Is there anyone left?

[Guest Doll]

Anything has it's honeymoon period where it's all new and shiny...maybe it's just getting to the end of that for some peeps.

[Stewie]

Got to agree with urtoy a lot of the fun has left the game. Local has always been pretty mundane sin was where people had fun with the RP. There wasn't that many of us even less now.the game is evolving changing direction. When we found the game I'm sure for most of us it was the sexually content and graphics we were drawn to. Don't say it wasn't, we're all adults lol.the game is more one on one exclusivity now than it every was majority of people in pm most of the time. Social interaction and sexually RP getting less and less. To me without this interaction the game is becoming a very bog standard chat room with decent graphics. Whether this will be a benefit or a detriment to the game who knows. For me like a lot of others the game is losing its pull and attraction

Meant to add its not really exclusive just more cheating alts LOL

[AdrianLynn]

I love the sex in the game. Im picky though about who Im with. RP is a major turn on and descriptive sex is a must. Way to often I would get bored with someone and that just isnt any fun for either partner.

[Tanyatranny]

Is this a case of "careful what you wish for"? I think it is. We've been asking for fully-featured user rooms a long time now, and now that we got them we notice the public rooms are less exciting because of them. JamesJames has a good point. I quite liked commenting on the public sex on the beach, in Sin or in the Club. Heck, I even joined some of the sessions when the RP was good. Now all of that seems to have gone to the user rooms.

 

I'm also very hesitant about the request for new locations in the game. Half of the public rooms are empty as it is (I'm looking at you, Yacht). My hope is that the novelty of user rooms will wear off after a while and see people returns to the main rooms.

[Guest Doll]

Think I must have missed peeps actually rp'ing in public. I agree that could be hot to watch/listen/join.

 

All I saw was a few peeps randomly going at it in the middle of various floors...a bit yawn. Don't miss that.

[Jensen]

Been in-game around 4 weeks now. I am still amazed by the huge number of girl avatars who have a preference for other girls in their profiles, and everywhere you turn there are girl/girl couples. Many girls even state in their profile such as "if you are a guy don't even bother". The girls who truly have a preference for guys seem quite rare.

 

So as a guy, getting to the sex part is hard work, time and effort (like RL I guess!). By sex, I do mean the whole flirting/teasing/chatting thing as well, not just humping in the back room of Sin Club! And the number of times you get ignored, even just saying " Hi" to a girl can be disheartening. Conversely, I can see that many girls must be getting flamed by guys saying "Hi", eager to make friends and connections, in a room.

 

So, my point is, looks to me that sex is easy if you are a girl here, just walk into a room and potentially you have it if you are looking for it. You really have it all, and have nothing to complain about on that front. For guys, hard work. I really recommend that girls playing this make a male avatar from scratch if you have a spare slot, and see life from a new guys POV.

[Wizard]

Half of those "lesbian" and "prefer man&woman" girls are males irl

[Guest Cassidy]

Been in-game around 4 weeks now. I am still amazed by the huge number of girl avatars who have a preference for other girls in their profiles, and everywhere you turn there are girl/girl couples. Many girls even state in their profile such as "if you are a guy don't even bother". The girls who truly have a preference for guys seem quite rare.

So as a guy, getting to the sex part is hard work, time and effort (like RL I guess!). By sex, I do mean the whole flirting/teasing/chatting thing as well, not just humping in the back room of Sin Club! And the number of times you get ignored, even just saying " Hi" to a girl can be disheartening. Conversely, I can see that many girls must be getting flamed by guys saying "Hi", eager to make friends and connections, in a room.

So, my point is, looks to me that sex is easy if you are a girl here, just walk into a room and potentially you have it if you are looking for it. You really have it all, and have nothing to complain about on that front. For guys, hard work. I really recommend that girls playing this make a male avatar from scratch if you have a spare slot, and see life from a new guys POV.

 

 

It is super hard for girls to get to the sex part as well haha ^^

Either the guys ignore you when u talk to them or they are too shy, or they get angry at you for talking to them at all about sex (OMG! Talking about sex in a sex game??? How dare I!!!)

So yeah, it is really hard for girls here, cant imagine how it is for guys...

Or maybe its just me who sux at flirting with guys, since I cant speak for all ghe girls here :-S

[Berelain]

We still use Sin Club quite often as well as the back rooms of the Night Club, oh and this one time I dropped a contact lens behind the bar there...well Krycek helped me find it.   I love to RP in this game as I do in many other games I play.  Its still alive and well in game and I've enjoyed partaking in the deliciousness of what a few others have shared with me.  Its a personal thing for me but I've been known to dabble in local RP from time to time.  Though most of the time its basically limited to private chats so that may make it seem that the game doesn't have as much sex as it truly does.  

[Freya]

...or they get angry at you for talking to them at all about sex...

 

Huh? A guy behaved that way? FML for encountering guys who tries to get me to their "dungeon" or "place" before even replying back my "how are you?" question. And that question is the second line of the whole convo btw...rest usually is ignore >.>

 

Then when I lose interest (wonder why), they get mad ridicilously.

I wish I could encounter more guys who can actually hold a decent convo about interesting stuff, which is a huge turn on too.

Absolutely not all the guys like that. I love a couple of guys here who I enjoy their company much.

 

Don't giggle/laugh some girls out there...you pull the same shit too...

 

The point I am trying to make is: I think more than gender, it is personality mismatch most of the time. Not everyone you encounter is going to be a fit for you.

Finding someone that you click is especially harder when you are a new subscriber, because most of us here have already established some relationships.

[Troela]

Reminds me of an epic quote from Cartman about chatroulette 

 

“ Kyle, this is the way the world works - if you wanna find some quality friends, you gotta wade through all the dicks first.”

 

 

So true   

[Bubbles89]

Think I must have missed peeps actually rp'ing in public. I agree that could be hot to watch/listen/join.

 

All I saw was a few peeps randomly going at it in the middle of various floors...a bit yawn. Don't miss that.

Is this allowed?? I've had the urge a few times to RP in Local, though i've always thought that was frowned upon??? anyone wanna clear this up ?

[Macca]

Is this allowed?? I've had the urge a few times to RP in Local, though i've always thought that was frowned upon??? anyone wanna clear this up ?

The main issue is the frequent use of bad language in local and world chats is against the rules, so makes any decent rp pretty difficult. I for one am not a fan of excessive rp in local or world. There are certain players that totally spam world with it, who I've had to block. Im not against a little here and there (Cassidy will vouch for that ^^ Oink Oink), if its good, but personally I think the group chat feature should be used for long rps.. Ask the room if anyone wants to listen/watch some role play and add them if you do.

 

Having said all that, I am but one player and im sure many more will have different views. I guess, if your not breaking the rules do what you want. Those that don't like it can just block you or move area if its in local.

[RosaFoxy]

Been in-game around 4 weeks now. I am still amazed by the huge number of girl avatars who have a preference for other girls in their profiles, and everywhere you turn there are girl/girl couples. Many girls even state in their profile such as "if you are a guy don't even bother". The girls who truly have a preference for guys seem quite rare.

 

So as a guy, getting to the sex part is hard work, time and effort (like RL I guess!). By sex, I do mean the whole flirting/teasing/chatting thing as well, not just humping in the back room of Sin Club! And the number of times you get ignored, even just saying " Hi" to a girl can be disheartening. Conversely, I can see that many girls must be getting flamed by guys saying "Hi", eager to make friends and connections, in a room.

 

So, my point is, looks to me that sex is easy if you are a girl here, just walk into a room and potentially you have it if you are looking for it. You really have it all, and have nothing to complain about on that front. For guys, hard work. I really recommend that girls playing this make a male avatar from scratch if you have a spare slot, and see life from a new guys POV.

 

 

Half of those "lesbian" and "prefer man&woman" girls are males irl

 

I can't speak for others, but a good few of us are actually gay behind the beautiful avatar. That said though, I'll hang out with anybody. Sometimes I do like to strike up random conversations with people just for the heck of it. As I am fond of telling people "Just because I'm a rainbow puking flaming dyke doesn't mean I'm not human. I'll talk to anybody who will listen to me!"

[Guest Doll]

There's even a few of us who like guys but are curious about girls so put a preference for both in their profile

 

I always try to respond to anyone who says "hi" on two conditions

1 - the "hi" doesn't follow one or more ignored colds

2 - the "hi" is followed by more than a cold or a "want to fuck"

 

Oh...or 3 - I'm in a bad mood

 

Oh...or 4 - I've not been burned out by an hour of 1 and 2

 

Oh...or 5 - I'm clearly with someone

 

Ok so that's quite a few reasons but isn't it almost the same as irl. I'm a person, I really am, talk to me like one.

[UrToy]

Everybody keeps dissing the private rooms and such. That's just not the problem. If it were, then the rooms such as sin club and the night club, etc.. would be empty. Intstead, the rooms are often full of people, but noone is interacting with others, at least not in local chat. It even happens in private rooms... people come in and pm me instead of talking in public. Private chat is nice, of course, but come on people , how about some group interaction ?

[Indalecia]

Hello everyone! I've found the different rooms to be quite lively. I guess it depends on when you visit the different rooms. =]

[Jensen]

...Intstead, the rooms are often full of people, but noone is interacting with others, at least not in local chat. It even happens in private rooms... people come in and pm me instead of talking in public. Private chat is nice, of course, but come on people , how about some group interaction ?

I agree UrToy. Fair enough, I can see why folks at the beach or love island would appreciate a little peace and quiet in local chat. Though often in Sin Club or Nightclub,even when lots of people are there, local/public chat is non-existent or just too quiet. And once a chat, a thread gets going, the interaction is usually great fun. You can't force or contrive this though, maybe just nudge it a little here and there.

[Guest Cassidy]

I guess part of if people wont talk to you or respond to your hellos depends on what you put in your profile as well :-P

Maybe some people dont want to talk to you because ghey dont like what it says in your profile. I guess that is why people ignore me, because the content in my profile and so on :-P

[CatBurglar]

When I first started playing this game I thought cool a sex game with really good graphics. I started having random sex  but after awhile I began to meet people and make new friends and random sex wasn't fun anymore

now I have a lot less sex because I want it to have meaning call me silly and a fool I don't care its how i feel.  I plan on being here for years, because of the friends I have made and the many more I will make "smile" 

[McNick]

 

When I first started playing this game I thought cool a sex game with really good graphics. I started having random sex  but after awhile I began to meet people and make new friends and random sex wasn't fun anymore

now I have a lot less sex because I want it to have meaning call me silly and a fool I don't care its how i feel.  I plan on being here for years, because of the friends I have made and the many more I will make "smile" 

 

Happens to most of us Cat! 

[Massey]

I was playing many months ago when they still had moderators. The feeling was incredible (hooray Bran and co.): everyone was friends with everyone else. Then they got rid of the mods and for a while there was a negative vibe. People started just hanging out together with a marked decrease in sex. I love talking to people but I come here to RP some great sex, not help people handle personal issues. It turned into 90% the latter and almost none of the former, so I left. Now I'm back and have discovered the user rooms. Awesome! No more ambiguity: you want to hang out? got to the club, beach or whatever. You just want to have sex? pick your poison with the user rooms.

 

I see RP as a means to fill the gaps the animations miss. I like a side fuck like anyone else, but damn: those breasts are meant to be squeezed! I do that via RP. When I'm going down on a girl, I want to describe to her what I'm doing. The animation is the foundation...but there is a lot of delicious things you can build on top of that foundation.

 

As for the social aspect breaking down a bit in the public rooms: let go of your shyness and talk in local. Just randomly be yourself, get a few laughs out of people. You'll make friends pretty fast.

 

I'm glad to be back and hope to spend some time either typing with you or tapping you. ;P

 

Massey

[BeckySue]

seems more people are into chatting, making out, or dancing then having some hot steamy sex.  Too many clubs promoting their useless DJs.  I see too many males standing around crying they can't get laid.  Yet they make no effort to try.  Easier to complain then to put in any effort.  Too many scared away by the escorts.  There are a lot of factors.  I open my room and 4 out of 5 leave without any sex.  And I am the biggest slut in 3dx.  Can't force them to do what they wanted to do in the first place.  From my experience the more there are in a room the deader the room is.  I refuse to stay in a room for more than 5 minutes if I am not getting any action.  And now there seems to be a rash of players who refuse to complete profiles.  Basically, the only RP an empty profile is going to get is 10 minutes of silent sex.  You get as much RP effort that you put into your profile.

Edited March 28 by BeckySue