/sensual expression would be best suitable. If she would bite on her lower lip from time to time for example. 

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I personally like the so called "choking" pose. Same feeling is shared by the special person in the game. 

The only problem I have with it really, is that odd shaking motion they do in that pose which is really unnecessary, to shake a girl's neck, like the dog shakes off his leg after accidentally pissing on it... I find it a bit weird. Well it's not a perfect pose.

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4 hours ago, Tsela said:

I personally like the so called "choking" pose. Same feeling is shared by the special person in the game. 

The only problem I have with it really, is that odd shaking motion they do in that pose which is really unnecessary, to shake a girl's neck, like the dog shakes off his leg after accidentally pissing on it... I find it a bit weird. Well it's not a perfect pose.

The 1st one pose?

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On 2/21/2020 at 12:46 PM, Angelqueen said:

Dear @Gizmo and devs team! Dont be shy please.... if you dont have imagination, or clue, or taste  to make good and sexy sexposes... just type in the google "Porn poses"...

There is a paradox here. You ask for sexy poses (that we, women, really need) and you propose to type "porn poses" in google. The paradox is that porn poses are not sexy at all :)

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Now, about the two (for us women) last poses on the stool. Personally, i will never use the strangling pose as i'm against violence. I know, you will say "this is not a strangling pose it's a choking pose". Uhuh, the woman really don't seem to apreciate the pose if you look closely to her face. The second one is a very nice and needed cuddle pose. 

So even if i don't like the strangling pose, just for the cuddle one i will say good work.

I will not judge the additional pose that MF have because i will never use them :D

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How about some fun poses, why does everyting have to be so serious, like some of you are so soopa serious about ya sexxins ROFL. 

New poses are ok, id onleh eva use one of thems, standing there and getting choked and lookin like im in a horror moof is kinda Meh!

Im sure fo some of you RPing getting dommed bah a strangler is like top of ya listins so enjoy but fo me most of these new poses are missing tha mark.

How abouts a simple holding hands pose or be able to walk together holding hands, a pose im sure would get used by soooo many peeps fo sooo many scenarios and a lead on to other poses we alreadeh have. Just a thought :P

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