XGold Transfers Are Ruining This Game

[DireTeddyBear]

I've been on this system since 2017. And I have to say that the ability to transfer XGold directly to another player is killing this game.

Now all the women are escorts, and want to be paid. That sure isn't a fantasy of mine.

If I was going to pay someone for sex, I'd do it for real.

And are these women kidding? 4000 xgold for 15 minutes?

It turns this game into a huge waste of time.

[Pandorra]

This is exactly what I was writing on the walls long time ago already and why I always was opposing this idea. I witnessed same effect on another game I was playing before 3DX Chat. 90% of women there were hookers or gold diggers.
There's rather nothing with a higher potential of destruction than human greed. Not without reason it is one of the 7 mortal sins.

my 2 cents

[DireTeddyBear]

The weird thing is, it's not like they can buy anything with that xgold, other than photo slots and name enhancements.

[MistressBeryl]

You run a club? You need lot of gold to boost. Sou you guys be gentle and will find a gilrl for free like in real life, if you ever had a girl in real life. But if you just want quick sex, you pay like in rl. Also there are lot of sex rooms where girls fuck for free. And there are male excorts, too. 

[Visual]

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[Lunarelf]

fun story: technically you can't use xgolds for many meaningful things—— rooms are free and build by players themselves, foods are somehow just decors with no actual function(For example: fill a hunger bar), galleries are not that useful after more than 8, and colourful names are not those things you need to change everyday, so until now I still don't understand why do those players want to horde tons of xgolds

[MistressBeryl]

Yes, so why not pay anything. When i enter a good room i boost, too. I buy a drinkt to respect the builders or hosts work and time.
And 90% are escorts? Maybe if you wake up in a strip and escort club. And if an experienced premium girl is to expensive, go to the trash rooms.

[wolvie44]

people should start putting i dont pay for sex in theyre profiles so escorts dont bother them or just straight out put the escorts on theyre iggy list. plus i said this will kill the game when this was put into game, other games like mnfclub did this and now its a dead game cause everyone wants cash for sex on that game.

[York]

On 5/3/2025 at 1:48 PM, DireTeddyBear said:

I've been on this system since 2017. And I have to say that the ability to transfer XGold directly to another player is killing this game.

Now all the women are escorts, and want to be paid. That sure isn't a fantasy of mine.

If I was going to pay someone for sex, I'd do it for real.

And are these women kidding? 4000 xgold for 15 minutes?

It turns this game into a huge waste of time.

Meh, this is like saying women don't have sex for free irl because there's this thing called money exchange irl. Obviously, that is not so. If you have qualities a girl likes, or you're willing to put in the time investment, I'm sure they will still have sex with you on 3dx just as they do IRL, despite the existence of a mechanism for transferring money. 

XGold transfers are good. If anything, they should do more to enhance the internal economy of the virtual world. These features add immersion and dimensions to the game. 

Edited May 6 by York

[Visual]

I respect that different users have varying needs and opinions when it comes to Xgold. Ultimately, I believe it depends on what you're using it for whether that's organizing events, hiring entertainers, or other purposes. For some, Xgold might not be a priority, while for others, it’s an essential feature.

[Darcii]

I respect everyone's opinions. I don't necessarily agree and this is coming from a girl in game that has done both

I currently am working at Anna's Strip & Escort room (LOVE it there). And in that room I do strip & escort for gold or other things.
Outside of Anna's though I do many other fantasy's... I'm a student at 3dx high school... I frequent bars in the game HOPING that a hot guy would approach me and say hi. For absolutely free. So I would say that I have found that most people in game are not escorting.
But I will say that majority of the time I have not found men approaching me unless I was in the strip club... Not sure why. Maybe they get shot down alot in normal rooms. But I find that the gold just adds an element of fun but its certainly not ruining the game.
Also I hate to be honest but some people are BORING to have sex with. So I do understand why some escorts (like me if I'm working at Anna's) want to feel special and offered something for my time because I give you my all when I'm with you. Typing all the time, saying everything you want, changing positions, making it fun like in RL. And I think sometimes that's not always offered so I think its nice to have the option for someone to appreciate it. But yes it shouldnt be a must. I ONLY escort and strip at Anna's club... Outside of that my profile changes and I'm a normal girl

The only thing for me that is annoying is this. I do this game for fun. It's a fantasy of mine when I strip & escort.
But at the same time... I'm pretty good at it. I always have a groupof men around me in game, I get tipped alot, and I escort for higher than normal prices and the men enjoy it. 3DX is essentially making money off of me hehe. So I don't see why... we wouldnt be able to trade in our xGold for some kind of perk or real world smaller money. They are earning money everytime a man tops off his gold to tip me... only makes sense that I be able to benefit from it.
I enjoy it at the end of the day. Thats why I do it. But it's silly that I am essentially making 3DXChat money everytime I play the game when someone tips me and I don't benefit from it.

Edited Wednesday at 12:14 AM by Darcii

[JennyJones]

I'm not married in real, nor have I ever been. It seems to me (I have no wish to insult anyone) that marrying some rich guy to create a life changing effect ( nice home, and all the toys and clothes you can eat) is simply prostitution by another name, love may be involved somewhere in the mix, but that;s neither here nor there. I was a whore on 3DX and earned a lot of gold and I may do it again. As the woman said, we're all sitting on a goldmine

 

[MistressBeryl]

On 5/6/2025 at 5:31 AM, wolvie44 said:

people should start putting i dont pay for sex in theyre profiles so escorts dont bother them or just straight out put the escorts on theyre iggy list. plus i said this will kill the game when this was put into game, other games like mnfclub did this and now its a dead game cause everyone wants cash for sex on that game.

Not sure what you are spending your gold for or why you want to save it to eternity.
Everybody wants Money for sex? I don´t have problems to get sex for free XD
Every guy with mannors and respect finds a match for a night or more.
Publishing a club is expensive, building it is a lot of time. So, you want people to spend time and gold for your free of cost pleasure? Sure...
And bothered by escorts? In a strip and escort club? At a hotel bar in Bangkok? Yiiiehaah welcome to the real world, i´m sure you will not be bothered at the beach.
And, be sure, if you write "i pay for nothing" you will find people matching you. That´s what profiles were made for.
I myself get gold for building and need it to boost our club or send gifts.
Gifts for sex? Why give the money to Gizmo instead of the girl or guy? Whatever. Sorry, Gizmo, not meant personally.

Oh  you think about scrooges putting escorts on the iggy list? Much appreciated. Think about your experience if every girl you are not willing to pay for puts YOU on the iggy list. Have fun.
 

Edited Wednesday at 09:07 AM by MistressBeryl

[AshokaClaymore]

I escorted in game for some 8 months, joined 2 years ago more or less. I retired recently after reaching my goals (15 slots and a superfancy nametag)

I used to be an expensive one as my rates were far higher than the "average". I had so much fun doing it and i learned a lot about myself and about men.

If i consider my experience i have a few comments

1. Working girls in 3dx are generally escorting in strip clubs, so it's not like you run into an escort by "chance".

2. Most escorts clearly state that in their profiles, so if you see one and you do not like to pay for sex, just do not hit on her.

3. As in RL Escorts ARE a thing because there is a Demand.

4. Some men go in strip club and complain about the girls asking for xgold, which is kinda stupid.

5. Sorry if i put this one so harsh, but adding "i don't pay for sex" on your profile is kinda of irrelevant. None of my former "colleagues" are going around 3dx randomly asking men to have sex with them for xgold. At the same time there are men that have horrible manners and would struggle to find a partner even if they are willing to pay lots...

Edited Wednesday at 11:45 AM by AshokaClaymore
better wording

[TashaTight]

On 5/3/2025 at 7:48 PM, DireTeddyBear said:

I've been on this system since 2017. And I have to say that the ability to transfer XGold directly to another player is killing this game.

Now all the women are escorts, and want to be paid. That sure isn't a fantasy of mine.

If I was going to pay someone for sex, I'd do it for real.

And are these women kidding? 4000 xgold for 15 minutes?

It turns this game into a huge waste of time.

Of things you could come up with this is the problem with 3Dxchat, not the diminishing social aspect due to constant need for instant gratification. The visitor counts the shuffle people forward meaningless fuck rooms without much social interactions or AFK hubs because that where they think most interesting stuff apparently is happening, lovense which seems to have killed much the desire to actually have any real conversations with another user despite this being labeled as a chat aka 3Dxchat. But some women choosing to live out some Ewhore fantasy is the biggest issue with current state of the service?

[Gizmo]

Hi everyone,

We appreciate you sharing your thoughts. We're following the discussion and understand that XGold transfers can be a topic of many different opinions. We want to keep the conversation going in a way that feels respectful and constructive for everyone.

I'm curious to hear your thoughts on what measures might help find that sweet spot where we can offer everyone the freedom to choose while also keeping the vibe nice and cozy in the game.

[Lunarelf]

2 hours ago, Gizmo said:

Hi everyone,

We appreciate you sharing your thoughts. We're following the discussion and understand that XGold transfers can be a topic of many different opinions. We want to keep the conversation going in a way that feels respectful and constructive for everyone.

I'm curious to hear your thoughts on what measures might help find that sweet spot where we can offer everyone the freedom to choose while also keeping the vibe nice and cozy in the game.

Master gizmo, can you make our avatars feel hungry/ thirsty/tired/ horny or such things? Since now we have tons of snacks and drinks around and we had drunk camera effect before, but until now those consumables are kinda just designed for rp, but with no real use of them——players are mostly like to buy tons of vapes rather than a burger or coke.

If we can just add something related to avatar's mood(e.g: a hunger/thirst bar) if avatars feel hungry they can't dance or do sex interaction with others, but drinks/foods can refill those bars , it will both give people a reason to purchase food-related consumables(also make their xgolds flow) and limit the number of dancebots at same time. Players who set those objects in their room can earn a little xgolds in advance, not enough to make them rich, but only for the vibe. But for those who really don't want to benefit others, they can still purchase those foods in official rooms such as sinclub or saloon.

To think, daily xgolds can surely support an avatar's need for hours and left a little extra for those who don't spend a lot(since hardly no one will stay online 24/7 without afk, except that sad pumpkin who sits at sinclub forever). Players can even create something as "dinner date" or "snack party" based on this mechanism so they can buy their friends an actual ingame consumables instead of picture gifts.(or... if you can relate some of the gifts with consumables, even a little more pricy, I believe people will still glad to buy them for their friends)

Appreciates for reading such long and stroking lines of words, sorry if that's too complicated to understand because my first language isn't English. I'll prepare some charts to explain if it's an interesting idea

Edited Thursday at 05:14 PM by Lunarelf

[MistressBeryl]

I would more love to see the lowest amout go to ten instead of 100 to tip a bartender or spend a drink to someone, 

[Darcii]

On 5/8/2025 at 7:55 AM, Gizmo said:

Hi everyone,

We appreciate you sharing your thoughts. We're following the discussion and understand that XGold transfers can be a topic of many different opinions. We want to keep the conversation going in a way that feels respectful and constructive for everyone.

I'm curious to hear your thoughts on what measures might help find that sweet spot where we can offer everyone the freedom to choose while also keeping the vibe nice and cozy in the game.

I think you all are doing a good job at that currently. It's not forced... just an option in game.
I only wish that the xgold had more benefits. As someone who nightly can have 50K transferred to me sometimes... it seems pointless besides just the fun in game with this mostly useless thing. I'd love a way to "cash out" honestly for real currency since I am helping the game earn as people are topping off to send me xgold.
And for other users I think having the ability to spend more in game would be helpful.

[Lunarelf]

2 hours ago, Darcii said:

I think you all are doing a good job at that currently. It's not forced... just an option in game.
I only wish that the xgold had more benefits. As someone who nightly can have 50K transferred to me sometimes... it seems pointless besides just the fun in game with this mostly useless thing. I'd love a way to "cash out" honestly for real currency since I am helping the game earn as people are topping off to send me xgold.
And for other users I think having the ability to spend more in game would be helpful.

Ain't "cash out xgolds" the thing that they're avoiding to afd, so xgolds are less rmt related? If we can simply cash them, in short time periods the player markets and all missing features will be there. But soon, here will be either lindenlab or mnf—— either a market without much regulation and player have to payxtra2play, or everyone just eager for currency at any cost. So what's the point?

Also: cash out xgolds are not " helping the game earn" but " helping your self earn", and add some tax counts on devs themselves. Yet another thing: sounds more sus if you really got 50k incomes/day ( ͡°Ĺ̯ ͡° )

Edited 11 hours ago by Lunarelf

[Serynna]

I can understand that "cashing out" xgold for real money is something that they want to avoid, but I would like to see more things available to buy with it in-game. I'm not sure what that could be - more clothes, more apartments? I'm sure other people will have some ideas.

[Xizi]

On 5/8/2025 at 10:13 PM, Lunarelf said:

Master gizmo, can you make our avatars feel hungry/ thirsty/tired/ horny or such things? Since now we have tons of snacks and drinks around and we had drunk camera effect before, but until now those consumables are kinda just designed for rp, but with no real use of them——players are mostly like to buy tons of vapes rather than a burger or coke.

If we can just add something related to avatar's mood(e.g: a hunger/thirst bar) if avatars feel hungry they can't dance or do sex interaction with others, but drinks/foods can refill those bars , it will both give people a reason to purchase food-related consumables(also make their xgolds flow) and limit the number of dancebots at same time. Players who set those objects in their room can earn a little xgolds in advance, not enough to make them rich, but only for the vibe. But for those who really don't want to benefit others, they can still purchase those foods in official rooms such as sinclub or saloon.

Absolutely horrible idea that will make 3dxchat feel like one of those shitty mobile games where you need to buy "energy" to keep playing. You want to RP eating and drinking - then just RP it. No need to be asking to make a game a worse place for 90% of community. 

Already imagining myself having a long going ERP sessions and after 2-3 hours being unable to continue... "Sorry babe, my energy bar is low, gonna go have a burger!" 

3dxchat is not a survival game. Neither it is a strictly RP game. I dunno, try some heavily modded Conan Exiles RP/ERP server - you'll love it since you seem to enjoy both - RP and survival mechanics. Genuine advice. But no need to be asking to make 3dxchat worse for most of the community please.

8 hours ago, Serynna said:

I can understand that "cashing out" xgold for real money is something that they want to avoid, but I would like to see more things available to buy with it in-game. I'm not sure what that could be - more clothes, more apartments? I'm sure other people will have some ideas.

Making more things available for xgold means having less things available for free. If, for example, some dress going to be available only for xgold - it doesn't mean that such a dress going to materialize from the thin air. It only means, that the dress that would otherwise be released for everyone - now will be released only for people who are ready to pay for it, while everyone else going to have less content - which can be very bad, considering that 3dxchat generally tend to be slow with updates.

I personally hoarding on 300+ k xgold, it's not a big deal for me - personally. But what the point of asking devs to make game worse for many players and release things that always been free - for xgold? Just so you can feel that you are better than others? 

Edited 2 hours ago by Xizi