Ok, I obviously don't know how long it will take for this to appear, but here goes.   I had made friends here and I may have ruined some friendships due to my behaviour/asking too much/getting in the way. I only do it because I care and hope my friends (that I do have) are doing ok. I guess that's no real excuse if I've went overboard and I'm deeply sorry to people I've upset or caused problems.    Obviously not naming anyone, you might even know who you are. There is nothing I can do but apolog