XGold Transfers Are Ruining This Game

[Visual]

Balancing XGold’s Future: More Value, Fairness & Sustainability

Expanding XGold’s usability with official job listings, casinos, exclusive clothing, and other premium features is exciting but challenging, especially when considering players who already hold 500K+ XGold. We need to ensure new additions benefit everyone without disrupting the economy.  

Real-Money Exchange? Not Happening (Unless...)

Directly converting XGold to real money is off the table. However, a potential partner program could allow creators to design approved in-game items (clothing, accessories, etc.). The catch? This would require sharing development tools, code, and resources publicly something that needs careful consideration.  

Learning from Other Games

Looking at platforms like Second Life, where players pay for almost everything poses, outfits, accessories we see a monetization model that not all communities embrace. Should XGold follow a similar path? Probably not. Instead, we should focus on value-driven, fair, and engaging  ways to use XGold without making the game feel paywalled.  

The goal? More features, more fun without alienating players. What would *you* like to see XGold used for?  

[MeiLing]

On 5/15/2025 at 10:36 AM, Visual said:

Balancing XGold’s Future: More Value, Fairness & Sustainability

Expanding XGold’s usability with official job listings, casinos, exclusive clothing, and other premium features is exciting but challenging, especially when considering players who already hold 500K+ XGold. We need to ensure new additions benefit everyone without disrupting the economy.  

Real-Money Exchange? Not Happening (Unless...)

Directly converting XGold to real money is off the table. However, a potential partner program could allow creators to design approved in-game items (clothing, accessories, etc.). The catch? This would require sharing development tools, code, and resources publicly something that needs careful consideration.  

Learning from Other Games

Looking at platforms like Second Life, where players pay for almost everything poses, outfits, accessories we see a monetization model that not all communities embrace. Should XGold follow a similar path? Probably not. Instead, we should focus on value-driven, fair, and engaging  ways to use XGold without making the game feel paywalled.  

The goal? More features, more fun without alienating players. What would *you* like to see XGold used for?  

They have died from this... Exactly what we don't need.

[Visual]

3 hours ago, MeiLing said:

They have died from this... Exactly what we don't need.

3DXChat is *almost* perfect even with slower updates.

Unlike other "games" that nickel-and-dime you with endless microtransactions (Buy this! Buy that!), a flat monthly subscription is a breath of fresh air. Imagine having to pay extra for every pose, outfit, or accessory, no thanks! 

Spending Xgold is sure an important thing but having more clothing skins and body types is more important. 

 

[DireTeddyBear]

It's clear some here feel that women deserve to be paid for their time. Have fun being a mercenary. That's the attitude I was on about. Thank you for illustrating my point. LOL

The idea that women somehow put in more work than men during these sessions is flat-out ridiculous. And frankly, sexist.

 

[Pandorra]

11 hours ago, DireTeddyBear said:

It's clear some here feel that women deserve to be paid for their time. Have fun being a mercenary. ...

 

Mercenary is cute. Where I live we say differently

[Julilla]

On 5/3/2025 at 9:52 PM, DireTeddyBear said:

The weird thing is, it's not like they can buy anything with that xgold, other than photo slots and name enhancements.

Picture slots

Name enhancements

Adding players

Renaming player name

Sending gift cards to friends (90% of the times, in my case, I love sending cards)

Boosting rooms I had a good time in

Boosting your own room (if you made one)

Consuming beer, whiskey, or a smoke

The list goes on

[peterdavis]

Thats ok but why not a store to buy things like clothing hairstyles and extras you buy a beer when you go to next room poof no beer If a can't keep i will not buy it !

[BellaGirl]

10 hours ago, peterdavis said:

Thats ok but why not a store to buy things like clothing hairstyles and extras you buy a beer when you go to next room poof no beer If a can't keep i will not buy it !

No no and no! Absolutely Nope!

[erosmost]

On 5/8/2025 at 10:55 AM, Gizmo said:

Hi everyone,

We appreciate you sharing your thoughts. We're following the discussion and understand that XGold transfers can be a topic of many different opinions. We want to keep the conversation going in a way that feels respectful and constructive for everyone.

I'm curious to hear your thoughts on what measures might help find that sweet spot where we can offer everyone the freedom to choose while also keeping the vibe nice and cozy in the game.

Hi Gizmo & All, 

First, ongoing Thank You's for 3dxChat...Amazing in ways not yet fully or adequately recognized (more in time..). 

Random thought to perhaps 'fork' the current version into varying social experiments (for lack of better term)..
..whereby each 'social experiment' could start with the same base version 3.2 (leaving one 3.2 as is currently), with the others enabling various 'game changing' behavior variations.  For example: 

1. v3.2 Base (current, with ongoing feature additions) 
2. v3.2 Greed (full Laissez-faire economics) 
3. v3.2 VR (controls modified to allow VR integration, https://unity.com/solutions/vr )
4. v3.2 AI + Pgen (adding AI & procedural generation tools for current & future 3dx builders)*,**
5. v3.2 Unreal (experimental port to Unreal for efficient use of all features therein, including AR & XR https://www.unrealengine.com/en-US/xr )*
6. v3.2 RP (fully developed Role Play environments)
7. v3.2 PG (non X-rated, to allow building lead-in feeder markets utilizing current platform (for likely eventual use of primary/uncensored 3dx); akin to Sims 3**, etc.)
8+. TBD 

*

**Inspo:  https://gamerant.com/best-open-world-games-reshape-world-creativity/

Residents/Users could choose their preferred, and use data would provide insight into the best integrations for the base/primary version. 

Just pondering aloud...
With Gratitude

Edited May 25 by erosmost
adding link

[Evehne]

On 5/3/2025 at 7:48 PM, DireTeddyBear said:

I've been on this system since 2017. And I have to say that the ability to transfer XGold directly to another player is killing this game.

Now all the women are escorts, and want to be paid. That sure isn't a fantasy of mine.

If I was going to pay someone for sex, I'd do it for real.

And are these women kidding? 4000 xgold for 15 minutes?

It turns this game into a huge waste of time.

If girls are paid, it's because guys are paying. 
If girls are paid so well, it's because guys pay too well and ready to pay too well.

Are we getting rid of knives because people misuse them? No. 

It's all about demand, not supply, and mutual consent.

Escort is large part of RP IG, yes.
But removing or limiting XGold transfer, will be penalizing for builders, DJs or Dancers. 
Escort is what ... ~20-25% Max of DX's economic activity, rest is what ?
- pay DJ/Dancers
- winning quizz/igg prize
- reward builders
but the large part is certainly room boost !
and for a room owner, one night boosting a room is throwing away 3K to 15K++. It's not by selling 3 penis ice creams and 2 bottles of whiskey that we're going to get our money back. If no one comes to give you a small credit donation, or boost in your place, you just lose your XGold. So you're very happy when one or two nice escorts/clients transfer you 1-3K as a reward for event/build. 

The real problem is that the DX economic system is just non-existent. You earn 100 to 300x/day, with no other way to get it, except for paying for the build or doing the escort, participating in quizzes for those who organize them... The other way is to take out the credit card.
 

Doing build (for free) for others, organizing an event, is a waste of time with no money return. 
Build = dozens of hours, sometimes more than a hundred ... return ... reputation (yes, you can sell your build ... look at the shops, sales levels are often at 0) Ask HotKitty or others if we had to pay them the real rate of a 3D modeler.. the time cost of a builder is 15-45$/hours this port a room price to 2500-6000$ for a full build.

Organizing event = more effort, do flyer, found DJs, found room, found dancer, synchronize everyone, manage cancellations, send invitations forum, discord, IG, boost the room, manage DJ switches ... return ? 3 penis ice cream... 5 beers. This type of event, when I see the professional quality that some people put into it, exemple of time cost with 6Djs / 8 dancers / 1 organizers/ 1 builder / 1 flyers maker CM / 1hour by DJ, 6hours event :
- DJ = 6 x 100$ = 600$
- Dancers full time = 8 x 50$ x 6h = 2400$
- Organizer = ~30h work = 1500$
- Builder = 2000$ (functionnal room, 35-40h)
- Flyer maker / CM = 500$
Total time cost : 7000$

you paid : 0.

Escorts and their prices are really not the problem..

Edited May 25 by Evehne

[MistressBeryl]

Do you really think, if i would not have sex with you without getting paid, i would have any sex with you because they cancel XGold transfer?
Don´t kill other´s fun just because you don´t like it, nobody forces you to pay, then just renounce.

[peterdavis]

if we (the men) can stop paying for sex. and they will stop. no demand no job as a game they will lower price no big thing thank you for your time 

[MistressBeryl]

On 5/21/2025 at 7:05 AM, DireTeddyBear said:

It's clear some here feel that women deserve to be paid for their time. Have fun being a mercenary. That's the attitude I was on about. Thank you for illustrating my point. LOL

The idea that women somehow put in more work than men during these sessions is flat-out ridiculous. And frankly, sexist.

 

Nobody forces you to pay for anything. It´s a chance for you to get, what you would never reach without.

Edited June 5 by MistressBeryl

[Awsno]

Men pay for sex? It's their own fault.

I sit in rooms full of men (sometimes over 100 people). There are rooms where it is dead quiet - people just standing around. No one says hi. 

In a way my standards are pretty low for men - they have to be moderately literate and somewhat amusing or engaging. Even then, sometimes no one hits on me for hours at a time, even in rooms full of people.

[SailorJack]

On 5/8/2025 at 5:55 PM, Gizmo said:

Hi everyone,

We appreciate you sharing your thoughts. We're following the discussion and understand that XGold transfers can be a topic of many different opinions. We want to keep the conversation going in a way that feels respectful and constructive for everyone.

I'm curious to hear your thoughts on what measures might help find that sweet spot where we can offer everyone the freedom to choose while also keeping the vibe nice and cozy in the game.

what about EULA??? is it not clear enough?

2. Prohibitions, restrictions and conditions of use, for all game chats and channels.
2.06. Begging/Soliciting in any form is prohibited in all game chats and channels. Begging/Soliciting includes but is not limited to: requesting users to transfer real money to the virtual wallet, asking for additional credits, and requests to transfer game gold.
2.07. All types of ads for sale, exchange, or other options for the transfer of accounts from one user to another violate EULA and are prohibited in all game chats and channels.

why "prostitution" and associated profiles, rooms and behavior is allowed by the game developers?

how are developers monitoring and how is sanctioned prostitution trough Chapter 2 para 2.06, 2.07 of EULA in this game?

what about users prompting/encouraging other players to buy xGold with real money (which is possible in the game)??? is this the "community" standard?

 

[MistressBeryl]

4 hours ago, SailorJack said:

what about EULA??? is it not clear enough?

2. Prohibitions, restrictions and conditions of use, for all game chats and channels.
2.06. Begging/Soliciting in any form is prohibited in all game chats and channels. Begging/Soliciting includes but is not limited to: requesting users to transfer real money to the virtual wallet, asking for additional credits, and requests to transfer game gold.
2.07. All types of ads for sale, exchange, or other options for the transfer of accounts from one user to another violate EULA and are prohibited in all game chats and channels.

why "prostitution" and associated profiles, rooms and behavior is allowed by the game developers?

how are developers monitoring and how is sanctioned prostitution trough Chapter 2 para 2.06, 2.07 of EULA in this game?

what about users prompting/encouraging other players to buy xGold with real money (which is possible in the game)??? is this the "community" standard?

 

“Why are ‘prostitution’ and associated profiles, spaces and behaviors allowed by game developers?”

It's not a request to give something for which you get nothing. You are free not to do it, but you can't expect or demand that everyone has sex with you for free, or to have sex with you at all. So what is your problem? Just don't go to strip clubs where you just sit around silently anyway.

[TheDonald]

I rarely pay a prostitute but hey what else you got to spend the gold on and if you were doing the gift thing before the reinstalled the gifting gold its about the same most were asking like 4 gifts which is what 1200.  Way i see it don't go after high cost hookers. develop some game till they lower there prices.  Moroe satisfiying to snag it with words anyhow than just paying for it.  Thats my view don't expect all to agree.  Good luck with your pussy count.

 

 

[Chrinoli]

I am don't understand where the probleme is..this is a Sex Game, surely Escort is a big thing here...

If you don't want to pay, surch for some friends or nice girls..

I'm playing sience 2018 here and i never payed for Sex, because I love it to flirt and chat over hours..if you only want to fuck you have to pay, that is the Point!!

[LiaLykoris]

I don't see why I would pay to fuck when I already pay a subscription to play, I find that the escorts on 3DxChat are useless because the xGolds are not used as they should be.