Hey mate, sounds like you're having a rough go of it. I'm new to 3dx forums and haven't joined game yet, but was recommended because it's 'a lot more realistic.' Well, this might be a little too realistic if you ask me. Aren't these social games, especially ones that are adult-themed with sex as a main selling point, supposed to serve as a sand-box of sorts to go and play and leave all your problems behind? A large part of the IMVU fun is the fact that you KNOW you are in a fantasy, digital universe. 3dx seems chock full of real life drama. After reading some articles, I'm hoping things aren't quite as stressed as they seem. If I do join the game proper, I'll be flat out trying to just have fun and enjoy the visuals and growing social scene. Hopefully I won't run into the rp of 'the 2 bitchy snob girls at the club' like the OP did. If I do, I'll be right to just ignore them and not take offense. KK