AndreaSix Posted May 31, 2018 Share Posted May 31, 2018 I think a flag is simply a flag, then if a person wants to give that flag a different meaning, it is free to do it, but I think that to say that a person is racist, this person must behave and act like a racist; all the rest is just talk PabloNap and βπΌπ©β§ 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OLESYA Posted May 31, 2018 Share Posted May 31, 2018 I fully support BIALAETICATI! I'm against Racism !!! From Russia with love! βπΌπ©β§ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hotness Posted May 31, 2018 Share Posted May 31, 2018 i think it is a good thing you removed the flag. i did not report it but i was offended seeing it in your room Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BIALAETICAT Posted May 31, 2018 Author Share Posted May 31, 2018 Ok MarMohan vou conversar com ele e se ele realmente se desculpoΒ ok Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xandisweet Posted May 31, 2018 Share Posted May 31, 2018 Honestly Allie was the one who blew it up. No one called you racist. That reiterates that youβre taking this way out of proportion. The controversy of the flag is the reason it was brought to your attention. If youβre willing to accept that you could seriously offend someone and not on a troll level.. then thatβs on you. But I will repeat... NO ONE CALLED YOU RACIST. Mar Mohan and RobT 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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BIALAETICAT Posted May 31, 2018 Author Share Posted May 31, 2018 BIG SUCESS IN USAΒ STRANGE?THEY ARE RACISTS? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessicaX Posted May 31, 2018 Share Posted May 31, 2018 I don't see anyone calling you a racist. But that flag is a symbol of racism. These are 2 separate issues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
βπΌπ©β§ Posted May 31, 2018 Share Posted May 31, 2018 For the record jimmy did pm her and was polite about it. She just decided to ignore it and start drama in a forum thread. So whos the troll now, i will let you figure that one out.Β Questioning someone with a racist symbol in his or her room isnt trolling at all. Nor is responding to a statement in a forum thread. Nice try, try againI don`t know who is this jimmy, there many jimmies in the game. I haven`t seen this action cuz I am rare check our world chat, but I don`tΒ think that after one polite /pm someone will come on the forum to create a whole topic. for real? is it true? I just don`t know, thats why I asking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BIALAETICAT Posted May 31, 2018 Author Share Posted May 31, 2018 the problem is that people here play words on the air and think that it's okay, if I was not called a racist directly indirectly so because of what many understand who puts a flag that some say is racist evidently accepted it, it's not my case and I said , but people think so and this harms me because I open my rooms and who wants to come to my room because these people indirectly put me as a racist .. I just put the photo of a great American series where the protagonists used the flag in their car, They were just as talkative as I was because I had the flag in the car, of course not because it did not matter to anyone that they were labeled racist. that simple... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BIALAETICAT Posted May 31, 2018 Author Share Posted May 31, 2018 and there are still people who tell me you were wrong to do the post, you should keep quiet. this is the thinking of the weak. Shut up is better for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mar Mohan Posted May 31, 2018 Share Posted May 31, 2018 Dukes of Hazard isn't on air anymore and if it was scheduled it was pulled because of the flag along with many other things that has it due to what it's considered.Β Government offices that hung it have since removed it due to it being considered as a support for racism along with many other places.Β There are rules to this game for a reason so everyone that joins can come here and enjoy it no matter their race, sex and so on.http://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/1425-3dxchat-community-rules/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BIALAETICAT Posted May 31, 2018 Author Share Posted May 31, 2018 funny that when it matters everyone has an answer for everything it is not even Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xandisweet Posted May 31, 2018 Share Posted May 31, 2018 *sighs* keep making a big deal out of it... dukes of hazard isnβt rock and roll either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xandisweet Posted May 31, 2018 Share Posted May 31, 2018 Also yes someone will come to the forums to complain about just about anything if they are thick headed and not willing to listen to reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BIALAETICAT Posted May 31, 2018 Author Share Posted May 31, 2018 yes thats it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PabloNap Posted May 31, 2018 Share Posted May 31, 2018 you are a sociable person, good, nice, always ready to help those who ask for your help and above all very sensitive, unfortunately the world, as well as this chat, is full of idiots who pollute the air with their presence and the nonsense that they say, otherwise we will not have the problem of the ozone hole ... your rooms are the place where I and others like me find more pleasure to be, where you meet beautiful people like you and where any one can feel at home, so do not consider the crap that some idiots say about you, because those who know you know that they are all lies and knows how much you are worth Gallaxa and BIALAETICAT 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tlaera Posted June 1, 2018 Share Posted June 1, 2018 As with most potentially hurtful things, intent means more than action.Β And this goes both ways.Β A racist can make anything a slur, from a white sheet, to the word "monkey," to the word "sir."Β It's easy for a non-racist to stumble across one of these slurs and accidentally offend someone.Β People being offended should look at the offender's intent, not her action.Β Was she trying to offend?Β Was she trying to exclude?Β Did she know how her actions were being interpreted? Β Β Bialaeticat, you did nothing wrong by hanging a flag in your room, because it wasn't your intent to exclude people or make them uncomfortable.Β You're not a racist for having a confederate flag in your room.Β However, you did something very right by taking the flag down.Β Whether reasonable or not, and regardless of the legality of it, that flag was making some of your visitors uncomfortable.Β And, since making them uncomfortable was not your intent, it was good to take it down.Β That other people use similar imagery is immaterial.Β There were people offended by the Dukes of Hazard.Β There are people offended by Kid Rock.Β It is better to stick to your intent (not to exclude people) and choose your actions appropriately (the way you took the flag down when you learned how people were interpreting it) than it is to try to justify yourself.Β You have nothing that needs justifying. Β Β Tlaera Xandisweet, JessicaX, Perimede and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BIALAETICAT Posted June 1, 2018 Author Share Posted June 1, 2018 Thank you Tamara Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessicaX Posted June 1, 2018 Share Posted June 1, 2018 As with most potentially hurtful things, intent means more than action.Β And this goes both ways.Β A racist can make anything a slur, from a white sheet, to the word "monkey," to the word "sir."Β It's easy for a non-racist to stumble across one of these slurs and accidentally offend someone.Β People being offended should look at the offender's intent, not her action.Β Was she trying to offend?Β Was she trying to exclude?Β Did she know how her actions were being interpreted? Β Β Bialaeticat, you did nothing wrong by hanging a flag in your room, because it wasn't your intent to exclude people or make them uncomfortable.Β You're not a racist for having a confederate flag in your room.Β However, you did something very right by taking the flag down.Β Whether reasonable or not, and regardless of the legality of it, that flag was making some of your visitors uncomfortable.Β And, since making them uncomfortable was not your intent, it was good to take it down.Β That other people use similar imagery is immaterial.Β There were people offended by the Dukes of Hazard.Β There are people offended by Kid Rock.Β It is better to stick to your intent (not to exclude people) and choose your actions appropriately (the way you took the flag down when you learned how people were interpreting it) than it is to try to justify yourself.Β You have nothing that needs justifying. Β Β TlaeraWell said. βπΌπ©β§ and BIALAETICAT 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YouAreMySpecial Posted June 1, 2018 Share Posted June 1, 2018 Something has come to my attention lately and that's the selective enforcement on the rules, you get major backlash simply for having a confederate flag (Albeit it can be considered racist). But other rooms get away with their bullshit on daily basis, and whenever someone reports them NOTHING is done whatsoever towards that cause. How is it fair to target one person who Isn't even American to make them feel bad? I swear this site is starting to become more like Twitch where the rules won't apply to you if you fall within a certain category. So as a little protest I'll be rocking this flag from now on until they decide to be equal about the situation, and shame on you for feeling offended for other people.Β Β Vaughan_Rarius 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perimede Posted June 1, 2018 Share Posted June 1, 2018 As with most potentially hurtful things, intent means more than action.Β And this goes both ways.Β A racist can make anything a slur, from a white sheet, to the word "monkey," to the word "sir."Β It's easy for a non-racist to stumble across one of these slurs and accidentally offend someone.Β People being offended should look at the offender's intent, not her action.Β Was she trying to offend?Β Was she trying to exclude?Β Did she know how her actions were being interpreted? Β Β Bialaeticat, you did nothing wrong by hanging a flag in your room, because it wasn't your intent to exclude people or make them uncomfortable.Β You're not a racist for having a confederate flag in your room.Β However, you did something very right by taking the flag down.Β Whether reasonable or not, and regardless of the legality of it, that flag was making some of your visitors uncomfortable.Β And, since making them uncomfortable was not your intent, it was good to take it down.Β That other people use similar imagery is immaterial.Β There were people offended by the Dukes of Hazard.Β There are people offended by Kid Rock.Β It is better to stick to your intent (not to exclude people) and choose your actions appropriately (the way you took the flag down when you learned how people were interpreting it) than it is to try to justify yourself.Β You have nothing that needs justifying. Β Β TlaeraΒ Ah the voice of good sense :-)Β What I find worrying is the apparrent difficulty some people have with accepting that Bia's intent was not to promote racism and have used that as a way of making her feel she has to justify herself. I'm also worried that this sort of behaviour is creeping back in to the forums after a couple or three months relative calm. Yeah, I know this is potentially an emotive issue, and one which people hold strong opinions. It is still possible to discuss these things without anybody going off on one. BIALAETICAT 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chaostika Posted June 1, 2018 Share Posted June 1, 2018 Β Β Β and besides that: [3dxchat-forum] always amazing and at its best: [starts as a flag topic],[shortly||then] turns into a [futaNgenderwars] thread on its way with some bear knuckle fights, to finally end up, [with other fallen bags of rice] probably made, or reimported in china, korea, vietnam or any country - of ur choice!Β ps: and btw, some ppl with a [straight]s [master race idiology] should maybe acknowledge, accept n realize, that they're NOT alone on this planet withthere sexual preferences and, or, orientations and probably, maybe, eventually, should also #NOT always, put evrything into #1basket and #not: #calleverybody:Β Β Β Β Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chaostika Posted June 1, 2018 Share Posted June 1, 2018 all good rob - #allgood and well, the earth is still turning, isnt it!? ... .. . and jimmy - is still spamm'n in it aaaand besides thatΒ Β Β RobT and βπΌπ©β§ 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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