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[☙𝔼𝕩❧]

6 hours ago, jadekali said:

Cry more....I show proof.....and you show ur usual bullshit. 

.....and you wonder why you and the rest of the trolls can't stop Safe Haven from growing 

Safe Haven offers an escape from you and ur kind......why do you think its so popular?

ALL are welcome to inspect our numbers and latest members   

 

 

Seriously? Trolls like you usually blaming others for trolling and hides after all as victims.   ... but where is your proof? Cry me more rivers, Jade.  All your lies can not stand against  a logic.  I am 100% sure that you don`t have a 10% of people in your discord who can say that they came to you because of me. Only this can be proof, but not all your stupid lies or "just" words. lol So bitch please and show the proof. Stop crying already 

[chloe]

[Derai]

2 minutes ago, chloe said:

Glanced at some, basically a Boomer off his meds and drunk on loneliness.
Nothing new~

[☙𝔼𝕩❧]

3 hours ago, chloe said:

lol Is this clown still around? 

[chloe]

4 hours ago, ☙𝔼𝕩❧ said:

lol Is this clown still around? 

Seems so and he again wants to tell us something... however everybody should just choose to ignore his crap, it is for sure the most childish bullshit in the whole forum.

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[chloe]

[☙𝔼𝕩❧]

So poor troll RobT was banned again. I do not know how one can be so silly, thinking that what was done 1 time, cannot be done second time.

Anyway, it's much better here without his low lvl trolling. Amen. lol

[Coldheart]

45 minutes ago, ☙𝔼𝕩❧ said:

So poor troll RobT was banned again. I do not know how one can be so silly, thinking that what was done 1 time, cannot be done second time.

Anyway, it's much better here without his low lvl trolling. Amen. lol

 

In a way he was useful as an example to new and upcoming trolls to measure their performance and, if falling to Rob's level, how there was need for immediate improvement.

[☙𝔼𝕩❧]

1 minute ago, Coldheart said:

 

In a way he was useful as an example to new and upcoming trolls to measure their performance and, if falling to Rob's level, how there was need for immediate improvement.

I don't like trolls because they are completely useless to the community. I think this is an example for developers and us of how bad they are and how fast the reaction should be to any trolls. Anyway I am not going to discuss about this in my diary.

[JessicaX]

I would highly suggest to just block people who are toxic. Its amazing how much better the forums become when you do this and don't have to see their posts. The only bummer is that they still see your posts and still try to attack you. But... use that ignore feature. That what it's there for and it's amazing. Ive not seen a post from RobT in about 3 years and it's very refreshing. I suggest everyone give it a shot!

[Derai]

23 minutes ago, JessicaX said:

I would highly suggest to just block people who are toxic. Its amazing how much better the forums become when you do this and don't have to see their posts. The only bummer is that they still see your posts and still try to attack you. But... use that ignore feature. That what it's there for and it's amazing. Ive not seen a post from RobT in about 3 years and it's very refreshing. I suggest everyone give it a shot!

Even if you ignore them, they still show up as banners across the page. 
“You have chosen to ignore content by: X”

And whenever someone quotes them, you see the posts. 
So while Blocking helps. Reporting works better. 

[JessicaX]

Just now, Derai said:

Even if you ignore them, they still show up as banners across the page. 
“You have chosen to ignore content by: X”

And whenever someone quotes them, you see the posts. 
So while Blocking helps. Reporting works better. 

Oh I do both. My curiosity used to get the best of me and I would still read the posts by these people but I don't anymore. I have also learned that its always best to just not reply to them. Trolls love to trigger people and the best way to get to them is to show them zero attention. They HATE that. 

[Derai]

1 minute ago, JessicaX said:

Oh I do both. My curiosity used to get the best of me and I would still read the posts by these people but I don't anymore. I have also learned that its always best to just not reply to them. Trolls love to trigger people and the best way to get to them is to show them zero attention. They HATE that. 

My problem is that I can mostly ignore them personally. 
But get upset when they go after friends. 

[JackPine]

2 hours ago, Derai said:

My problem is that I can mostly ignore them personally. 
But get upset when they go after friends. 

Ditto.  Come crap on me, but my friends?  That's when it becomes real. The owner of this thread that I am still waiting to meet included.  What is even more maddening was he receiving likes from a clearly confused individual.   Sad actually.  May this diary return to what I always look forward to reading.    Peace.

[☙𝔼𝕩❧]

7 hours ago, JackPine said:

What is even more maddening was he receiving likes from a clearly confused individual.

RobT was receiving likes exactly from his friends with the same thinking. As I said before, I am not going to discuss about this little thing. Peace 

[Lorelia]

On 9/28/2020 at 1:01 AM, jadekali said:

and how much are you full of yourself?    lol
My fight with Lorelia(Jazzy Lounge) had nothing to do with you.....We had a falling out because I said
only African-Americans can sing TRUE GENUINE blue notes and White singers can only do 
pale imitations of blue notes(Hall and Oates perhaps being the best of the bunch)....anyway ...she called me a racist for making that remark

Am a bit late to react to that. Guess i dont spend enough time on forum.

We did have that argument (which is stupid) but it was long before the real fight. You seem to be very confused so let me remind you what happened :
1/ you used a stolen room and some peeps got mad at you for it
2/ you asked me repeatedly to take your side on that, against pierr, but pierr was a friend and you are nothing to me
3/ you literally harassed me from that point, spitting on ex in my pm every day because she took pierr's side (while i didnt, i just wasnt interested in the drama)
4/ after several days that you spent insulting ex in my pm, and talking exclusively about her in a complete hysterical way, you asked me to ban her from jazzy... so i got fed up and obviously i kicked you out instead, cause shes a good friend, and you are nothing to me
5/ of course it didn't stop there, and since i ignored you in 3dx you started harassing me by email (yes, you had my email cause i was kind enough to send you a room, after you begged so much)
That last "phase" went on for like 6 months, sending me messages to insult me, insult ex, insult random peeps that you thought was related to me, sometimes 5-6 emails in a single day without me even answering them.

If you really want to, i can paste here some of these many emails. Just to show how demented you are, for those who wouldnt be convinced of it yet.

 

So, all that to say : yes you lying here and yes you got kicked out for being obsessive and hysterical about ex. You also know it very well, so stop pretending, unless your sick mind blacked it out.

Edited October 7, 2020 by Lorelia

[Derai]

5 minutes ago, Lorelia said:

Am a bit late to react to that. Guess i dont spend enough time on forum.

We did have that argument (which is stupid) but it was long before the real fight. You seem to be very confused so let me remind you what happened :
1/ you used a stolen room and some peeps got mad at you for it
2/ you asked me repeatedly to take your side on that, against pierr, but pierr was a friend and you are nothing to me
3/ you literally harassed me from that point, spitting on ex in my pm every day because she took pierr's side (while i didnt, i just wasnt interested in the drama)
4/ after several days that you spent insulting ex in my pm, and talking exclusively about her in a complete hysterical way, you asked me to ban her from jazzy... so i got fed up and obviously i kicked you out instead, cause shes a good friend, and you are nothing to me
5/ of course it didn't stop there, and since i ignored you in 3dx you started harassing me by email (yes, you had my email cause i was kind enough to send you a room, after you begged so much)
That last "phase" went on for like 6 months, sending me messages to insult me, insult ex, insult random peeps that you thought was related to me, sometimes 5-6 emails in a single day without me even answering them.

If you really want to, i can paste here some of these many emails. Just to show how demented you are, for those who wouldnt be convinced of it yet.

 

So, all that to say : yes you lying here and yes you got kicked out for being obsessive and hysterical about ex. You also know it very well, so stop pretending, unless your sick mind blacked it out.

Kinda darkly funny to read all this, and then remembering all the times Jade's been calling me a Stalker. 
Projection, oh how ironic. 

[jadekali]

1 hour ago, Lorelia said:

Am a bit late to react to that. Guess i dont spend enough time on forum.

We did have that argument (which is stupid) but it was long before the real fight. You seem to be very confused so let me remind you what happened :
1/ you used a stolen room and some peeps got mad at you for it
2/ you asked me repeatedly to take your side on that, against pierr, but pierr was a friend and you are nothing to me
3/ you literally harassed me from that point, spitting on ex in my pm every day because she took pierr's side (while i didnt, i just wasnt interested in the drama)
4/ after several days that you spent insulting ex in my pm, and talking exclusively about her in a complete hysterical way, you asked me to ban her from jazzy... so i got fed up and obviously i kicked you out instead, cause shes a good friend, and you are nothing to me
5/ of course it didn't stop there, and since i ignored you in 3dx you started harassing me by email (yes, you had my email cause i was kind enough to send you a room, after you begged so much)
That last "phase" went on for like 6 months, sending me messages to insult me, insult ex, insult random peeps that you thought was related to me, sometimes 5-6 emails in a single day without me even answering them.

If you really want to, i can paste here some of these many emails. Just to show how demented you are, for those who wouldnt be convinced of it yet.

 

So, all that to say : yes you lying here and yes you got kicked out for being obsessive and hysterical about ex. You also know it very well, so stop pretending, unless your sick mind blacked it out.

That's not how I remember it .....but nevertheless please accept my apologies for it......I would very much like to be friends again....I miss you Lorelia......

I will be opening the Krazy Kat Speakeasy in about 15 minutes.....which is basically a tribute to The Jazzy Lounge......I would be honored if you would make an appearance......thank you.

Edited October 7, 2020 by jadekali

[Twiggy]

@jadekali I am going to try to give you some advice and hope you take it that way and not that I am just trying to have a go at you.

I have been following this thread and your safe haven thread with the different things that have been brought up in it and can see a pattern that I often saw in 3DXChat. I am going to point out some things I can see that I know you are not going to like but can only hope I can make you think about how you have made yourself look in these forums.

For example, your reply here...

11 hours ago, jadekali said:

That's not how I remember it .....but nevertheless please accept my apologies for it......I would very much like to be friends again....I miss you Lorelia......

I will be opening the Krazy Kat Speakeasy in about 15 minutes.....which is basically a tribute to The Jazzy Lounge......I would be honored if you would make an appearance......thank you.

This is not even close to an apology and to me looks more like something where you would use it later to say you did apologise. If you were to really acknowledge what Lorelia had said in her post you should actually feel and express shame. Your apology would show that and not say it is not how you remember it. 

You have named around a dozen different people in this thread and others saying how they had left or done things to you of which many of them have come in and posted showing a completely different version of what had happened. All of them show similar stories that show you have tried to dictate terms to them, have tried to tell them who they can be friends with and push them to obey your wants. I saw this happen often in the game where people thought themselves so important and right and thought they had the right to tell others what they should do and not do. Then when these people did not they would turn on them also. 

One of the hardest things to deal with in the game is when friends get into arguments and you have to deal with 2 or more people you are friends with not getting along to even hating each other. It gets much worse when one or both of them try to get you involved. The people I respected most were the ones that would not expect me to dump friends because they didn't get along with them, that would acknowledge that it had nothing to do with me and it was my choice. 

You need to accept you have made mistakes and all these people are reacting the way they are for a reason.

Edited October 8, 2020 by Twiggy

[jadekali]

10 hours ago, Twiggy said:

@jadekali I am going to try to give you some advice and hope you take it that way and not that I am just trying to have a go at you.

I have been following this thread and your safe haven thread with the different things that have been brought up in it and can see a pattern that I often saw in 3DXChat. I am going to point out some things I can see that I know you are not going to like but can only hope I can make you think about how you have made yourself look in these forums.

For example, your reply here...

This is not even close to an apology and to me looks more like something where you would use it later to say you did apologise. If you were to really acknowledge what Lorelia had said in her post you should actually feel and express shame. Your apology would show that and not say it is not how you remember it. 

You have named around a dozen different people in this thread and others saying how they had left or done things to you of which many of them have come in and posted showing a completely different version of what had happened. All of them show similar stories that show you have tried to dictate terms to them, have tried to tell them who they can be friends with and push them to obey your wants. I saw this happen often in the game where people thought themselves so important and right and thought they had the right to tell others what they should do and not do. Then when these people did not they would turn on them also. 

One of the hardest things to deal with in the game is when friends get into arguments and you have to deal with 2 or more people you are friends with not getting along to even hating each other. It gets much worse when one or both of them try to get you involved. The people I respected most were the ones that would not expect me to dump friends because they didn't get along with them, that would acknowledge that it had nothing to do with me and it was my choice. 

You need to accept you have made mistakes and all these people are reacting the way they are for a reason.

Fair enough....I can't force people to accept my apologies.

Also....I have no interest in those others who either never liked me to begin with or were false friends with their own agendas......Lorelia is the only one I miss and would like to be friends with again.

Edited October 8, 2020 by jadekali

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1 hour ago, jadekali said:

Fair enough....I can't force people to accept my apologies.

Also....I have no interest in those others who either never liked me to begin with or were false friends with their own agendas......Lorelia is the only one I miss and would like to be friends with again.

You`d better give your apologies first.

[jadekali]

1 minute ago, ☙𝔼𝕩❧ said:

You`d better give your apologies first.

You`d better give your apologies first.

[☙𝔼𝕩❧]

4 minutes ago, jadekali said:

You`d better give your apologies first.

What? People gave you another chance and you again act like this? Get of of my diary or else.

[jadekali]

1 minute ago, ☙𝔼𝕩❧ said:

What? People gave you another chance and you again act like this? Get of of my diary or else.

You came after me toots!