Caydyn Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 If I have to move around. (i get bored with the same area a lot) I will just open a pm and still talk. It's like the equivalent to texting for me. . Again it is the internet.. Some people will be rude, and inconsiderate, just move on and find others that are looking for the same thing. Many people play the games for different reasons and It's something we have to adapt to ^__^. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robear Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 I have been thinking about this for a few days Freezer and how best to reply without typing out a full book as I struggle to convey things in just a few mere words. As Macca said there are different kinds of people here. Some will chat to you out of courtesy and others will genuinely want to speak with you it is just more miss than hit on the Russian Roulette scale. It is unfortunate when you are speaking with somebody and they randomly change locations or just flat ignore you and speak to somebody else, however you get used to it and you develop a thicker skin. Please note I am NOT saying this is everyone so please put away the pitchforks. It has happened to all of us, however in the throng you always find somebody worth talking to. I have had many a discussion with both sexes from a simple Hi that turned into amazing discussions of politics, economics, sexuality, life, love and many other topics and the fluidity with which they change is something to behold. Not all turn to flirting and it is not something I actively seek but if it does turn to flirting, so be it. I have lost hours talking, just like I lose hours with music All I can say is that you will continue to have this experience and you just need to take the good with the bad. You will have some amazing, fulfilling conversations and you will have a few short ones that end with no word, just take them as they come, brush yourself off, and seek out the diamonds. Well said and put Mikey... it's just the game of life one never gives up on... plenty of fish out there to seek, when u catch a bad one, try try again until u find that one that makes up for all the rest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robear Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 If I have to move around. (i get bored with the same area a lot) I will just open a pm and still talk. It's like the equivalent to texting for me. . Again it is the internet.. Some people will be rude, and inconsiderate, just move on and find others that are looking for the same thing. Many people play the games for different reasons and It's something we have to adapt to ^__^. True that! Welcome to the internet eh! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Im also a "talking person" and, for this reason, i have few friends and spend too much time dancing alone in 3DX. I think there are two kind of people out there. Some have a lot of friend, lot of time in 3DX and don't care about the newbies, like me. Other people just want to quick chat and sex and this type don't fit me well. Its really SUCK A LOT trying approach people there...still looking to find my people lol Stewie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Doll Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Im also a "talking person" and, for this reason, i have few friends and spend too much time dancing alone in 3DX. I think there are two kind of people out there. Some have a lot of friend, lot of time in 3DX and don't care about the newbies, like me. Other people just want to quick chat and sex and this type don't fit me well. Its really SUCK A LOT trying approach people there...still looking to find my people lolMist...aww hon come talk to me anytime I'm dancing about.I've been in 3dx a while...don't have many friends...a few awesome ones I've known for a while and some new ones I met very recently...and I remember exactly what it's like to be a newbie. I'm not interested in anything other than chat except with my Lady so you get no ulterior motive with me Mist and MikeyZA 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeyZA Posted September 26, 2014 Share Posted September 26, 2014 Im also a "talking person" and, for this reason, i have few friends and spend too much time dancing alone in 3DX. I think there are two kind of people out there. Some have a lot of friend, lot of time in 3DX and don't care about the newbies, like me. Other people just want to quick chat and sex and this type don't fit me well. Its really SUCK A LOT trying approach people there...still looking to find my people lol There are a lot of cool people, like Doll who will be your friend and talk to you without an ulterior motive to get into your pants You can even drop me a Hi if you see me... unless I am asleep in my beanbag chair in which case I will apologize now Mist 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deano Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 I think it's that simple....if the person you flirt with likes you, she/he won't leave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted September 27, 2014 Share Posted September 27, 2014 I cant even imagine what is a "ulterior motive" but if I see you guys I will say HI ^.^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tanyatranny Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 When it comes to getting in touch with other people I tend to talk in local chat a lot to keep the atmosphere lively and to allow people in the room to learn what type of person I am. Ideally, people that like me would then start a private chat if they want to get to know me better. I will always talk to people that say hi to me, but am often disappointed when I discover they didn't even read my profile text. If they did they already have an advantage. And yes, a lot of people are here just to have virtual sex and don't give a rat's ass about personality. But there are enough interesting people around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freezer Posted September 29, 2014 Author Share Posted September 29, 2014 Thank you for your posts everybody, I think I am getting a good take on how people thinks about this issue. Tanya and Mist, If I see you around I will definitely say 'hi' to you without any 'ulterior motive' Cheers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeyZA Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 What we mean by ulterior motive Mist is we are going to say hi, but not try to get into your pants Tanyatranny and Mist 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blythe Posted November 5, 2014 Share Posted November 5, 2014 Thanks All! Very useful to me as a newbie.I do always check out people's profiles. Speaking of which, it kind of irks me when a Profile only says "I love 3DXChat" in the details. Seems they're missing a good opportunity to "pre-qualify" the people who interact with them. Perhaps it happens because English is not their native language - in which case, I certainly understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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