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.Edit: Hmm maybe implement some sort of ban room names ? Like you cant use certain words as a room name. That could maybe possibly work to some degree. Maybe  :lol:

 

thats also a good idea with a "blacklist" or badnamelist like with punkbuster for user rooms, but i dont know what the effort would be to implement that, for actually only a handfull of ppl that sometimes dont think 5 meters ahead! and if ppl would use their brains also in here a bit more often, the devs could concentrate on content that already is taking its time and ressources wouldnt be waisted on doing something like this!

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Well they already have similar system with usernames. If it is already taken then you cant use it so maybe they could copy that there. But it is not the best solution since you can overcome it :D. Like if you ban Hello then i can write H*e*l*l*o or H/e/l/l/o or simply Helllo. The meaning will still be there. Its really hard thing to do but it could stop at least some people  :) .

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Well they already have similar system with usernames. If it is already taken then you cant use it so maybe they could copy that there. But it is not the best solution since you can overcome it :D. Like if you ban Hello then i can write H*e*l*l*o or H/e/l/l/o or simply Helllo. The meaning will still be there. Its really hard thing to do but it could stop at least some people  :) .

An off topic, but than. Had played the game for two months but just registered on the forum, and the first thing I see is a player, whos name differs from mine by just one extra 'l' letter. A kiss from Milia to Millia

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Ok, this is a sex game, for some reason that seems to have some people think that certain things should be allowed and even respected.

To me sex is something beautiful, the most interment thing that 2 people can share, but I guess to some it is something evil.

Just because this is a sex game does not mean that things that are not accepted elsewhere should be accepted here.

The RAPE room to me shows where it goes when there is a lack of guide lines where people are able to do as they wish.

The fact that 16 people chose to go in there and will have thought there was nothing wrong with what they were doing is a result of how we have handled things in this game.

I thought of taking a screenshot and reporting them, but honestly that is not the problem here.

The problem is what has happened to have these people think it ok for them to do so.

We have some highly intelligent people in here, the 4 forum mods and the devs, surely we can think of something that will at least restrict things from going further.

I could see where things were going, I could see that lots of the people who care about this sort of thing were going in the game less and less and that different things were happening to show it was starting to get a little out of control.

This thread may not find a resolve to the problem, but I started it as I know people will read it and some that are doing the things we have talked about will think twice before doing it again.

Again just because this is a sex site does not mean you can drop things like common morels, respect and decency, that just goes to make sex a dirty word.

Like honestly because I have morels and am a decent person that respects others, does that like some have said mean I don't belong here.

Come on guys place some rules, protect the new players that know nothing of what goes on in here and give them a chance to enjoy the game before finding themselves being used to fit someones elses often sick fantasy.

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Hello everyone,

 

This seems to be rather heated topic and I most of the time choose to stay away from forums but my thoughts are as follows:

 

1. The idea about forum links is nice and could be helpful. But as someone pointed out already most people just choose to stay away from them, I mean open forums is just a huge mess other categories are fine so i think open forums should be further categorized as i stay away mainly because I don't want to search thru piles and piles of fights , hate and hypocracy just to find few topics that are actualy fun. Forum is supposed to be a palce for community news, finding like minded individuals within the community and having civilized discussion which is not the case most of the time here.

 

2. As for profile ideas about RL and RP aswell as someone said before, peopel will just put in what they want anyway so it won;t make any diference except for RP players who can check the RP box even tho they have it written on their profiles now and yes it would be optional, but with updates so far in between and rare i really wouldn;t want developers spending time on somethign that won;t change anything, further down the line when we have more things that we really need ? sure. Now ? not so great of an idea.

 

And I am not getting into all is it right or wrong to expect such information disclosure, becouse many people are so self rightious i don't want to even start debates with them.

 

Best,

Dande.

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I agree with Dande, I would prefer the devs spending time on things that will make this game appealing again. Home customisation, especially day/night option. More in game activities to keep peoples interest and keep them coming back. And of course more  poses, especially f/f, and these poses don't have to be sex, although it would be good to get a sex pose that doesn't include me having to destroy my girlfriends ass  every time.

I think the profiles are fine now after having the recent reworking and the ability to finally pm from our friends list. There is no point having a super dooper profile if no one wants to log on because this game lags so far behind others for in game content.

Again not saying some of your ideas are not good Twiggy, but I think like Dande said, that are more other things we really need right now. 

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I brought this up as I know they are still working on the UI for profiles and thought it best to put this forward now while they are working on it.

I to have asked heaps of times for more fun things to be added, like things for our rooms and would love to see them come in.

The things I have asked for that could be added to the profiles would not take as much work as you would think, less than a new sex pose.

Almost a year ago when I 1st started in here no one will have dared to open a room and call it RAPE, let alone have 16 people go in there.

It simply will not have been tolerated and known that it would not be.

The line for toleration in here is being drawn lower and lower, what's next, are we going to be asked to tolerate child pornography fantasies.

Will there be rooms opened for that and we get told if we don't like it just not go there.

As so many have likened things that happen in here to real life things, like acting to roleplay, I will say this, if you knew of a community where there was so many people that had fantasies of rape, would you go there.

We need to draw a line officially somewhere, maybe it doesn't need to be additions to the profile, maybe it just needs to be additions to the rules of conduct for the game.

I know there are rules already that were broken when they opened that room, the thing is with what we are allowing in here people are thinking that sort of thing is ok.

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A year ago that person would have actually more freedom to do so then he has now to be honest. A year ago we didnt even had forum moderators like we have now that are in contact with developers. Year ago the game was more of a mess then it is now. Just because one person made a bad room doesnt make everyone make it. Also dont forget that there are lots of people who barely speak english. For those people all they see is number next to a room and join. That is also a problem with the rules too. First people that dont understand english will not read it. And most people that do understand english will also not read it  :D . And i really dont know what you suggest how to fix this Twiggy. Because without moderators in the game with power to insta ban it is hard thing to solve.

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How can we let people know about the rules?

 

Dev's, is it possible to add some kind of filter for such "keywords" when filling out the name for the room?

 

So that filter is only applied for when the user clicks on "For all" button... displaying a popup message e.g "game rules prohibit the use of the word "rape" in public rooms"

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Everyone has good opinions, pro and con on this subject. I agree first and foremost with Dande about time to start concentrating on making the game fun and enjoyable. The profiles now are fine just as they are.

As for the Rape room discussion. Yep, you can ban the word or anything similar to it. BUT, now that those people know who each other is and it's a fantasy of theirs, all they will do is open a room under a different

name and go there. I don't, in any way shape or form condone that type of fantasy. It's us girls worst nightmare. But, in the process you can't single those people out alone due to their fantasy.

Sexual fantasies of all kinds are going to be found on sites like this. There are far worse 1's out there than here. Believe me. I was a site mod for over a year on probably the worst of them all. The site mods have

their hands full with things and can't monitor everything all the time. They volunteer their time and it's not a JOB.

No one should be called sick or "have issues" because their fantasies or even real life enjoyment of such things just because their sex life might be considered "out of the ordinary" for some. The term "respect"

has been tossed around here quite a bit. That goes for everyone, not just a chosen few. Just because some are different in their thinking, doesn't mean they should be treated with less respect. But, some seem to

think that way anyway. The whole thing is, you want everyone to be COMPLETELY honest and up front about everything and no matter what is done, that's not going to happen.

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Anyone who glorifies rape or anything of its kind doesn't deserve any respect in my opinion. Nobody is suggesting it wont happen at at all. What is being said is not openly displaying it in public room names. As far as respect goes, Its easy to champion those who have the "fantasy" but come talk to me after its happened to you or someone close to you... Then we can discuss how you think  this is acceptable in any form. Being in a  sex game doesnt give you carte blanche to bypass what i consider basic human decency and respect for those whom this topic is very painful  and hits close to home due to things that have happened to them

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Just so i am clear, My issue is naming public rooms "rape". you can do whatever the hell you want in your own rooms. I would never try to tell someone they cannot do something

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*drags his two cents and throws them on the fire* 

 

I think the point that has been kidnapped into the realm of "NO I'M RIGHT AND YOUR WRONG"  is, that it is not our sexual fantasies that are being censured, but how we present them to the rest of the happy people of 3DX land. 

 

I honestly don't care what gets people off as long as all involved parties are consenting adults from start to finish. 

 

When looking at the quick view of which rooms are open and being confronted with a single word that conjures such pain will unsettle most. For those for whom it has been a real life event even more so. THAT is for me the issue where some sort of intervention or alternative is required.

 

Now being of the "OOH LOOK A PROBLEM BUT FUCK IF I HAVE A SOLUTION" crowd I sadly have no alternative. I know that we might be in danger of heading into a "report because it upsets me" Wave, which i really want to avoid.

 

Dande's suggestion is the best so far.

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Hmmm, seems people still believe the best solution is to not do anything.

Also it seems I am being asked to not only accept that people in here have fantasies for rape but also to offer them the same respect as everyone else.

So let me make this clear, I will never offer people with rape as a fantasy any respect and the fact that this place seems to be filling with people that not only do have that type of fantasy, it seems that a lot in here feel it should be allowed.

What's next, are you going to ask for the "Accept" button to be removed because it is preventing people from reaching their fantasies.

Sure i could go in there, stay in my room, only chat and hang with the people i know to be decent, not answer any pms from people i don't know, not look in the rooms section to make sure I don't see the type of rooms people have opened, not go to any events, not think or care about the unsuspecting new comers that are being used and abused, tell the lots of people that come to me with hurt when they have been on the receiving end of this stuff that I don't want to know and they have to learn to keep their guard up, that hell this is a sex game and sex is dirty so what do you expect.

 

Sex is not dirty, it's beautiful.

 

Maybe we should do nothing, maybe it will all just go away.

All I hear lately is people saying they don't come in much anymore, and when they do they just stick with the ones they know they can trust, stay in their rooms mostly.

But yes maybe we should do nothing, maybe it will just go away.

I used to love going in NC and having fun in local chat, I like to think that sometimes I even helped generate that fun, I can't do that anymore as I look around in there now and wonder how many of the people in there are the type of people I would not want to be around.

I used to try and welcome new comers and help them get started, now I don't answer any pms from people I don't know as I believe to many of them to be alts from people playing games and trying what ever they can to get what they want from people in there.

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Twiggy, i can understand your frustration. But that was one person that named a room like that. Nobody in here agrees with it and to top it off it is against the rules of the game. Problem is currently that the situation is very hard to deal with quickly. Since if you report the person. He or she can get banned in few days if even that happens since all the evidence is gone now and possibly even the character that person was on. And so far you havent suggested anything that could help the situation. Putting rules of the game there will not stop this at all. Putting button to choose if you are real player or role player will change nothing at all since most people that do that now will continue doing that in the future. So what should devs do in this case ? Keep in mind that nobody wants moderators present in the game. That was already here and devs put stop to that. 

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I agree that such names as "rape" for rooms shouldn't be allowed and those that use that name for a room should be warned.

 

For those that have that "fantasy", I bet they don't have any idea about what a real rape is. If they knew I'm sure that they'd change their mind.

 

And raping is not even possible in the game, because as long as there is a choice (accept or refuse a sexual pose) it can't be considered a rape, unless if only descriptive sex not involving poses is used and even then the "victim" is willing to be raped so it's the same... It's their choice. So the whole thing doesn't make sense for me. I think that many people confuse rough with rape. They fantasy might be all about having it rough and some "think" that is the same as being raped. It will never be considered a rape in game... Even if you pretend to... Sorry for disappointing some of you.

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I could write a essay about this issue in game and many others that I have seen since I started.

 

Frankly, I came to a very simple conclusion, 3dxchat is Sexdevilgame product and at the end of the day they are the one that decide what is acceptable or not.

 

I am done with going on a crusade or telling how people should act. If I witness something that I find disturbing and that break a rule, i report it and move on.

 

3dxchat is not my game, it just a game.

 

The owner and admin decided to give the player an ignore button and the responsibility to report. So be it, it there choice and business.

 

I might help moderating the forum on my spare time but I make sure to not get involve in game.

 

Life is like a amusement park... And I am just here to enjoy the ride.

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hey guyz, just thinking, once were going totally OT here, why dont the mods open a topic called "room names" or just something of a cind to suit this subject, and merge all post about this issue "rape n room names" in there, so we can use this topic here for further ideas that we would like to see in the new gui....just thinkin n writn

 

ps: an aunt of mine got raped by three men as she was 17 years old, now shes 52 and she still suffers from it quiet alot, just like all relatives confronted with this issue and her about this and she will never, i repeat: NEVER, till she hits the grave ,get over this and is branded with the "expirence" 4 the rest of her fukn life" and if some ppl in here had beloved ones in there family, where this also happend, i guess u just wouldnt say so lapidary "hey, its 'just' a fantasy or "if u dont like the name of the room, then just dont go in there" and should maybe understand, why some ppl react rather allergic about this subject and ill let it end with the words that robt and skar wrote:

 

 

Just so i am clear, My issue is naming public rooms "rape". you can do whatever the hell you want in your own rooms. I would never try to tell someone they cannot do something

 

 

Like I used to say, it not because it a sex game that you can do what ever you like, keep those fantasies private matter if you wish. But don't go around calling your room Rape.

 

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As much as i really like your ideas Twiggy, I don't see how they will change anything. People who are going lie are going to lie. As a new player I have seen this first hand as it has recently

 

happened to me. The internet is full of people that take delight in others pain. I wish I had a solution and i admire you for trying to find one, but i don't see how adding more profile options

 

will give these internet trolls more honesty and character.

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People who do things they should know to be wrong mostly have to find a way to convince them sleves they are not doing wrong, that is not just my opinion, if you went to any psychiatrist or canceler they would tell you that.

In here we have a few that are placing something in their profiles to say they are not what their profiles describe and are roleplaying.

Out of the rest that are not saying what they have there is not a representation of who they are in rl there is nothing in the rules of the game to stop them from doing so.

They will argue they have a right to put what ever they want there and as far as the game goes they are right, they are not breaking any rules.

They use comparisons to acting and such to say they are just roleplaying and that gives them the excuse they need to be able to do so.

They say things like what people don't know wont hurt them and that they do not intentionally go out to hurt anyone.

If we take away what they feel is their right to be able to do so then a good number of them will stop, they will no longer have the excuses they have now to be able to say to them selves they are not doing wrong.

As I have said before in here, when you 1st come in and make your 1st avi, almost all will make an avi the same sex as themselves, put in roughly the age the are, might lie a little there, and where they are from.

They will then go in the game thinking that is what everyone has done.

In there though there are these people that are just waiting for them and prepared to take advantage of their lack of knowing of what goes on there.

At the moment that is being done with knowledge of all of us that have been here for a while and worse, the knowledge of the devs.

No matter how you look at it, it is wrong.

 

Basically when this has been discussed there are those that argue for change and those that do not want things to change.

The ones that want change have obvious reasons and the ones that do not want change will argue everything but what is their obvious reasons.

 

when I started this thread i put in pics of what could be done, in there I included real life to be put on the profiles even though i don't believe it is needed, I did so because every time it had come up in other threads people argued if they had to put roleplayer then the rest of us should have to put real life.

The truth is all that is needed is a box to be checked to say if the details are for roleplay or your actual sex and age details, and then if the box is checked for roleplayer then that shows on your profile.

And a rule put in place to say if you chose to represent yourself as different to your sex and age them you must check the box to say you are roleplaying.

If you do not feel you should have to give any details then you simply leave it blank or put something in there people will know to be a joke like 99 and from mars.

I don't care what excuses people give in here, the only reason they would not want to have to check the box is because they want to be able to deceive people without breaking a rule and admitting to them selves they are lieing and deceiving.

They simply do not want to be having to break a rule to do so.

As for wasting time to do this, 1, it would be a couple of hours of scripting and 2, i don't think it a waste of time at all.

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Twiggy, I have never said your ideas were bad. It's a simple matter of they won't do any good. This type of conduct is rampant on sites like this. Like I said, I was a site mod for probably the worst site for fakes and underage.

It was a 24/7 JOB to try and police it. I got fed up and left.

No matter what you try to do, people are going to still do as they please and continue to deceive and act as they wish. It happens on all sites like this. Yep, there are people out there whose only goal is to cause drama, troll

and pretend to be something they aren't. There are far more people like that than you realize. Unfortunately those of us that choose to be honest about ourselves and try to enjoy things get the worst of it and all we can do

is trust our feelings about others and choose who to talk to and who not to.

As for the rape thing, no I don't condone it. I agree the word somehow should be banned so it can't happen again. I had 2 very close friends who were raped irl and completely understand it all. I'm now legal guardian for 1

of those girls. My point about that was there are people out there that fantasize about it. There are even real life clubs for across the country. No one says you have to respect them, you just can't disrespect them for

fantasizing about something out of the norm.

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Wow, as far as i see now twiggy has much deeper hate for people with rape fantasies then the room topic. I would agree that naming a room "rape" is unacceptable. But now you are straight our saying you will never have any respect for people with rape fantasies even tho statisticaly around 60% of people have such fantasies, thats more then half of the population. And if you are so self rightious that you can't even tolerate them at all why would they ever respect you and cater to your needs which you show alot of in this topic ? It is a fantasy it is not in any shape or form similar to the real thing and you want to what make them feel bad jusy becouse thay have such a desire and a fantasy ? call them freaks ? whats next throw stones at them ? Fanatasies and desires are nto something people think of for themselfs, it is something that comes naturaly. But as far as you are concerned peopel only should be allowed to cuddle and missioanry pose while tlaking sweet things to each other. 

 

Fantasies should never be publisized if they can offend anyone, but if you show no respect for them twiggy then sorry, but you have no right to say to them what they should and should not do.

 

Best,

Dande.

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Twiggy please tell me how exactly are you going to prove what people are or are not in real life. Do you want them to send developers their ID ? (can be faked) Do you want them to chat on the webcam with developers ? (still can be faked) So how exactly are you suggesting they enforce this rule ? Are you willing to send your detailed information to a small company that has barely any security in place to protect you and your information ? I am sorry but if Microsoft and Sony are not secure enough to protect your personal information i am not willing to send my id to small company. Also the cost to come with a system that would keep track of this and secure it would be really high. 

 

If this is not what you meant then there is no way to enforce it, is there. Did you stopped to think about fake positives just for a second ? What if somebody accused you of being different gender then you are, provided devs with few screens of you telling something that is hinting towards it and you got banned because of that. Even thought it is not true. Because with that rule this can happen.

 

Nothing is stopping people from not checking i am roleplayer box. Even if that would be against the rules. There is just no way you can check and enforce this. Room name Rape is against the rules yet it happened anyway. 

 

Honestly best thing you can do is start treating people that do lie about their gender or do have written that in their profile, good and with respect (if they willingly come clean to you). If enough people will do that then you will have less people that hide it. I have talked with people that have in their profile that in real they are different gender and they get quite a lot of hate. If they see its ok to come clean and will still have people be fine with it then there is no reason to hide now is there. 

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