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6 hours ago, Coldheart said:

 

You got that right. I have common sense.

bahahahaha, nice one.  i think you suck but that was still good

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19 hours ago, Twiggy said:

You are so full of yourself, as always talking shit from the point of view of someone who doesn't think like normal people.

I can't say how it is now but when I was in the game mostly it was fairly new players who opened the rooms. likely had not even read the TOS. You may think that people coming in these forums and seeing these threads will only encourage people to open up such rooms, but most people don't think like you. Most wouldn't see threads like these and think, oh wow, what a great idea, I will open one, or oh wow, I am going to fuck with these people and open one. That may be your way of reacting to a thread like this but most would see it as something they should think twice about before doing. Just because your way of socialising would have you react in certain ways does not mean it is the norm, in fact it is far from the norm.

lucky for you , it wont ever happen to you, already enough male asses to plug in game, they dont need your hairy ass to do it. 

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2 hours ago, Leopardus said:

If you are going to get really specific then you also need to take into account the words which moderate the clause..."which have an association with...".

I'd find it hard to accept an argument that sexual assault of a victim is in no way associated with sexually or otherwise abusing them.

In legal terms in the US in order to be abused you have to be either a minor, unable to give consent, or be in a dependent relationship with the perpetrator.

If you look though the California Penal Code you will see that is true for all the crimes with abuse as part of the name.

https://www.shouselaw.com/ca/defense/penal-code/

https://www.thegomezfirm.com/what-is-the-difference-between-sexual-assault-and-sexual-abuse/

"California’s penal code does not specifically define sexual abuse. Yet, over the years, court cases and accompanying jury instructions have addressed the definition. Ultimately sexual abuse might or might not include penetration. Based on People v. White (1986) 179 Cal. App. 3d 194 and California’s Criminal Jury Instructions, whether or not penetration occurs, sexual abuse takes place when a person touches the intimate parts of another to cause pain, injury, or discomfort. This also includes emotional pain, injury, and discomfort. The perpetrator does not have to achieve sexual arousal or gratification when sexual abuse occurs.

The American Psychological Association (APA) offers a slightly broader definition of sexual abuse as “unwanted sexual activity, with perpetrators using force, making threats, or taking advantage of victims not able to give consent.” In a civil trial, attorneys often call upon medical experts to testify about the impacts of assault or abuse, so the APA’s definition might also be applied."

So yes rape in some cases is also sexual abuse but not all rapes involve sexual abuse.

 

 

 

 

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Of course they can remove stuff that the community finds offensive, but the written rule about it was removed, so what does that say about what the devs think about it?

3.09 which contain content that is otherwise deemed inappropriate.
 

Edited by Niblette

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1 minute ago, Niblette said:

Of course they can remove stuff that the community finds offensive, but the written rule about it was removed, so what does that say about what the devs think about it?

3.09 which contain content that is otherwise deemed inappropriate.
 

I can't remember that this rule ever looked different, sry... and the TOS I mean are here in the forum beyond the point "read first"

 

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That used to be listed on the website as well next to the Game Rules and EULA. But they removed the link to it. I suppose its still on the forum though. I kind of have to think that the game rules are the rules that apply to the game.

https://3dxchat.com/game-rules.html

http://3dxchat.com/terms-and-conditions.html

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16 hours ago, JessicaX said:

I sill think these claims are baseless. But let's say you are correct, and talking about this subject does cause more people to partake in this. Those people will also be banned, so quite the opposite is true, in the sense that, it removes more of these people from the community. That is a positive in my book and even more of a reason to bring this to attention. 

 

Can't ban them from the game here on forums. You said it yourself, the action needs to take place in-game. I guess with that, if this topic's OP was a plea to have people in the game  report rape rooms and have the hosts banned and just leave it at that minus all the dribble afterward and all the pointless back and forth, this would have been a worthwhile topic. But it's not.

 

And you're off about my claims being baseless, they are quite spot on, because that is what repeatedly happens in the game. I just have to assume you didn't think that claim through, or in such cases never bother to.

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8 hours ago, Coldheart said:

 

Can't ban them from the game here on forums. You said it yourself, the action needs to take place in-game. I guess with that, if this topic's OP was a plea to have people in the game  report rape rooms and have the hosts banned and just leave it at that minus all the dribble afterward and all the pointless back and forth, this would have been a worthwhile topic. But it's not.

 

And you're off about my claims being baseless, they are quite spot on, because that is what repeatedly happens in the game. I just have to assume you didn't think that claim through, or in such cases never bother to.

It's actually untrue because those types of rooms open much less frequently than they used to. I am going to assume that you have not been here as long as I have, or else you would know this. 

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hmm for those that are sensitive to the word i apologize.  Still hold in the end if your careful in you selection as to who you approach and dont bring violence into the rp i still dont get offended at the word in the end its just a word with the rules and safeguards on 3dx but again i apologize for the description

 

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19 hours ago, JessicaX said:

It's actually untrue because those types of rooms open much less frequently than they used to. I am going to assume that you have not been here as long as I have, or else you would know this. 


You are somewhat correct on this last point, there’s a lot more rooms open in general, which yes would indeed make it appear there are lesser rooms with this theme. There’s still close to the same number, just many more rooms that are open now that are not related to the R word. 

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In conclusion (I hope) I will “put my money where my mouth is” so to speak and use some of my spare time from today through the weekend and casually stroll around reporting anyone who opens these rooms.

 

And for the record Lux, putting your money where your mouth is totally different from putting your mouth where other men’s cocks are, so don’t get all excited.

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How about a fake Rape Room where the someone agrees to be a partner then starts screaming rape.

Wha?

That's kinda what I do with anal anyways. I mean you know if they ask say no.

If they try squirm. Make em work for it.

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It's such a difficult topic depending on your view. In more ways than one 3DXChat is filled with taboos and scenarios with risky topics.
A lot of people have weird kinks, some of those are rather extreme. Personally, I'm against rape... and I understand how the word can be a bad trigger for a lot of people.
However, in the 3DXChat setting, there's no way to actually perform this action. Two parties always need to consent before anything can happen... so in any situation, it would be roleplay.
If some people have this desire, I much rather have them perform it in a means of roleplay with someone who's fantasizing about being a victim, rather than having them out on the streets making matters much more real.

However, I do feel the game needs a means to filter the list... words you don't want to see or vice versa. Something that allows people with past experiences to prevent triggers that would ruin their game.

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Can it be confirmed that opening a club titled Rape Room is going to lead to a ban and is against current policy? I personalty don't give a rats ass except for the unsuspecting member with different values than 3DXChats Elite and receives a ban that otherwise could be avoided with more education because so far this thread should at least do that or is anyone with the nerve to open such a an offensive title be deserved?. Wouldn't simply text filtering the word "Rape" among all the other names inappropriate actually be more appropriate and minimize a loss of membership that over banning creates?  Can anyone confirm the Rape Room was shut down and owner reprimanded?

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Ok, so what I get from comments like the 2 above is that some people don't give a rats ass about rape and others seem to think that with taboos on risky topics that rape should be included as not bad enough to be not allowed.

Yes there are lots of subjects in 3DXChat that people will either agree with or not and people choose their own lines to be drawn. It seems the only one that everyone can agree to is when it comes to child sex. I am just surprised that there is so many who want to draw that line above rape. 

I don't accept that it is just roleplay as an excuse for people who will accept rape but not child sex as you can roleplay both, why is one roleplay acceptable and not the other, that to me is saying you do not think rape to be such a bad thing.

In those rooms you will find very few actual females, if any, mostly the female avis in those rooms will be males wanting to play a female victim. What concerns me most is that in those rooms you will find people with actual fantasies of rape. Get it through your heads, fantasies of rape is not healthy and for some is what leads to actual rape. Thinking that giving them a place where they can act out their fantasies can somehow prevent them from doing it for real is wrong, it will more likely just increase the amount they fantasise about rape. It also gives these people an environment where they can swap ideas and excuses. Most people who do commit rape had found themselves an excuse to allow them to do so.

Please stop belittling rape, it makes me feel like you do not include adult women who have been raped as being innocent and defenceless like you are when it comes to child sex. Plus with the largest percentage of rapes, in this country anyway, are girls under the age of 18.

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Fact is most going to your Quote"Rape Room" don't have a clue how to follow though with a role play theme. Their like duh.... wanna fuck. Your probably safer at a rape room than you are at a "I care" club. I used to be a "Dirty Whore" in other venues. Dirty Whores do dirty things like role playing a Club Owner that borrowed money and couldn't pay so the Mob Boss loan shark took it out in sex. Should we ban that. Lets make a list of all the sexual fantasies imaginable and you can decide what will or wont be alowed. Then we set up a hot line and offer reward for information leading to arrests for all the sexual fantasies you don't approve of. But while were at it lets talk about what your doing that offends me. Three ways? You slut. 69? I never. If you are doing anything other than a 20 minute missionary I am offended because I have higher moral standards than all of you. Your in fuck game. Do you know what a game like this does to people physically and mentally? If you don't get up and walk around every 30 minutes your at risk for getting blood clots in your leg. Do they ever swell after long periods of gaming? Blood clots. Now what do you think all this fucking does to you mentally. Sooner or later sex just becomes nothing more than eating a bowl of cereal. You get to burnt on virtual sex your real life sex gets neglected. But don't be disparaged now that you've been educated you can take precautions and play games like 3DXChat responsibly and with less judgement of others.

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@KeshaBisha @kesha1982 why you need two accounts actually? 
 

to answer your question two posts ago: yes you risk a ban and yes there are confirmed bans. Just read this thread from the begin to the end to find somebody who complains about a friend who got banned because of a rape room.

Can we now please stop trivializing an illegal and criminal offence which is firstly not far from child abuse and secondly is not much less serious than murder? Rape destroys the psyche and whole lives and should not be given a breeding ground. 

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Instead of deleting my post let me just apologizing for it. It just the Tree Hugger's and Social Justice Warriors, Peaceful Protesters have gotten old to most Americans. Time and time again we have to suffer for political correctness. Restricting all foresting in California has led to the biggest wild fire in history and you know what are Governor said? Climate Change.

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4 minutes ago, chloe said:

@KeshaBisha @kesha1982 why you need two accounts actually? 
 

to answer your question two posts ago: yes you risk a ban and yes there are confirmed bans. Just read this thread from the begin to the end to find somebody who complains about a friend who got banned because of a rape room.

Can we now please stop trivializing an illegal and criminal offence which is firstly not far from child abuse and secondly is not much less serious than murder? Rape destroys the psyche and whole lives and should not be given a breeding ground. 

I could no longer log in to the kesha1982 without creating a new password each time so I just abandoned it and made a new one.

This is an adult site. We shouldn't be thinking about or talking about sex with children. I am sure we have zero tolerance policy. Please report all members that say they are under age. THE END. Rape Rape Rape Rape. It's just a word, it cant hurt you and means many different things to different people. on one hand we have a knee jerk conflict resolution from Gizmo at the same time he has joys of animated BDSM. Sex Slavery is Rape. You can't have it both ways. The problem with your way is the destruction and fighting and endless debate but the fact is my way is we don't act like baby's, we don't use the report button with the exception of underage members and none of this negativity occurs. We focus on the good things, the updates. You knoiw there are some sites that never get updates. You are all spoiled and thats great keep them coming with freedom to name our clubs in a rique way with out some social justice warrior trying to force political correctness on everyone else.

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What they don't tell you is there's prostitution, meth labs, cocaine labs, counterfeiting, forged document businesses, murder, car theft, bank robberies, casino heists, weapons manufacturing and sales and there's nothing illegal about it because its a game. That's the difference between reality.

 

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I can get the argument: there are enough of rape victims among the 3dxchat's players and it hurt them to see such rooms. If it's really so, it seems like a good enough reason to avoid from publicly opening rape rooms.

But I don't get these arguments and I hear them not the first time:

1. Rape is illegal.

2. First they rape here, then they rape irl.

There are tons of games that are centered about illegal activities and there is nothing wrong with this. If I "kill" someone or they are "killing" me in online shooter – we don't really kill each other, we just playing a game. There is nothing illegal about it. Why it works differently with rape-themed RP?

Almost every male teen have played some FPS, some even played a lot of them. But I don't see some insane grow of violence. Violent crimes mostly going down over the years.

https://www.statista.com/statistics/191219/reported-violent-crime-rate-in-the-usa-since-1990/

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