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Woah look at that title!  I bet it's something important!  Well it is, kinda.  Grab a coffee, an apple, or your favorite snack, and let's have a little discussion.  Yup, just you and me.  Let's talk about some important things today.  First off, let's talk about role playing or the more common term "RP".  Role playing is a game, whether it be between two adults bumping hips together or children playing "save the princess from the evil dragon".  The difference here is, I can't wack you with a stick to make you hurt, but I can pretend to wack you with a stick and you can pretend to be hurt.  That's right folks, it's all pretend (I'll pause for a moment to bask in your gasps..... Pause over).  So I want to talk about a few issues I've seen countless times.  The biggest issues will be stated here, as they are my opinions not everyone will agree.  I hope this will be more informative then anything.

 

Before we start I'd like to say that I have dyslexia and ADHD, both of which hinder my typing.  To counter that I had specialized teaching as well as being an avid role player for a little over 7 years now.  I went from humble beginnings of a few words to multi-paragraphs and college level words (though I still misspell things from time to time and my grammar still needs work).  This passage is just telling you that you CAN do anything you set your mind to.  Twelve years ago I could barely write a paragraph without crying because it was so difficult.  Now you see this wall of text.  Work hard and anything is possible <3

 

Now to begin, let's talk about rules.  Yes, RPing has a list of general rules that most players follow.  I know none of you are kids and I know that not everyone here has had a college level education, but that doesn't mean you can't have fun and bring an intellectual conversation to dull pixels.  To make it easier on the eye (and for quick study) I'll use bullet points for the rules with a brief explanation below it.

  • No text talk​​​
  • This is widely accepted around the whole of the internet.  Using letters like "u, y, o" makes you seem like a child.  We are all adults here with perfectly good brains, let's use them to learn and challenge each other to grow as adults. 
  • 10 Minute Rule
  • This is again, widely accepted around the community.  If you are gone for ten or more minutes, then don't be mad if they leave.  We all want good role play, just don't waste everyone's time if you are going to type ten minutes and only come up with one or two sentences.  I have a life, you have a life, and your partner has a life, ten minute role play for little effort is unacceptable.
  • Try to not repeat things multiple times
  • This is where things get tricky.  Repeating things over and over and over and over and over and over (get it?) is annoying and not fun to read.  Remember we are here to have FUN, be interesting, be different, be that person everyone wants to talk to because you are unique.  I can go into any room and pick up a guy (or girl) and watch pixels smash together.  I want to RP with you and watch porn (that both of us are making).  I can watch porn alone if I really need to.  Now the tricky thing here is... I like bondage, sometimes I'm just stuck there tied up.  What do you do?  Easy, describe the rope/chain/leather/various metals that you are feeling.  Describe his/her's body heat or your helplessness.  Talk to them, make them feel like you are helpless.  For the person with the pokeystick, always be talking, always be describing what both your hands and stick are doing.  Above all, describe your victim.  There's nothing more sweet then hearing "XXX could smell the thick scent she was giving off, the sweat on her brow easily telling the story.  She was afraid and he could see it in her body language.  She may not have known it, but he did.  His arm traced down her back, leaving a trail of dry skin behind.  Her body was hot, as was her pot of honey, ready to receive his worker bees."  A rough example, but still usable, interesting, and exciting to read (I know I used "she" a lot, you can replace them with the person's race, a pet name, or their actual name to help create variance).
  • Respect Limits
  • Who here likes scat raise their hands?  I will maybe see one hand out of 50-60 people.  Who likes oral?  I see all the guys raise their hands... but not all the ladies.  Look, if someone says "(no)" or "(stop)" Then you stop.  You don't pass go, you don't collect $200, you stop.  You broke this rule and if you continue, they will leave.  Respect works both ways.
  • Respect Out Of Character Chat (or OOC chat)
  • Your best friend is (OOC).  It is what you use to stop the RP and communicate respectfully.  She/he may be a slut in the scene, but in (OOC) they are a woman/man that deserves respect.  Respect your partner and they will respect you back.  Then you might have a RP buddy for a long while and never have to search for a new one.
  • God Mode
  • Oh this sounds exciting... except it really is playing dirty and unfair.  God Mode is when you don't give your partner ample time to counter what you are doing.  Like me saying "I punch you in the face".  You can't react, it isn't fun.  It's better to say "I swing my fist at you, aiming for your face."  Your partner can then react, "I tilt my head slightly to make your heavy hit no more than a grazing blow, yet it still left me rattled."  Good RP let's people have a chance to play the game.  God Mode is the bully in the sandbox who tells everyone else how to play.  No one likes a bully. (Thanks to Kim for the reminder!  Still can't believe I forgot about this!)

 

That's it for the general rules.  Still with me?  Need a break?  Take a quick minute to reflect on what was said then let's continue~

 

This next one is a important.  Fun, clarity, and honesty.  I've said this so many times... I'll say it again for good measure.  We. Are. Adults.  As such we are to be treated as adults outside of RP situations.  You don't go around calling your neighbor, that guy across the street, or your mail man/woman a slut, bastard, cow, pogostick.  You just don't.  It isn't accepted in real life, it isn't accepted in virtual life.  If you are RPing make it clear you are doing so.  Start with a /me and continue from there.  Show them you can be a respectful adult, yet kinky and fun when you need to be.  Some people stay in RP mode the entire time and should most definitely follow this guideline.  Lastly, if the RP is not fun, say something.  Be honest.  They won't get mad and if they do, ignore them.  They want to have fun, but if you aren't then what's the point?  I've sat through many MANY poor RPs that lasted an hour.  I'll get into it more below with some examples, but be honest.  Honesty shows your respect for the person on the other side of the monitor and will make a big impression on them.  Also don't just say "u sck at typing so i'm finding anther to banng" (I know poor humor).  Explain their faults and why they aren't worth your time.  "I'm sorry hun, but your typing is very poor.  I'm not interested in talking with someone who can't even respect me enough to have a serious RP session.  I can look over some misspellings and even some grammatical errors, but I won't be a stationary toy to be used for no benefit of my own.  I'm sure there is another girl around here that will be fine with it, that girl is not me."  People make mistakes, people have off days.  Sometimes that person spent 12 hours at work, had 2 hours of sleep the previous night and got online with a few drinks in their system.  I've done it, I'm sure plenty of people have.  Show respect to your partner and try to have fun.  If both people are having fun, there will never be problems.

 

Example time!  Yes, I'll provide a few examples of poor, decent, and top level RP.  There will be hidden comments from myself on why said situation is not ok and why they should be changed.  For fun they will be hidden so you all can test yourselves to see if you find the mistakes.  I'll be posting with the intent of showing everyone how to improve their RPing.  This is about getting your skills up, not shaming you to damnation for not being good at English.  I'll even leave a few practice posts for those of various skill levels to post here and practice.  I'll keep an eye on the comments.  If you want me to review your post and ask on what areas you can improve on, then let me know in your post and I'll make a follow-up comment.  Let the examples commence! 

 

(Alice and John are at a bar enjoying a few drinks.  John gets close to Alice and tries to feel her up, here is how it plays out)

 

AliCeMcbadpOst: looks at john and smiles. how are you this evening

JohnTheDashingRogue smiles back at the beautiful woman.  Her skimpy black dress just barely covering up her most private of parts.  The dashing young fellow takes out a few dollars and slams them to the bar in a flashy show of importance.  "Bartender get me the strongest brandy you have.  Also get this lady whatever she wants.  She deserves it for being so gorgeous."

AliCeMcbadpOst: smiles at the man and thanks him.  thank you sir.  bartender can i have a wine please?

 

 

I'm sure the differences here are clear.  John used much better grammar, talked in third person, and separated his actions and his words with quotation marks.  Alice, on the other hand, didn't do any of that, preferring to talk more like a second grader.  She didn't capitalize the starting words in the sentence and failed to use the correct punctuation mark in the first post.  John is obviously more experienced here.

 

 

(Bob and Darla are having a nice dinner at home.  Darla makes some advances on Bob and Bob in turn responds.)

 

Darla moves her foot under the table.  She presses it against Bob's crotch as she watches him squirm.

Bob does not squirm, instead he moves his hand to his wife's foot.  He softly massages her foot and watches her reaction.

Darla starts giggling.  Her foot is very ticklish and she loves when her husband tickles her feet.  Her left eye winks as her husband and she takes him into the other room.

 

 

Notice the problem here?  If you said Darla was being aggressive, you'd be right.  Aggressive though doesn't explain what happened.  Darla forced Bob to do something.  This is a no-no in the RP world.  I can't force you to squirm or to yell and scream in climax.  I can only lead you there.  When I poke your butt I wait for a reaction.  You could slap my hand away, squeal in surprise, or even give a soft moan.  There are many reactions and you should not tell someone how they are going to react.  It's like telling your co-worker "You will enjoy your job because it's fun" when you know they hate their job.  You can't tell someone how to feel, you can only feel what you feel.

 

 

(Janice and Sophia just finished a game of tennis.  They are heading to the showers and one of them gets a bit frisky.)

Sophia: That was a great game today.  Each time you hit the ball I had to run as fast as I could to get it!  Jan you are too good for me.  *I grabbed my soap and started to wash my hair. Paying little attention to my tennis buddy showering beside me*

Janice giggled for a moment before grabbing her own soap, with a mischievous grin on her face she sneaked up behind her good friend.  With a loud 'SLAP' her hands came around Sophia's flank and landed on the woman's ample bosom.  "I am not that good... I just have less boobage than you so I can run faster."

Sophia: Ahh! H-hey! *I squealed loudly as my breasts are slapped with the soapy hands.  My two friends aching a bit as they bounce around*  J-just because I have bigger boobs then you Jan doesn't mean you can touch them all the time!  P-plus you are just jealous! *I bring my hands to my breasts, softly rubbing out the pain my Janice caused.*

 

 

There is really no problem with how these two are writing.  The problem is a personal grievance of mine.  Thins in an RP should run like a story.  We should be telling a story, not just imagining it.  It would be best if Janice or Sophia changed their point of view.  Janice is using third person and Sophia is using first.  Also using asterisks is acceptable for RPing as long as the action is within those borders.  /me is for third person speaking because it starts with "Name" instead of "Name:" The colon separates the name from the entire passage meaning you are speaking instead of doing (which is why the asterisks are used to separate the actions from speech).  1st person or 3rd person is important, but doesn't break the RP like the other ones.  It's more about a nice flowing story then anything.

 

 

Now for your practice ones (using spoilers to make it look nicer)~

 

Newer Rpers:

 

Jane: *I look at you with wide eyes as I see your hand gripping a dog leash* What are you going to do with that?

 

 

Jack grabs his drink and takes a quick sip from it, "Hey!" his eyes moving over to your's.  "Did you see the game last night?  Who won?"

 

Adept Rpers:

 

Sophia leans over the railing of the boat.  Her heart skipping a beat as she sees the roaring waters below.  She can't help but wonder what is beneath the dark blues of the ocean depths.  Deep blue eyes shoot up to look upon the stranger standing behind her.  She clasps her hand over her mouth in surprise.  "W-when did you get here?" she nearly screamed as trembling legs braced the railing for support.

 

 

Ralph knew it was time to go.  He grabbed his rifle and started for the door.  The only thing he could manage to grab from the abandoned house was a tattered old T-shirt and some crusty boots.  He never managed to find a pair of pants but he used that shirt he found as a makeshift loincloth.  "It sucks when the world comes to an end and all you have is this little piece of dirty cloth keeping you from the dangerous world out there huh?" His eyes look back towards his friend.

 

Experienced Rpers:

 

Violet didn't know what to do.  It was clear that there was nothing outside the room, but death and destruction.  Yet even so she didn't want to stay locked in this prison.  She was a sold as a slave to an unknown bidder and locked in this sickly furnished room.  Sure it was soft, comfortable, and well maintained, she just worried for her life at this point.  As she set up from her bed she tugged at the chain acting as her leash.  The kitty girl found it quite immovable and it was clear, she was stuck.  Thoughts rushed through her head about the past twenty-four hours.  'If I hadn't been so careless...'  One side thought, 'Oh give it a break, you needed food so you stole it!  What is there to be upset about?' The other side spoke.  For what seemed like hours, both sides raged an unending war of blaming each other.  Until a loud 'BANG' hit the door.  The woman cowered under the velvet blankets, trying to hide from whatever fate had in store for her.  If only she had her friend here.  Then maybe she could just run away from this world and all of the needless pain it has caused her.  Before she could finish that thought, the door was beginning to open.  Her eyes stared wide at what she saw beyond the darkness of the world behind that door.

 

 

^.^ That's it for my little lesson.  I know I didn't cover EVERYTHING and there is still more I myself need to learn.  Still I think this is a good starting point and I hope there are many things people can learn from this.  Questions? Objections? Opinions?  Leave a comment below.  If you want an answer address it to myself and I'll respond in kind ^.^ Just keep things civil.  Remember most of these things are my own opinions and should be viewed as such.  If you agree or disagree with my views and values then that's great either way.  I just hoped everyone who read this walked away with a little more understanding about what I think RPing is and how to go about conducting a good RP.  Till next time (or next question)~

 

Oh and for the Mods.  I didn't see a good section to post this in and the RP forums just seemed to be the best place <3 if there is a better one you can move it if you like ^.^ 

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Think you forgot about God mode under rules :)

 

NO GOD MODE: Typically when another role-player uses a closed type of language which solidify the roleplaying actions they perform, making it impossible but to accept the outcome of their actions. Good role-play should offer a open texting language which allow other party to create their own responses to any actions with them or against them during the roleplay.

 

Examples:

 

God mode: Puts you into a set of shackles which you cannot get out off.

 

Non God mode: Reaches over with a pair of study looking shackles in attempt to shackle you up, making any escapes difficult(this action leave open door to respond, plus the possibility to avoid any unwanted forced RP actions)

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Think you forgot about God mode under rules :)

 

NO GOD MODE: Typically when another role-player uses a closed type of language which solidify the roleplaying actions they perform, making it impossible but to accept the outcome of their actions. Good role-play should offer a open texting language which allow other party to create their own responses to any actions with them or against them during the roleplay.

 

Examples:

 

God mode: Puts you into a set of shackles which you cannot get out off.

 

Non God mode: Reaches over with a pair of study looking shackles in attempt to shackle you up, making any escapes difficult(this action leave open door to respond, plus the possibility to avoid any unwanted forced RP actions)

God mode was talked about a bit, but not in context, thanks for reminding me! ^.^; Can't believe I forgot such a well known rule~

 

Great post!   :)

 

Also, I'm relived that my RP wasn't quoted up there as an example of what not to do .... 

I just used random examples.  No one specific was targeted I assure you.  I just made up very common names and some common RP stuff.  I am by no means an expert linguist (throughout my entire post I kept spelling example as "examble" for some odd reason haha).

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A great and detailed guide. Most things are true in a 3dx context. A few things I disagree with though. You put way too much emphasis on grammar and spelling, but the likelihood is that you are not likely to be always encountering native English speakers. In general allowances should be made and such heavy standards are not needed as long as the text is understandable and you can read the emotions and actions.

 

Your experienced example. I can guarantee anyone ever using such a verbose block of text is not an experienced rp er in a 3dx context. That is pure self indulgence and utterly boring for the partner. Both reading all that and waiting the 10 minutes for you to type it out. Such an essay is flow breaking.

 

I would say, like with penises, length is no guarantee of quality and mostly shorter and punchier work effectively. An experienced rp er may start middle and get punchier as the action gets more intense... Managing the rhythm to match the excitement levels and the amount you really wish to be typing at later stages... That is what takes the skill and really hits the sweet spot for me. It's a flow and a dialogue and your experienced example turns it into a monologue and flow is quickly broken when your partner leaves in boredom.

 

I would say the important thing is always to be responsive and empathic to what the partner wants. I've had rps where the partner seemed not to be reading what I said and not to be adapting but always pursuing their own agenda. That is truly poor Role play. Have respect always.

 

Another big rp crime is to take too long to respond. If you cannot bring your full attention to me, I don't want you as a lover.

 

There are also subjective differences. What works well for one partner does not necessarily work for another.

 

I think your post is fantastic actually and almost definitive, apart from these things.

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As a minimalist rp'er (being here is rp enough) you're probably not interested in what I have to say but I would agree with virtually all that Epi says.

For what it is worth, two things that (annoy me about rp'ing and that) I would emphasise are...

a ) please don't correct spelling errors. In a verbal conversation you would only repeat something, if the recipient asked you to repeat it, for some reason.

b ) if you are going to make a long statement, break it up into smaller segments and use something (ellipses) to indicate that you are going to continue the statement. I'd rather "hear" something than have to wait an age.

My personal opinion is that, with the state of the art, textual rp is virtually redundant. However, whatever floats your boat.

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Your experienced example. I can guarantee anyone ever using such a verbose block of text is not an experienced rp er in a 3dx context. That is pure self indulgence and utterly boring for the partner. Both reading all that and waiting the 10 minutes for you to type it out. Such an essay is flow breaking.

 

In Violet's defense, I get the feeling that her excellent post is dedicated toward RPing in general, and maybe not 3dxchat specifically.  I've RPed in games and forums where there might be days, or even a week between installments.  Take the Blue Moon Roleplaying forums, for instance.  In that context, big blocks of text (or even pages) are perfectly okay.  Preferred even.  And even when RP is that slow, it can still be hugely fun to to build a story with another person.  There are stories and situations that my partners and I have created together that are very dear to me ... stories I'll never forget.  

 

But 3dxchat is different.  It's so much more in the moment.  You can't take ten minutes to compose and type something there.  You just can't.  

 

Soooo ... for advice about 3dxchat RP specifically, I agree with every word that Epi and Cordy said.  

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A great and detailed guide. Most things are true in a 3dx context. A few things I disagree with though. You put way too much emphasis on grammar and spelling, but the likelihood is that you are not likely to be always encountering native English speakers. In general allowances should be made and such heavy standards are not needed as long as the text is understandable and you can read the emotions and actions.

 

Your experienced example. I can guarantee anyone ever using such a verbose block of text is not an experienced rp er in a 3dx context. That is pure self indulgence and utterly boring for the partner. Both reading all that and waiting the 10 minutes for you to type it out. Such an essay is flow breaking.

 

I would say, like with penises, length is no guarantee of quality and mostly shorter and punchier work effectively. An experienced rp er may start middle and get punchier as the action gets more intense... Managing the rhythm to match the excitement levels and the amount you really wish to be typing at later stages... That is what takes the skill and really hits the sweet spot for me. It's a flow and a dialogue and your experienced example turns it into a monologue and flow is quickly broken when your partner leaves in boredom.

 

I would say the important thing is always to be responsive and empathic to what the partner wants. I've had rps where the partner seemed not to be reading what I said and not to be adapting but always pursuing their own agenda. That is truly poor Role play. Have respect always.

 

Another big rp crime is to take too long to respond. If you cannot bring your full attention to me, I don't want you as a lover.

 

There are also subjective differences. What works well for one partner does not necessarily work for another.

 

Your words are very correct.  RP in 3DX is much different then RP in say, a forum or a place which needs detailed explanation like a typical chat room.  Those places have little to no context as to where you are and what's happening.  Here it's redundant to talk about the crystal clear waters of the beach because... everyone can see that it's crystal clear.  You can however talk about the cool sensation of the water or how it splashes against your skin.  Feelings are just as important as what's around you.  Now I agree long posts do drag on the mind and can really take away from what's important.  However, they have their place along with the short and spicy posts.  Long posts here can be used for the foreplay aspect.  Long interesting posts that can get your heart pounding and mind racing as to what will happen next.  The spicy shorter posts can consist of what we all know and love.  Sex here is just like sex in RL.  Short and sweet is decent... but a long thought out encounter with a stranger that takes consideration into every word they say is the difference between fast food and fine dining.  Fast food is ok if you are hungry and need a quick bite, but fine dining you savor every bite and enjoy the moment instead of wondering what you will eat in the morning.  ^^; I hope that clarifies what my intent here is.  I am trying to, if anything lessen the fast food eaters here, make them have a taste of what fine dining is.  

 

As a minimalist rp'er (being here is rp enough) you're probably not interested in what I have to say but I would agree with virtually all that Epi says.

For what it is worth, two things that (annoy me about rp'ing and that) I would emphasise are...

a ) please don't correct spelling errors. In a verbal conversation you would only repeat something, if the recipient asked you to repeat it, for some reason.

b ) if you are going to make a long statement, break it up into smaller segments and use something (ellipses) to indicate that you are going to continue the statement. I'd rather "hear" something than have to wait an age.

My personal opinion is that, with the state of the art, textual rp is virtually redundant. However, whatever floats your boat.

I never correct another's spelling errors in my RPs, as long as it's legible I'll read over it.  That said, if your entire post is full of errors and poor punctuation, It will give me a headache trying to piece together your thoughts.  It becomes less of a sexy sentence and more of a guessing game.  I'm 24 not 6, I shouldn't have to be guessing what you are trying to say.  Be that as it may, I have RPed with those that have had language issues and or where not native English speakers.  They put effort into their posts and gave me 2-3 sentences of well thought out ideas to use.  If you are wondering about the lengths of the posts... I'm not saying long posts are the end all be all of RPing.  The "Experienced" example only took me 3-4 minutes to type.  I've met with people who can type that in half the time I can, and there are some who can type that in twice the time I could.  You play to your strengths, never your weaknesses.  That doesn't mean you let your weaknesses control you either though.  I love RPing, but my spelling and grammar aren't the best.  That's my weakness.  Instead of let them hinder me, I use my vast vocabulary and intellectual wit to see me through tough spots.  If you saw me typing you'll see my backspace is used as much as my space bar because of how many errors I make.  If I can make so many errors and fix them mid sentence, anyone can.  Don't ever sell yourself short.  

 

Ceres thanks for the defense haha.  You are right, taking ten minutes to describe the butterfly fluttering around would be boring.  But taking 2-3 minutes to describe how tasty the guy's cock is or how wet you are getting can make a difference.  It's a balancing act between giver and receiver.  Give what you want in return.  You want minimal effort, give it.  I personally want foreplay into spicy sex, I don't know many other women who wouldn't want that~

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I never correct another's spelling errors in my RPs, as long as it's legible I'll read over it.

 

Wow! Nor would I, that is uncivilized. It isn't what I meant.

I meant... don't correct your own spelling mistakes. I'm 25 not 6; I can figure it out ;) If I can't, then I'll ask you to repeat  it.

 

 

I use my vast vocabulary and intellectual wit to see me through tough spots.

 

/me stifles a snigger.

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For me I actually don't like the 3rd person type of role playing, it sounds like someone telling a story rather that someone creating one with you.

It often gets confusing, for example..

He runs his fingers through your hair, puts his cheek to hers and takes in the sweet scent of her perfume.

And I know what you will say, he hasn't done it right and you would be correct, but I have seen it done that way so many times.

To be correct in what you are calling correct role play it should be...

He runs his fingers through her hair, puts his cheek to hers and takes in the sweet scent of her perfume. or..

He runs his fingers through your hair, puts his cheek to yours and takes in the sweet scent of your perfume.

Personally I prefer it to be more of a play between 2 people, direct to each other.

I run my fingers through your hair, put my cheek to yours and take in the sweet scent of your perfume.

 

also when i am in the game i don't bother with caps, it slows down my typing.

it's ok i guess for people with decent sized hands, i have child sized hands and have to stretch to get to the shift key.

plus what difference does it make, people can still read it just as easy as if i used caps where they should be or not.

but yes, i think other things you have mentioned are important, trying to read a sentence that is like 100 words long with no commas or full stops can take your breath away.

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  • 3 years later...

Nice guide actually, man. But I disagree your rule "Try to not repeat things multiple times". Why should I stop to do something, if my girl like it. My main secret is the technique of eating pussy. I follow some rule, that I read on https://alexbporter.com/how-to-eat-pussy , so my girl can have orgasm up to 10 times, so she asks me don't stop. I think, that you maybe, wanted to say something else. If it's so, then I wait your explanation. Thank you in advance.

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On 5/30/2016 at 1:56 PM, Guest Twiggy said:

For me I actually don't like the 3rd person type of role playing, it sounds like someone telling a story rather that someone creating one with you.

I agree. I also agree with Violet that using a first person with /me is kind of wrong. But... I don't mind to do wrong things if it gives so much better immersion, to me at least. 

When I use first person it makes me feel like I am actually participating in a story, living it in some way. if my partner also uses first/second person, it makes it even hotter for me. It really makes me feel myself like I am participating in the story, the descriptive sex or whatever it is, not just writing a scenario. 

On 5/26/2016 at 2:43 AM, VioletSumire said:

We should be telling a story, not just imagining it

So yeah, I can't agree with this. For me it's more about exactly imagining myself and my partner in the story/situation and helping them to do the same.

On 5/26/2016 at 2:43 AM, VioletSumire said:

Some people stay in RP mode the entire time and should most definitely follow this guideline.

But it's fine. I mean if both you and your partner are into it, then why not? It can be pretty hot to stay in RP mode in game with some partner all or almost all the time, without cutting it in sessions. It also can give a deeper immersion. Of course, only if it's mutual desire to do so.

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Nice topic also to discuss is preparation for good RP, (is there discuss here for that already somewhere?? sorry then wrong box lol) how many set scenario ideas, build some background, what helps to giving depth for story, giving ideas how to flow story to starter, to engage things how it would goes to sexy stuff. Been talked with some of partners about this. As that how people start asking and setting RP what to start, sadly heard this "What you like, what you prefer, what your favorite RP theme... so you x and me y lets start *start session with sex pose*" is like giving whole headache to think of create whole scenario idea yourself. Copy paste stuff is easy, but rarely fun to play through, its lagging of depth what makes RP so exciting and feel more unique doing with partner. Again chat, throw few ideas and other reply, giving more direction for add some for idea or give counter idea to other to think "yes hmm yeah that would be cool" or "no, how about..."

So could think as good preparation for RP is like for making your own lunch for a date, with fine set of ingredients and seasonings and maybe recommended wine with that dish,  put time and effort and that result would be nice delicious dish... or you can order a pizza and grab a beer, quick and easy solution for hungry peeps and everybody like pizza right?

 

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