OliMaxB Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 sorry for my bad english, i'm french and use a translator THE BDSM WORLD Within the S and M subculture, several people use the words "submissive" and "slave". To describe several different concepts. When a submissive says: "I want to be your slave!" Sometimes he (she) just wants to say, that he (she) wants to be tied, gagged, and whipped ( e). Several professional leaders refer to their "not so submissive" clients under the term "slaves". At the other end, there are people who wish to become personal "servants", property of a Master, and whose sole purpose of their existence is to existed for their Master (sse) for his pleasure and to serve him. Between these two extremes, there are several nuances of "submission". 1. THE NON-SUBMITTED MASOCHIST OR THE SENSUAL FETICHIST: Not interested in bondage, humiliation or "giving" control to others; he (she) is interested only in pain and / or a more "spicy" sensuality, always under his own control and term, for his personal pleasure. (Desire to receive only bodily sensations and not at all interested in being used to serve a partner with "sadistic" needs 2. THE SUBMITTED, NON-SLAVE PSEUDO: Not interested in "playing the slave", but interested in other submissive roles, such as scenes from school teacher, infantilism, forced cross-dressing. Often interested in humiliation, but not to serve a Master even in play. Will largely decide the game and the rules. 3. THE SUBMITTED PSEUDO, SLAVE BY GAME: Likes to "play" in the slave. Likes to feel submissive and serve a Master and in some cases likes to be used to satisfy his partner with sadistic needs, but in any case, on his own terms and conditions. Broadly dictates how the scene unfolds. Often fetishists like for example foot admirers (foot fetish). 4. THE REAL SUBJECT, NON-SLAVE: Gives control to his partner (temporarily and under certain negotiated limits). Find satisfaction in aspects of submission other than serving or being used by a Master. Excited by suspense, vulnerability and / or giving responsibility to your partner. Little or no control of the scene, except in the broad details, but seeks direct pleasure (unlike having pleasure in pleasing the dominant). 5. THE TRUE SUBJECT, SLAVE BY GAME: Gives control to his partner (temporarily and during certain scenes, in a brief manner and within certain negotiated limits.) Finds his satisfaction in serving and being used by his dominant (his) ), but only for pleasure, often erotic. Unloved or not, pain. If he likes pain, love it indirectly (being used by a partner with sadistic needs and the submissive puts few limits to this aspect of the scene). 6. SHORT-TERM SLAVE, WITHOUT SUBMITTING BUT MORE THAN A SUBMITTED GAME: Give control to his partner (normally under certain limits and restrictions), to serve and be used by the dominant, for both erotic and non-erotic occasions, but only when the submissive feels like it. Little can also become a "full-time" slave but for a fixed period such as several days, but few decide to stop when he / she wants. Whether or not they have a long-term relationship with a Master, except that the submissive has the last word for when he / she is going to serve his / her Master 7. PART-TIME, CONSENSUAL BUT TRUE (E) SLAVE: Has a relationship with a Master and considers himself the property of the Master at all times. Want to obey and satisfy the Master (s) as much in non erotic as erotic daily activities. Will often devote his time to other activities as he works, but his Master will have the first choice in his spare time. Tenard and grigoris 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IKushiel Posted June 28, 2020 Share Posted June 28, 2020 (edited) i dont quite understand why you started the topic? are you asking us if your understanding of your described "categories" is correct and exists? Edited June 28, 2020 by IKushiel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jada Sinns Posted July 2, 2020 Share Posted July 2, 2020 (edited) On 6/28/2020 at 7:40 AM, IKushiel said: i dont quite understand why you started the topic? are you asking us if your understanding of your described "categories" is correct and exists? And I don't understand why you're still around. Shouldn't you be off cutting the heads off dolls like all the other incel? Edited July 2, 2020 by Jada Sinns Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aude Posted July 2, 2020 Share Posted July 2, 2020 Hello, I also don't understand the purpose of this topic! if it's just "speak to say nothing" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lauren31 Posted July 7, 2020 Share Posted July 7, 2020 On 6/28/2020 at 2:34 PM, OliMaxB said: sorry for my bad english, i'm french and use a translator THE BDSM WORLD Within the S and M subculture, several people use the words "submissive" and "slave". To describe several different concepts. When a submissive says: "I want to be your slave!" Sometimes he (she) just wants to say, that he (she) wants to be tied, gagged, and whipped ( e). Several professional leaders refer to their "not so submissive" clients under the term "slaves". At the other end, there are people who wish to become personal "servants", property of a Master, and whose sole purpose of their existence is to existed for their Master (sse) for his pleasure and to serve him. Between these two extremes, there are several nuances of "submission". 1. THE NON-SUBMITTED MASOCHIST OR THE SENSUAL FETICHIST: Not interested in bondage, humiliation or "giving" control to others; he (she) is interested only in pain and / or a more "spicy" sensuality, always under his own control and term, for his personal pleasure. (Desire to receive only bodily sensations and not at all interested in being used to serve a partner with "sadistic" needs 2. THE SUBMITTED, NON-SLAVE PSEUDO: Not interested in "playing the slave", but interested in other submissive roles, such as scenes from school teacher, infantilism, forced cross-dressing. Often interested in humiliation, but not to serve a Master even in play. Will largely decide the game and the rules. 3. THE SUBMITTED PSEUDO, SLAVE BY GAME: Likes to "play" in the slave. Likes to feel submissive and serve a Master and in some cases likes to be used to satisfy his partner with sadistic needs, but in any case, on his own terms and conditions. Broadly dictates how the scene unfolds. Often fetishists like for example foot admirers (foot fetish). 4. THE REAL SUBJECT, NON-SLAVE: Gives control to his partner (temporarily and under certain negotiated limits). Find satisfaction in aspects of submission other than serving or being used by a Master. Excited by suspense, vulnerability and / or giving responsibility to your partner. Little or no control of the scene, except in the broad details, but seeks direct pleasure (unlike having pleasure in pleasing the dominant). 5. THE TRUE SUBJECT, SLAVE BY GAME: Gives control to his partner (temporarily and during certain scenes, in a brief manner and within certain negotiated limits.) Finds his satisfaction in serving and being used by his dominant (his) ), but only for pleasure, often erotic. Unloved or not, pain. If he likes pain, love it indirectly (being used by a partner with sadistic needs and the submissive puts few limits to this aspect of the scene). 6. SHORT-TERM SLAVE, WITHOUT SUBMITTING BUT MORE THAN A SUBMITTED GAME: Give control to his partner (normally under certain limits and restrictions), to serve and be used by the dominant, for both erotic and non-erotic occasions, but only when the submissive feels like it. Little can also become a "full-time" slave but for a fixed period such as several days, but few decide to stop when he / she wants. Whether or not they have a long-term relationship with a Master, except that the submissive has the last word for when he / she is going to serve his / her Master 7. PART-TIME, CONSENSUAL BUT TRUE (E) SLAVE: Has a relationship with a Master and considers himself the property of the Master at all times. Want to obey and satisfy the Master (s) as much in non erotic as erotic daily activities. Will often devote his time to other activities as he works, but his Master will have the first choice in his spare time. Bonjour OliMaxB, Je suis française et aimerai vivre l'experience d'etre soumise au service de son maitre. Etes vous a la recherche d'esclave ? Au plaisir de vous parler et vous servir, Laure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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