Linky Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 For those new to the game and for those seasoned, welcoming new members into our growing community...How do you make your the initial contact / first message ! Give us your best tips! Romantic or platonic is welcomed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nymphpott Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 I usually just dance and people talk to me... Rarely do i make first contact. I like when people act human. Act like themselves. No macho stuff, No cavemen pickup pervy stuff or Holier then tho attitude. . leave your ego at the door and make me laugh or smile. Just be normal.. Troela and Freya 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashbash Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 If I know someone is a new person to the game I always greet them with "Welcome to the world of 3DXChat! I hope you enjoy the game and have fun and meet many people!" Then I give them a welcome hug as well as I say that. Kind RegardsMrAsh ajay 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Doll Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Personally I like the old favourite "Hey baby want to fuck" Honestly, makes me melt everytime Riela, Freya and Tanyatranny 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashbash Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Personally I like the old favourite "Hey baby want to fuck" Honestly, makes me melt everytime Ahh getting straight to the point hehe! I will admit that is one funny way to approach someone! It's funny when people get slapped ingame or something for it, makes it even more hilarious! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Doll Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Personally I like the old favourite"Hey baby want to fuck"Honestly, makes me melt everytime*puts a bucket under this to catch the sarcasm dripping off* Sol, Freya, AmyNurse and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wizard Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 "Hi, have you seen this boy?" while holding a picture of John Connor. CatBurglar 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatBurglar Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 When I talk to a man ill say " How's it hanging " and if they respond to me saying "limp and to the left" then I want to know more When I talk to a woman ill say " Hi sweetie Im Cat I like your profile " then proceed to telling them what I like in their profile here some free advice if you profile says I Love 3dxchat your not going to make many friends so you should just hang out with the sexbots in your room Erikaspencer, Staci, pashion and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cassidy Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 I ususally ask people a question they can not answer no to ^^ And if they are rude back I tell them to fuck off :-P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trillia Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 I usually don't start the conversation, but I will put funny questions in my profile that help guys approach me. My favorites are "guess what my favorite position is?" Or "what was I wearing last night?" Guys will start IMing me guesses and the funniest get my attention ajay and Tanyatranny 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexina Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 First message? .. i say: haaii .. works evrytiem :3 Freya 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staci Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 I usually say hi or give them a shout out on their excellent dancing. And well sometimes a random hug...right Linky That may not be appropriate for everyone but ..gee it can make a smile. Respecting Boundaries is important. I don't think you have much to lose with just saying hi and seeing what happens. I met quite a few newer players who say they appreciated the greeting to make them feel welcome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linky Posted August 16, 2014 Author Share Posted August 16, 2014 I hate it when guys message my friends and want sex right away... where is the intimacy or bonding? Staci and Playme 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeyZA Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 Hey there I like your shoes wanna fu.... Nope, that goes on the nope train that passes through nopeville on the way to nopetown I tend to be slightly shy so I usually go Hi I'm Mike, but then it's obvious, you are pretty.... Uhhhhh.... And then flail around from there Or I just go Hi I'm Mike I like your profile and work from there Or I sit quietly and wait for a reply to my funny profile MikeRUS 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tanyatranny Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 Aren't you just supposed to cold partner the hot chick you spot, invite her to blow you in the middle of the dance floor and then send angry PM's when she refuses? That's what usually happens to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sol Posted August 21, 2014 Share Posted August 21, 2014 Aren't you just supposed to cold partner the hot chick you spot, invite her to blow you in the middle of the dance floor and then send angry PM's when she refuses? That's what usually happens to me. My god, we've been doing it all wrong all this time! Tanyatranny 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JanaX Posted August 24, 2014 Share Posted August 24, 2014 When I approach someone - I'll usually read their profile, go with a greeting then start talking to them about their profile, the game, how they are doing, etc, with an assumption that even if it doesn't lead anywhere (which I don't always want it to), then at least I've got a chance to talk to someone interesting, make a friend. I'm kind of shy so an interesting profile is needed for my curiosity to overcome my shyness. That said, I will approach "I Love 3dxchat" people on the assumption that they're new, probably a bit confused and might like some help. Once you've been playing a little while I think it's your duty to help out newer players, so I don't really like Cat's comments, as most of them will just be newbies. If you want me to have no interest in you as a person, cold me, hug me, call me any misogynistic term (sl*, bi*, wh* anything like that), suggest you have a big member, go with wanna F* or some variant. I'm a human being deserving of respect, treat me like one and I'll melt, but I won't have sex the first time I meet you. MikeyZA 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eroaulon Posted August 24, 2014 Share Posted August 24, 2014 Most of the time if I approach a guy it is done through a small RP or a strip tease. The RPies can be as simple as running my finger from one shoulder to the other as I walk behind him, but more descriptive, and leaving a smile behind to linger. Most of the time this I do this to see how well he RPies back. Woman are sightly different as honestly it is very rare I approach one. MikeyZA and Linky 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sol Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 Well, for new people, or any people at all, I'd say the best thing to do (except for all the stuff mentioned above) is to write something in your damn profile. MOST people will read your profile before anything else, if it has nothing interesting in it or doesn't give anyone an idea of what/who you are/want you're not very interesting. But most of those who use the forums already know that and stuffs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Doll Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 Well, for new people, or any people at all, I'd say the best thing to do (except for all the stuff mentioned above) is to write something in your damn profile. MOST people will read your profile before anything else, if it has nothing interesting in it or doesn't give anyone an idea of what/who you are/want you're not very interesting. But most of those who use the forums already know that and stuffs. On the flip side of this if people start a convo with me and clearly haven't bothered to read my profile then you've already got a mountain to climb to convince me you actually want to get to know me. Rather than just making a perfunctory prelude to an invite after the "hi, how are you?" Is that a tepid invite? I'm sure most guys and gals here are the same... JanaX 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JanaX Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 Agree always always read the profile of the person you are about to talk to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Florine Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 I farts on people and they falls in love of me... I'm still wondering why... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HornyNinja69 Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 I may not be the right guy to listen to, but don't use cheesy pick up lines. Read there profile comment on that, or something going on life, or in game life. Ask how there day's going, if they like the game, where there from, stuff like that. For example hear's one thing I said to someone when I was at the beach, she was laying under a char *Hello. Mind if I sit here? What are you doing? I see don't like the sun huh. Are you a vampire?* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackValentine Posted September 12, 2014 Share Posted September 12, 2014 "Hi, Im super cool, u gonna accept tht friend request now." Shanti 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hera Posted September 12, 2014 Share Posted September 12, 2014 "Hi, Im super cool, u gonna accept tht friend request now." HAHAHAHA no it is - throw a cold dance request and if she accepts, damn why did you accept that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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