Due to moral harassment I quit 3dx chat.

[JKA]

Hi guys,
I have a 3dxchat subscription for over a year, but I quit the game a couple days ago. I was discriminated against in age. Although it was 3dxchat that never quit even if I had a big drama, I quit seriously this time.

Because I was age-discriminated against by my lover. We had a big age difference, it was very problem to him, he told me we couldn't work relationship on 3dxchat even if we are avatars. He tried to moved to be just a friend.

Certainly my 3dxchat profile had a fake age on it. But that's what everyone write, and I thought that the idea that age is a "number" is the mainstream world.

We reunited for the first time in three years and began to love each other enough to fill the three-year gap. Also, when he himself went on a visit my country in real life, he was desperate to switch to real relationship. However, the countries are so far apart that I didn't expect real dating. But he was desperately trying to get me. I was happy as such then.

But the moment he knew my real age, he said 3dxchat dating and his plan which coming to my country after covid19 were waste thing. And he said that your body line collapsed because you were very old. And he started to say that international long-distance relationships couldn't work and then also said he didn't want to lead me. 

If I was young, he wanted to get relationship me he said that too. He also said "Our relationship took mistake" What a stupid way to say it!

My age on 3dxchat's profile is 38 years old and 6 years have passed. Of course, at least 38 + 6 right now, but he really believed in that 38. Currently he is 27 years old. (When I first met him, he was 24 years old.)

He said:
"RL its a bit weird"

I am an Asian. Look like younger than Westerners. He is European(Portugal). Even though he's 27, if I actually meet him, I'll look younger. The Westerner can't guess my real age always. Because even people from the same country say I'm of unknown age. That's how young my appearance is. And I have had an experience suitable for my age. In the real world, I have experienced very difficult things and setbacks. That's what makes up my personality right now. And he denies my age equal he denies my everything.　

Talking to him just hurt me and then quit 3dxchat. He is with very young girls right now. After all, he felt that he could only communicate with people of his age. So I feel he can't respect me.

I told him he wasn't suitable for my friends either lastly.

3dxchat is a virtual world. Don't mix real and virtual. He is stupid and pathetic, forgetting to respect the people without knowing that. In 3dxchat I had a lot of good friends. But my only regret is that I thought my priority was him.

Even if I ignore the stupid man, the damage my heart has suffered will not disappear. Even if I try to forget, the damage to my heart will not disappear. We have never met. He is a real idiot who says such words to people he has never met. I don't want to go back to 3dx where there are such people.

I want to ban him from 3dxchat forever. But I don't know how to BAN him. Because he doesn't always respect old people. Is it possible to ban him in my harassment story?

[MeiLing]

report him with screenshots of the harassment

[JKA]

40 minutes ago, MeiLing said:

report him with screenshots of the harassment

Thank you for the advice. But he did that harassment on other app. I got screenshots that app though not inside 3dxchat. I feel it’s wasting. And I don’t want to be online 3dxchat anymore. 
 

“you say you have bad body style which also makes it sound worse. Because you make it look you are very old. And the way you act, you look younger. I don’t want to lead you. But this doesn’t look like it will work.”

If he said that inside 3dxchat, I got a screenshot then I could send report. But we contacted outside already. 

[MeiLing]

Ignore him and keep enjoying 3DX. Also report him in the other app. 

Never let harassers win by leaving, ignore is a powerful tool 

[JackPine]

Agrees with MeiLing wholeheartedly.

Be assured there are good people here to share time with, and ignore the rest.  I wish you a better experience moving forward, JKA!

[Stacii]

Just apply "Stacii" mindset --Fuck em-- ignore. I'd say something like, """who pays for this account im playing on again? Oh that's RIGHT It's me. I WILL SAY I AM WHATEVER AGE I PLEASE and play any fucking Avatar i like male,female,demon I'd play a striped zebra if felt like it. Lol"

If people don't like that they can eat a dick. When i play it's for my own enjoyment not theirs "generally speaking" then I'd ignore thier ass.lol Problem Gone

[Stacii]

To bad I'm not in-game. I'd get rid of them for you real quick trust me. I find it fun to torment assholes / bitches like that.

I am a Succubus / Demon after all.

Chaos,Pain,Misery,Destruction,Lust,

Manipulation,Corruption,Hate

it's kinda my thing.. Oh and Torture that's always fun... 

Edited August 9, 2021 by Stacii

[JKA]

5 hours ago, JKA said:

Thank you for all. I keep crying now. You won't be able to do anything until I'm a little calm. My time is early morning right now, I couldn't sleep at all.

A friend who is 3dx contacted me he got married within 3dx. He returned on July 29th. He harassed me on August 2nd. I left 3dx on August 5th. He got married on August 9th.... In just 10 days, I think he was able to make two people who could say "You are the one, only my one". - I and his girl - He is just an idiot. He is not thoughtful man. 

I'm sure they will break up soon. Because he's a young couple of 27 and 23 years old, and his own way of thinking is too young. He has discriminatory thoughts as I have suffered.

Like I said "Even if I ignore the stupid man, the damage my heart has suffered will not disappear. Even if I try to forget, the damage to my heart will not disappear." My some friends in 3dxchat are discord or Steam. They cheer up me and I have to get well and ignore him though I am not get over yet.  

 

[Stacii]

Hope you feel better soon JKA.

 

Edited August 12, 2021 by Stacii