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lol, no, I dont feel that way at all. I enjoy a good debate. At the end of the day is all just blah. from all sides. sometimes i may seem a tad aggressive but i take none of this seriously. Matter of fact some of my better friends are people i have bickered with in forums at one time or another. 

 

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Strange how most of the ones getting bent out of shape are new forum accounts.... must be a coincidence 

Not really. I've been on 3dx forums for awhile, just never bothered to make an account. Didn't see a reason to... Kinda got bored though and presto.

 

This thread is the best necromancy I've seen in years.

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Hello all you pixelated pedestrians.

 

This post is not at all talking to those men who are transgenders or Cross-Dressers cause they are honest and let you know. This is directed to the men who fall under the statistically proven fact of straight men who play as women on any social media platform. It has been proven that a substantial amount of men do play as the opposite sex online. I'm not at all trying to explain the logic, I'm simply encouraging HONESTY. Yet at the same time...will level with the idea of being anonymous because I too tried that approach.

 

In being a man, I happen to be turned on by actual emotional connections. So, in my mind when I'm in female form I some how take on the aura of that character and I carry on in the 3DX community with the mindset of how I WOULD ACT if I was a woman..aka..my fantasy. And so in doing this I would get men who come at me and talk to me like I was a woman. The compliments, the charm, even the stupid aggressive want to be macho sex fiend..I've seen it all and can honestly have a genuine compassion for real women who deal with this on a day to day basis. Anyway..

 

So, I would play along with whatever the banter was from that particular man. And I would talk to that man. Really engage..really vibe. And if he likes me..my literal dick gets hard. Now, obviously after that conversation it would lead to a sexual encounter and when that happens I've just created my own interactive 3D porn scene to which I so happily massage my actual penis until ejaculatory results take place. Then, in awesome ninja fashion, I disappear from the room.

 

And that pretty much sums up the LIFE. Now, here's why I decided that it's a load of crap on a cracker. The real emotional attachment factor is the reason why I decided to MAN UP, and simply say YES...I'm a dude. I don't think it's fair to men to be toyed with emotionally. I think it takes a level of inconsideration for your own kind. As men, we understand each other. We know what we like. And so obviously a man can be the PERFECT WOMAN to another man on a virtual game such as this. We know what and how we would want a woman to talk to us, so naturally we know what to say to another man. Even that adds to the arousal and it's so weird but it's so true.

 

Now why am I making it necessary for MEN to MAN UP and simply say ON PROFILE..that you're a dude. Well, because I think it's unfair for REAL WOMEN using female avatars to have to PROVE THEMSELVES to men who have become paranoid of the epidemic of men using female avatars. I love women, adore them, cherish them, RESPECT them. Me doing what I do is in direct correlation to how I feel about women. I want them to be on this game with as much peace of mind as possible and in my mind the last thing I want a woman to deal with is the constant demand to prove themselves to some other man whom she probably won't ever meet OFFLINE anyway. Things would be a lot more easier if those men who fit this particular shoe would simply state their actual gender.

 

Now, there is a saying that says...Ignorance is bliss. Well that is very true in this case but the problem is nobody likes to be ignorant in this case because people have actual feelings. So, it's impossible for a man to play as a woman and not have to deal with that key factor because when that man actually starts to get attached to you, eventually he's going to want to make real contact and then the game is over for you and as an end result you just emotionally took a feces break on that man's emotional and mental state leaving him in utter disarray and possibly turning him into an angry Troll that will terrorize World Chat for all eternity!!

 

Now we don't want that, do we? One thing I love about this community is that there is NO JUDGEMENT on how you CHOOSE to play this game. I love the fact that people don't care if you're a dude using a female avatar. The problem is LYING which I totally agree with. So, for the sake of HONESTY....MEN whom this post applies to...be HONEST with the fantasy of wondering what life would be like if you were a woman. It's SO NORMAL and doesn't have anything to do with your sexual preference.

 

WOMEN DO IT!! WOMEN THINK IT!!...OUTLOUD.....need proof?

 

Beyonce - If I was a Boy

Ciara - If I were a Boy

Lil Kim - she had a verse that said " If I was a dude I tell you to suck my D*** "

 

It's why I LOVE WOMEN so much because they are SO HONEST. Why are some men LYING to themselves? It's okay, bro...yes...I THINK IT..I've said to myself in my car " Yoo...if I was a chick...I know I would've been a stripper. "..cause I'm a dancer in real life, hip hop style. Actually made a very well respected dance team at some Dance Studio out here in Houston. I legit can dance so..in thinking about how women have it...I think about it...like hmm..if I was a chick...yea...I know I'd be a stripper.

 

So if anyone didn't know...let me make it plain...of THIS PARTICULAR FANTASY. The fantasy of...what if I was a girl.

 

That is all.

 

 

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Hello all you pixelated pedestrians.

 

This post is not at all talking to those men who are transgenders or Cross-Dressers cause they are honest and let you know. This is directed to the men who fall under the statistically proven fact of straight men who play as women on any social media platform. It has been proven that a substantial amount of men do play as the opposite sex online. I'm not at all trying to explain the logic, I'm simply encouraging HONESTY. Yet at the same time...will level with the idea of being anonymous because I too tried that approach.

 

In being a man, I happen to be turned on by actual emotional connections. So, in my mind when I'm in female form I some how take on the aura of that character and I carry on in the 3DX community with the mindset of how I WOULD ACT if I was a woman..aka..my fantasy. And so in doing this I would get men who come at me and talk to me like I was a woman. The compliments, the charm, even the stupid aggressive want to be macho sex fiend..I've seen it all and can honestly have a genuine compassion for real women who deal with this on a day to day basis. Anyway..

 

So, I would play along with whatever the banter was from that particular man. And I would talk to that man. Really engage..really vibe. And if he likes me..my literal dick gets hard. Now, obviously after that conversation it would lead to a sexual encounter and when that happens I've just created my own interactive 3D porn scene to which I so happily massage my actual penis until ejaculatory results take place. Then, in awesome ninja fashion, I disappear from the room.

 

And that pretty much sums up the LIFE. Now, here's why I decided that it's a load of crap on a cracker. The real emotional attachment factor is the reason why I decided to MAN UP, and simply say YES...I'm a dude. I don't think it's fair to men to be toyed with emotionally. I think it takes a level of inconsideration for your own kind. As men, we understand each other. We know what we like. And so obviously a man can be the PERFECT WOMAN to another man on a virtual game such as this. We know what and how we would want a woman to talk to us, so naturally we know what to say to another man. Even that adds to the arousal and it's so weird but it's so true.

 

Now why am I making it necessary for MEN to MAN UP and simply say ON PROFILE..that you're a dude. Well, because I think it's unfair for REAL WOMEN using female avatars to have to PROVE THEMSELVES to men who have become paranoid of the epidemic of men using female avatars. I love women, adore them, cherish them, RESPECT them. Me doing what I do is in direct correlation to how I feel about women. I want them to be on this game with as much peace of mind as possible and in my mind the last thing I want a woman to deal with is the constant demand to prove themselves to some other man whom she probably won't ever meet OFFLINE anyway. Things would be a lot more easier if those men who fit this particular shoe would simply state their actual gender.

 

Now, there is a saying that says...Ignorance is bliss. Well that is very true in this case but the problem is nobody likes to be ignorant in this case because people have actual feelings. So, it's impossible for a man to play as a woman and not have to deal with that key factor because when that man actually starts to get attached to you, eventually he's going to want to make real contact and then the game is over for you and as an end result you just emotionally took a feces break on that man's emotional and mental state leaving him in utter disarray and possibly turning him into an angry Troll that will terrorize World Chat for all eternity!!

 

Now we don't want that, do we? One thing I love about this community is that there is NO JUDGEMENT on how you CHOOSE to play this game. I love the fact that people don't care if you're a dude using a female avatar. The problem is LYING which I totally agree with. So, for the sake of HONESTY....MEN whom this post applies to...be HONEST with the fantasy of wondering what life would be like if you were a woman. It's SO NORMAL and doesn't have anything to do with your sexual preference.

 

WOMEN DO IT!! WOMEN THINK IT!!...OUTLOUD.....need proof?

 

Beyonce - If I was a Boy

Ciara - If I were a Boy

Lil Kim - she had a verse that said " If I was a dude I tell you to suck my D*** "

 

It's why I LOVE WOMEN so much because they are SO HONEST. Why are some men LYING to themselves? It's okay, bro...yes...I THINK IT..I've said to myself in my car " Yoo...if I was a chick...I know I would've been a stripper. "..cause I'm a dancer in real life, hip hop style. Actually made a very well respected dance team at some Dance Studio out here in Houston. I legit can dance so..in thinking about how women have it...I think about it...like hmm..if I was a chick...yea...I know I'd be a stripper.

 

So if anyone didn't know...let me make it plain...of THIS PARTICULAR FANTASY. The fantasy of...what if I was a girl.

 

That is all.

You'd never asked yourself if womens playing on male avi in game are also honest by telling ppl's around?

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My suggestion I'm sure will raise the ire of some people so let me say now, have at it I don't care, but I would like the developers, creators, game Gods to consider is adding a verified account functionality for people who wish to be honest, have no fears or don't wish to play this game at the expense of others. The concept of course would be for a subscriber to submit a picture of themselves holding some version of a sign with their avatar name on it and something to the effect "I love 3dxchat" where the profile accounts would include the users real gender and the verified pic as the profile pic. Yes I can feel the huffing and puffing behind the monitors now. I'm not recommending this as a mandatory requirement for people to do but an incentive for those people who wish to not hide behind secrecy, lies and pretending in the name of "it's just a game", "it's my fantasy" or "I want to get in touch with my feminine side" your men for Christ sake. What would be the incentive to do this, how about a daily return of 3000 gold instead of the measly 300 we are so graciously given now like beggars on the street. The hope here is doing this might break the stigma of people hurting other people without any regard for the person sitting at the keyboard and mouse across from them because although there is not true physical connection, the emotional and mental connections can very deep and very real for someone. Let the cannons fire across the bow.
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My suggestion I'm sure will raise the ire of some people so let me say now, have at it I don't care, but I would like the developers, creators, game Gods to consider is adding a verified account functionality for people who wish to be honest, have no fears or don't wish to play this game at the expense of others. The concept of course would be for a subscriber to submit a picture of themselves holding some version of a sign with their avatar name on it and something to the effect "I love 3dxchat" where the profile accounts would include the users real gender and the verified pic as the profile pic. Yes I can feel the huffing and puffing behind the monitors now. I'm not recommending this as a mandatory requirement for people to do but an incentive for those people who wish to not hide behind secrecy, lies and pretending in the name of "it's just a game", "it's my fantasy" or "I want to get in touch with my feminine side" your men for Christ sake. What would be the incentive to do this, how about a daily return of 3000 gold instead of the measly 300 we are so graciously given now like beggars on the street. The hope here is doing this might break the stigma of people hurting other people without any regard for the person sitting at the keyboard and mouse across from them because although there is not true physical connection, the emotional and mental connections can very deep and very real for someone. Let the cannons fire across the bow.

 

Good idea and very admirable...but impossible to execute without encroaching the privacy laws of some countries...that said, there are already those who are upfront about it on their profiles...oh wait that's right. No one on this game actually looks at those fucking things when they really should. -_-

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I want to hug you right now. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. I couldn't agree more. I've personally reached out and thanked every male being honest about operating a female avatar that I've seen in-game, because it's absolutely true, it's inconsiderate and deceitful to hide that from others. I'm glad you came to realize that and decided to open up about it. Kudos, friend!

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Good idea and very admirable...but impossible to execute without encroaching the privacy laws of some countries...that said, there are already those who are upfront about it on their profiles...oh wait that's right. No one on this game actually looks at those fucking things when they really should. -_-

 

This would not violate any privacy law in any country because it's a voluntary choice for people to chose to do and as long as they agree to it with the understanding that the pic will be used as the profile pic, there is no liability against the owners/creators of the game. But I admire Gelda's comment very much.  B)

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This would not violate any privacy law in any country because it's a voluntary choice for people to chose to do and as long as they agree to it with the understanding that the pic will be used as the profile pic, there is no liability against the owners/creators of the game. But I admire Gelda's comment very much.  B)

Oh sorry I read that wrong...however I still doubt this will be implemented. They haven't made any substantial changes in ages. Why would they start now?

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What people here should learn (besides punctuation) is, that this game is not a dating platform. The avatar does not have to be a lookalike of your true self. Of course everyone that wants to play as herself/himself here has the right to do it, but pay attention to the fact that there is no big beer belly or tiny cock size, so this will limit your abilities in doing so. The kidding let aside, this game is made to live out your phantasies. Be it age, gender or whatever.

 

How many people create an avatar and make it black while they are caucasian irl? How many people state an age different from their true age? Do they state in their profile that they are a white guy playing a bbc to get more fucks? I guess not.

 

What all these "real men" with lack of self esteem and sexuality issues have to get over with is that no one here plays this game to please you, and in turn, no one here plays this game to hurt you. If you have a problem with guys playing female avas it is your problem, and your problem alone. It is your responsibility to make sure you are having virtual sex with a "real girl" only, if you want to limit yourselves to that. So, instead of demanding from others "to be honest" or to not "to play on the expense of others" you should look who's talking and instead state something like "Warning: playing as myself here and only want to get in touch with people that do the same" in your profile. Don't be a heretic, be a man (or a girl, or whatever)^^

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You know, I quit Lord of the Rings Online in disgust when I found out that 80% of the people playing Elves were actually Trolls in real life!!

 

Same thing with WWII Online!! Half the people there had never even held a real gun let alone completed a firearms safety class.

 

And for those of you who want "verification" or "warnings" in people's profiles, if you are not smart enough to assume the worst when you start playing a game like this, then you are not mature enough to be here. Put your freaking Big Boy pants on, and start taking responsibility for YOURSELF.

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What people here should learn (besides punctuation) is, that this game is not a dating platform. The avatar does not have to be a lookalike of your true self. Of course everyone that wants to play as herself/himself here has the right to do it, but pay attention to the fact that there is no big beer belly or tiny cock size, so this will limit your abilities in doing so. The kidding let aside, this game is made to live out your phantasies. Be it age, gender or whatever.

 

How many people create an avatar and make it black while they are caucasian irl? How many people state an age different from their true age? Do they state in their profile that they are a white guy playing a bbc to get more fucks? I guess not.

 

What all these "real men" with lack of self esteem and sexuality issues have to get over with is that no one here plays this game to please you, and in turn, no one here plays this game to hurt you. If you have a problem with guys playing female avas it is your problem, and your problem alone. It is your responsibility to make sure you are having virtual sex with a "real girl" only, if you want to limit yourselves to that. So, instead of demanding from others "to be honest" or to not "to play on the expense of others" you should look who's talking and instead state something like "Warning: playing as myself here and only want to get in touch with people that do the same" in your profile. Don't be a heretic, be a man (or a girl, or whatever)^^

THIS.

 

This right here. I agree with this so much. Thank you for that Veronique.

 

Although, I do have a legitimate argument against one point. You said this was a place to live out your fantasies, not a dating platform. However, for some people, dating, being in a relationship or what have you, IS a fantasy for others. Not saying you don't have a point, just that there are some who can't interact with others (for various reasons such as social phobias, insecurities, or work schedules).

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What people here should learn (besides punctuation) is, that this game is not a dating platform. The avatar does not have to be a lookalike of your true self. Of course everyone that wants to play as herself/himself here has the right to do it, but pay attention to the fact that there is no big beer belly or tiny cock size, so this will limit your abilities in doing so. The kidding let aside, this game is made to live out your phantasies. Be it age, gender or whatever.

 

How many people create an avatar and make it black while they are caucasian irl? How many people state an age different from their true age? Do they state in their profile that they are a white guy playing a bbc to get more fucks? I guess not.

 

What all these "real men" with lack of self esteem and sexuality issues have to get over with is that no one here plays this game to please you, and in turn, no one here plays this game to hurt you. If you have a problem with guys playing female avas it is your problem, and your problem alone. It is your responsibility to make sure you are having virtual sex with a "real girl" only, if you want to limit yourselves to that. So, instead of demanding from others "to be honest" or to not "to play on the expense of others" you should look who's talking and instead state something like "Warning: playing as myself here and only want to get in touch with people that do the same" in your profile. Don't be a heretic, be a man (or a girl, or whatever)^^

 

I do appreciate your opinion. Only reason why I will entertain your uppity pious comment is to simply rebuttal your " What all these real men with lack of self esteem and sexuality issues " comment.

 

Seeing that you're very much ignorant in who I am let me educate you and if you don't read this I'm sure someone else will relay the message to you. In being a FUTA on the game it is not to be confused with me questioning my sexuality. It is not to say that I literally wish I was a woman in real life nor am I having thoughts of going through some sort of surgical transition. No ma'am. It is my way of sharing my genuine appreciation and newly acquired OPEN MINDEDNESS to the idea of actually MARRYING a female hermaphrodite. See I used to have thoughts about sucking a penis...never knew why...cause I don't desire men sexually in actuality. Yet I'm so secure in my HETEROSEXUALITY...that I can fuck a dude on here and not be bothered simply because I've created a PORN SCENE that I have always masturbated to...which is...MF porn..male and female.

 

Now, back to me being a Futa. That is my declaration and appreciation tactic that explains my choice of role here that also conveniently meshes with my " If I was a girl " fantasy, cause I could've simply played as woman that is a Straponess. Now, seeing that genuinely love the thought of sucking a dick, I honestly would suck my wife's dick and clit if she was born with both and was gorgeous.

 

Do realize that in your attempt to show off intellectual superiority in the realm of grammar, you ended up looking like a dumb ass in the eyes of a man.

 

(( grabs my pixelated tits and walks off ))

 

Oh...and the low self esteem bit? well....that's a touchy subject..seeing that depression is one of the main reason why I'm on 100mg of Quetiapine and I would have to say that based on your response you're really not a good person and if you were to get hit by a train I think I would lowkey let out a breath of relief. Seeing that part of my mania involves homicidal thoughts that I actually ENJOY.

 

Smiles.

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What people here should learn (besides punctuation) is, that this game is not a dating platform. The avatar does not have to be a lookalike of your true self. Of course everyone that wants to play as herself/himself here has the right to do it, but pay attention to the fact that there is no big beer belly or tiny cock size, so this will limit your abilities in doing so. The kidding let aside, this game is made to live out your phantasies. Be it age, gender or whatever.

 

How many people create an avatar and make it black while they are caucasian irl? How many people state an age different from their true age? Do they state in their profile that they are a white guy playing a bbc to get more fucks? I guess not.

 

What all these "real men" with lack of self esteem and sexuality issues have to get over with is that no one here plays this game to please you, and in turn, no one here plays this game to hurt you. If you have a problem with guys playing female avas it is your problem, and your problem alone. It is your responsibility to make sure you are having virtual sex with a "real girl" only, if you want to limit yourselves to that. So, instead of demanding from others "to be honest" or to not "to play on the expense of others" you should look who's talking and instead state something like "Warning: playing as myself here and only want to get in touch with people that do the same" in your profile. Don't be a heretic, be a man (or a girl, or whatever)^^

 

This is pretty silly. First of all, nobody is *demanding* anything. Second of all, the only thing OP is suggesting is that males who play female avatars *should* be honest about their true gender, out of courtesy to the other players. He's not saying that if you don't, you're a worthless piece of shit. He's not attacking anyone, he's not saying anybody is better than anyone else. It's a simple request that would make the game more enjoyable and less weird for the straight dudes out there who want to know they're having fun with a straight or bi girl. 

 

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. For you to claim that it's because of "lack of self esteem or sexuality issues" shows that you have a fundamental misunderstanding of what OP was trying to say. It's not about guys being paranoid that "someone wants to hurt them." It's just a fucking turnoff to think that the hot girl I just snagged from the club is actually a sweaty 40 year old man with a psychotic smile in a run-down house somewhere. I don't want to fuck that guy. But if that guy plays as a female avatar and actually says that in his profile, "Just a heads up, I'm a dude playing a female avatar, if you don't like that then move along," I will reach out and thank him for being honest about it. 

 

You can say whatever you want, but again, nobody is making any demands, and OP wasn't trying to insult anybody. He was trying to be respectful of other people's preferences, which is what we should all be to everyone's preferences. If we're going to respect lesbians, gay men, futas, transgender people, crossdressers and so on, then we can also respect straight guys. It literally costs you zero to give other players a heads up.

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Not saying you don't have a point, just that there are some who can't interact with others (for various reasons such as social phobias, insecurities, or work schedules).

 

Right - maybe some of those people have been betrayed and/or let down by others that they considered friends or lovers, and they like the comfort in AT LEAST knowing that the person they're talking to is actually the gender they say they are. Maybe that's all they ask for. Because they're done being lied to, and if one person doesn't want to be honest about their real gender, then they'll find someone else who will be. 

 

I really don't see how this is difficult to understand. If some guys don't want to be honest about it, then that's their prerogative. But it's at least recommended that they do. They'll still be able to live out any fantasies they want, and not only that, but they'll be attracting people that like them for who they are, and don't care that they're actually male playing a female. Thereby making the encounters more intimate, more passionate. Otherwise, a good handful of them will probably have that hanging sense of guilt clinging to them the whole time, knowing that they're deceiving people, knowing that they're producing a situation that their partner definitely wouldn't want, if they were aware of the truth.

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And for those of you who want "verification" or "warnings" in people's profiles, if you are not smart enough to assume the worst when you start playing a game like this, then you are not mature enough to be here. Put your freaking Big Boy pants on, and start taking responsibility for YOURSELF.

 

This is one of the most asinine comments I've read in these forums.

 

So nobody should play this game expecting to actually connect with the demographic they like to have sex with? They should join a game EXCLUSIVELY BASED ON SEX - and pay a MONTHLY SUB FOR IT - with the understanding that all female avatars are actually played by men, and if they want to have fun they'd better "put on their big boy pants" and just have virtual sex with a dude, when that would make them extremely uncomfortable?

 

In what universe does that make any fucking sense?

 

Also, isn't it more of a sign of maturity for a person to admit that they're playing a gender different than their real one? Isn't it mature to be honest with other players and just give them a heads up, out of respect to them? You don't think people appreciate that? You think they should just suck it up and expect that they're being deceived at every turn?

 

When 100mg wrote the original post, you don't see that as him taking responsibility for himself? For owning up to the fact that he hid behind a female avatar, saw that it was manipulative, and decided to be open about what was really going on? How is that not mature? You think it's more mature to play as a female character and lie to everybody you meet? If you don't think it takes a "big boy" to be candid about their true identity, then you are either very young and immature, or not a very bright bulb.

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