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[JustinCredible]

33 minutes ago, Fyrefly said:

Has anybody really thought about how stupidly racist the whole idea of BBC is, and why it may not be a good idea to glorify that, even in a stupid sex game?

 - Laz

Laz I could kiss you right now for being the one to bring this up.   The whole BBC thing has gotten ridiculous.  Anyone educated knows how ridiculous someone sounds when they say they only like BBC or prefer BBC lol.  But the fact that the person doesn't see it themselves is pathetic.  Now just to be clear, I have no issue with someone having a preference of "man".  I have my preferences of woman as well (not that there isn't notable exceptions mind you).  But to think one cock is better than another based on skin color is ridiculous and if I'm being honest... Kinda racist. 

However the pendulum swings the other way as well.  I had one girl openly tell me that she only likes BWC.  Despite myself being white that just made my skin crawl.  Enough with BBC or BWC.  How about just... BIG DICK?  Both skin colors have them and to make matters even more laughable... This is a virtual world.  All cock are the same size (I go back and forth whether that's a good thing or bad thing sometimes) so it really should come down to... How good of a roleplayer someone is.  I've seen really bad ones and really good ones from both races.  It's all about the individual when it comes right down to it.  But yeah, the moment I see on a profile that they prefer one or the other I get totally turned off, even if it's to my benefit.

Edited June 29, 2020 by JustinCredible

[pretty]

2 hours ago, JustinCredible said:

Laz I could kiss you right now for being the one to bring this up.   The whole BBC thing has gotten ridiculous.  Anyone educated knows how ridiculous someone sounds when they say they only like BBC or prefer BBC lol.  But the fact that the person doesn't see it themselves is pathetic.  Now just to be clear, I have no issue with someone having a preference of "man".  I have my preferences of woman as well (not that there isn't notable exceptions mind you).  But to think one cock is better than another based on skin color is ridiculous and if I'm being honest... Kinda racist. 

However the pendulum swings the other way as well.  I had one girl openly tell me that she only likes BWC.  Despite myself being white that just made my skin crawl.  Enough with BBC or BWC.  How about just... BIG DICK?  Both skin colors have them and to make matters even more laughable... This is a virtual world.  All cock are the same size (I go back and forth whether that's a good thing or bad thing sometimes) so it really should come down to... How good of a roleplayer someone is.  I've seen really bad ones and really good ones from both races.  It's all about the individual when it comes right down to it.  But yeah, the moment I see on a profile that they prefer one or the other I get totally turned off.  

I always turn down men who come at me with that "you want some BBC bb?" or "I got a BWC for you".

Seriously, if that's all he has going for him, he ain't got much going for him.  If he cannot use it well, and don't know what he's doing with a woman, he's not going to be fun.

All races have men with cocks of all different sizes and shapes.  BBC is a genre of porn.  It does not mean "All black men have giant cocks".  LOL

What is equally ludicrous is women claiming to be "femdom" or "lesdom", and men claiming to be "maledom" or "gaydom", because those are just porn genres also.  LOL

Edited June 29, 2020 by pretty

[JustinCredible]

27 minutes ago, Fyrefly said:

If people want to talk politics, or promote certain views, how can they do that in a way that doesn't push out everyone else...or in ways where they must be held accountable to what the community finds acceptable?

I for one absolutely hates politics.  The faster someone realizes the evil in them the better off they will be.  I will also openly admit to being rather ignorant to it all.  Politics was never a subject I paid much attention to so I am not very intelligent on the subject.  HOWEVER, I do live in the field of common sense and I will say this....  It seems like every 4 years...  Every presidential election we go through a racial divide.  But you are right... I wouldn't say this forum is the best platform for political talk lol.  But I agree that everyone's voice and opinions should be respected.

[pretty]

[Fyrefly]

7 minutes ago, Xizl said:

For most people it's just a kink. And kinks does not have to be smart. Or even reasonable, if we talking about sexgame where we can play our fantasies without any real danger.

People get off on very different stuff. For some it's BBC. Others want to be whipped, slapped or even beaten. Some want to be pissed on. Some want to feel themselves enslaved and degraded to the point when they are addressed as "it".

It's alright. It's kinks and fantasies and this is a perfect place to play them. 

As long as people not getting too serious about it of course. When it's going above the kink to the point when person really start to believe in black (if we talking about BBC fetish) superiority and start to spread such a racist views... yes, that is not alright. 

Sure...you do make a valid point about the fact that this game does allow safe play about taboo fantasies. And no, I'm not about to get to judging all or any of the kinks that anybody indulges in. Or even make any claims to knowing about what drives anyone sexually. Hell, I'm still trying to figure that out myself.

All I'm offering is that people start to consider outside themselves, that some of these taboos or fantasies may not be coming from a nice healthy place of sexual expression, and may instead just be nasty racist bullshit. Or misogynist, or otherwise coming from an unacceptable place. It's a huge issue. I don't expect an instant answer. I just want more people to think about what they may be tacitly endorsing by visiting these rooms.

[Rondon]

8 minutes ago, pretty said:

I always turn down men who come at me with that "you want some BBC bb?" or "I got a BWC for you".

Seriously, if that's all he has going for him, he ain't got much going for him.  If he cannot use it well, and don't know what he's doing with a woman, he's not going to be fun.

All races have men with cocks of all different sizes and shapes.  BBC is a genre of porn.  It does not mean "All black men have giant cocks".  LOL

The British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC) would like to have a word with you.

 

also...

[Tsela]

3 hours ago, VGTL said:

I'm quite familiar with TALON, I was just wondering if someone banned him "permanently", again?

 

I kicked his ass... not permanently though

[Sin]

8 minutes ago, Rondon said:

The British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC) would like to have a word with you.

 

also...

All the same here  ha ha ha

 

[Xizi]

3 minutes ago, Fyrefly said:

Sure...you do make a valid point about the fact that this game does allow safe play about taboo fantasies. And no, I'm not about to get to judging all or any of the kinks that anybody indulges in. Or even make any claims to knowing about what drives anyone sexually. Hell, I'm still trying to figure that out myself.

All I'm offering is that people start to consider outside themselves, that some of these taboos or fantasies may not be coming from a nice healthy place of sexual expression, and may instead just be nasty racist bullshit. Or misogynist, or otherwise coming from an unacceptable place. It's a huge issue. I don't expect an instant answer. I just want more people to think about what they may be tacitly endorsing by visiting these rooms.

I saw some really offensive profiles with straight up insults towards white men or even white people in general. Like "I only fuck with a real men, so no white boys" and such stuff. I think it's wrong and should not be acceptable. 

But the whole idea of BBC... Why not? Should people repress their sexuality and kinks because their sexuality offences someone? In some Islamic countries people should hide even being homosexuals because it offends some religious bigots. 

Anyway, back to the subject. I think that as long as people not forcing their kink on others and play it in BBC rooms or just with likeminded individuals it's alright. 

[ZoeAnn]

"Could not Connect to Server" 25 pages later... lol

[Rondon]

11 minutes ago, Sin said:

All the same here  ha ha ha

 

That lady always cracks me up no matter what kinda meme it is.

Edited June 29, 2020 by Rondon
Typo

[Sin]

7 minutes ago, Xizl said:

I saw some really offensive profiles with straight up insults towards white men or even white people in general. Like "I only fuck with a real men, so no white boys" and such stuff. I think it's wrong and should not be acceptable. 

But the whole idea of BBC... Why not? Should people repress their sexuality and kinks because their sexuality offences someone? In some Islamic countries people should hide even being homosexuals because it offends some religious bigots. 

Anyway, back to the subject. I think that as long as people not forcing their kink on others and play it in BBC rooms or just with likeminded individuals it's alright. 

All room is good for sex fun  everybody can come in and dance , have sex or talk to friends. Any deviation or fantasy it's not bad until you hurt people.

[Fyrefly]

4 minutes ago, Xizl said:

I saw some really offensive profiles with straight up insults towards white men or even white people in general. Like "I only fuck with a real men, so no white boys" and such stuff. I think it's wrong and should not be acceptable. 

But the whole idea of BBC... Why not? Should people repress their sexuality and kinks because their sexuality offences someone? In some Islamic countries people should hide even being homosexuals because it offends some religious bigots. 

Anyway, back to the subject. I think that as long as people not forcing their kink on others and play it in BBC rooms or just with likeminded individuals it's alright. 

Yes...I agree that a profile that trashes any color or gender or any other defining characteristic is tacky at best, and can be flat out wrong at worst. I've run into ageism as well, when no one wants to fuck an old guy like me. Getting people to think about that stuff and it's implications is the point.

And to my previous point, healthy fantasy is fine...even with taboo subjects, between consensual people. There are rape fantasies in game, or incest, or age play, or scat or so many others. To Pretty's point, above, all men of all different races have cocks of different sizes, so it seems the genre of BBC is more about a black myth, which is more of a stereotype, and not just a cock thing. I would be really curious to hear from actual black players (not just those playing a black av) what their experience is when they see and hear these things. Have an honest conversation and see who it affects. We got nothing better to do...

[Sin]

I hope it doesn't end this way

[Xizi]

3 minutes ago, Fyrefly said:

Yes...I agree that a profile that trashes any color or gender or any other defining characteristic is tacky at best, and can be flat out wrong at worst. I've run into ageism as well, when no one wants to fuck an old guy like me. Getting people to think about that stuff and it's implications is the point.

Yes, I have seen several racism/ageism/transphobia filled profiles too. It's nasty.

6 minutes ago, Fyrefly said:

And to my previous point, healthy fantasy is fine...even with taboo subjects, between consensual people. There are rape fantasies in game, or incest, or age play, or scat or so many others.

Well. I don't agree that fantasies should be healthy. It's a game, no one's real health is in danger, so... I believe people can play any bizarre stuff they want between each other, as long as it is consensual. 

 

 

[Norfolk N Waye]

1 hour ago, Fyrefly said:

 

I just think it would be cool if this adult game, was actually a fucking ADULT game.

 - Laz

It is a very adult game! Unfortunately, some people, although they have reached physical adulthood, aren't anywhere near emotional adulthood. Ergo, a lot of whining,bitching and griping about things we have little knowledge or control over.Those that can Do! Those that can't either remain silent about the problem and wait patiently or bitch!

[Rondon]

If y'all wonder what a ddos attack can look like...

[Meowww]

Oh oh Again down? 

[Nalley]

Agree 100%..., but the sheep will always gonna stay that way, following her specie considering the BBC and trash racist talk is the best green grass, that why humans always need a leader.Otherwise we free to make own choices and "walk" free...In this case no need to go fill the rooms whit big  names just because are in top of the list, beside BBC/BWC/Glory Hole, there are many other places where to have fun with friends, awesome builds and decent peaople.Yea I been "victim" of trolls,haters and perverts in 3dx, but as long I understood what I really want from this game, made it clear on profile and used ignore button every time I felt the need.And WC becomed a G spot for trolls,people who join the game only to throw own frustrations to who playing nice.Hope they gonna fix the server issue and maybe this offline days give a reflection time to everyone....Have all a great monday.

[TheaFeilds]

Game offline too long, go to a rare forum visit. Notice purity spiraling.

This will end well. I am sure.

Edited June 29, 2020 by TheaFeilds

[Meowww]

News from Lisa: 15 hours ago....

This is not good. 

[PrimmPriss]

1 hour ago, JustinCredible said:

Laz I could kiss you right now for being the one to bring this up.   The whole BBC thing has gotten ridiculous.  Anyone educated knows how ridiculous someone sounds when they say they only like BBC or prefer BBC lol.  But the fact that the person doesn't see it themselves is pathetic.  Now just to be clear, I have no issue with someone having a preference of "man".  I have my preferences of woman as well (not that there isn't notable exceptions mind you).  But to think one cock is better than another based on skin color is ridiculous and if I'm being honest... Kinda racist. 

However the pendulum swings the other way as well.  I had one girl openly tell me that she only likes BWC.  Despite myself being white that just made my skin crawl.  Enough with BBC or BWC.  How about just... BIG DICK?  Both skin colors have them and to make matters even more laughable... This is a virtual world.  All cock are the same size (I go back and forth whether that's a good thing or bad thing sometimes) so it really should come down to... How good of a roleplayer someone is.  I've seen really bad ones and really good ones from both races.  It's all about the individual when it comes right down to it.  But yeah, the moment I see on a profile that they prefer one or the other I get totally turned off, even if it's to my benefit.

I think YOU need to start a NEW thread about WHO Is tired of every thing being based on this BBC & BWC ... this helps the creators and owner know what WE WANT

[Valen]

Back to topic pls

[RayyRayy]

53 minutes ago, Valen said:

Back to topic pls

i totally agree

[Tsela]

59 minutes ago, Valen said:

Back to topic pls

the topic is... that we can't connect to the server. What else can you say about that