JessicaX

@JessicaX, Coldheart is way off the mark with his assumptions.  Not that it matters, but I am actually very happily married, with a great family and a very successful career...and I left my parents home some 35 years ago and actually rarely see them!
I think there is only one reason he calls me a pussy and that's because he bragged in another thread that he fucked his friend's wife years ago when she was too inebriated to stop him, and then went on to say how good it makes him feel every time he sees his friend now to know that he did that to his wife.  I pointed out that he had in fact just admitted publically to what would, in most civilised societies, be an act of sexual assault, and explained that he could have chosen not to have done that to her, as I did when I was once in a similar situation.  Being who he is, rather than reflect on the way he acted, he choose to call me names instead.  It was interesting because the forum mods then 'snipped' his admission out of the thread, and out of any quotes that repeated it, so they were obviously concerned at what he had admitted on the forum.  And before Coldheart suggests I reported him, I didn't.  I just set him to ignore on the basis that the opinions of someone that disrespected women in the way he appeared to were of no value to me.  I have only seen his comments since when others have quoted him.  I guess he thinks men shouldn't respect women, calling them a pussy if they do.  Sad really.
Oh, and I agree with you about attractive, beautiful and genuine women existing on 3dx.
 

Ironic that these posts are literally back to back. 
 
Anyhoo...

As far as the OP, The "ignore feature" (if you want to label it as such), is there for a reason and I would simply suggest you use it. There are people here from all walks of life and everyone has their own reasoning and agenda for being here. Some people literally log on, search for sex, log off. Some people are here purely for social communication. Some people like attending events and parties. It's all good, and it gives everyone choices in how to interact with others. 

I'm here mostly for events and social chat. Although I do not judge others for their own agenda. If I get a PM that does not line up with what I am looking for, then I simply close it and do not reply. If they do it repeatedly, I kindly explain to them that I am not interested and wish them a good evening. If it still continues, then I ignore them. I can't fault anyone for playing the game in the way they want to play it, just because it clashes with my own interests and reasoning. It's really no different than someone who logs in purely for a sexual RP and ends up somehow talking to me. I am quite literally going to be a waste of their time. So this does go both ways. 

I think what's important is that people should try to keep in mind that no matter what your interests are, please don't forget the fact that there is a living, breathing, human on the other side of the screen with real feelings, real emotions, and very likely someone who is fighting their own battles. This is why no matter what reason you have for spending time in 3dx, You really should try to be patient and respectful to everyone you meet, even if they send you what appears to be a rude PM. In many cases, I have discovered that the person sending the PM is usually not rude. They are just someone spending time in 3dx the way they want to. I have forged some good friendships with some of these people, even though our playstyles don't match up. We can still find some common group and have some nice conversations. 

The TL:DR here is... Just be kind and respectful to one another and I think overall you will see your enjoyment factor raise substantially. But at the same time, there's just some people that need to be put on ignore forever. 🙂
 

Irony: a state of affairs or an event that seems deliberately contrary to what one expects and is often amusing as a result.

Like you saying: someone is a "pussy" because he has compassion, shows humility,  and sympathizes with other people. I would wager a hefty sum that this "pussy" as you would describe, gets way more attention from women than you ever will. There are plenty of attractive women in 3DX, but it seems they have wisely chosen to stay away from people like yourself. 

To double down on your initial assumption with even more assumptions about someone's personal life only helps to give comedic value to your original complaint that you don't believe there are many real attractive women in 3dx. The fact is that there are quite a few. I have heard them, I have spoken to them, I have seen video of some of them. Just because they avoid toxic people, doesn't mean they do not exist. Also, your definition of "attractive" will be very subjective because everyone has different opinions and places different values on which traits makes a person "attractive". 

The totality of all this is a perfect example of "irony" and its also quite amusing. 😉

You should report any kind of harassment.

Ironic that these posts are literally back to back. 
 
Anyhoo...

As far as the OP, The "ignore feature" (if you want to label it as such), is there for a reason and I would simply suggest you use it. There are people here from all walks of life and everyone has their own reasoning and agenda for being here. Some people literally log on, search for sex, log off. Some people are here purely for social communication. Some people like attending events and parties. It's all good, and it gives everyone choices in how to interact with others. 

I'm here mostly for events and social chat. Although I do not judge others for their own agenda. If I get a PM that does not line up with what I am looking for, then I simply close it and do not reply. If they do it repeatedly, I kindly explain to them that I am not interested and wish them a good evening. If it still continues, then I ignore them. I can't fault anyone for playing the game in the way they want to play it, just because it clashes with my own interests and reasoning. It's really no different than someone who logs in purely for a sexual RP and ends up somehow talking to me. I am quite literally going to be a waste of their time. So this does go both ways. 

I think what's important is that people should try to keep in mind that no matter what your interests are, please don't forget the fact that there is a living, breathing, human on the other side of the screen with real feelings, real emotions, and very likely someone who is fighting their own battles. This is why no matter what reason you have for spending time in 3dx, You really should try to be patient and respectful to everyone you meet, even if they send you what appears to be a rude PM. In many cases, I have discovered that the person sending the PM is usually not rude. They are just someone spending time in 3dx the way they want to. I have forged some good friendships with some of these people, even though our playstyles don't match up. We can still find some common group and have some nice conversations. 

The TL:DR here is... Just be kind and respectful to one another and I think overall you will see your enjoyment factor raise substantially. But at the same time, there's just some people that need to be put on ignore forever. 🙂
 

Ironic that these posts are literally back to back. 
 
Anyhoo...

As far as the OP, The "ignore feature" (if you want to label it as such), is there for a reason and I would simply suggest you use it. There are people here from all walks of life and everyone has their own reasoning and agenda for being here. Some people literally log on, search for sex, log off. Some people are here purely for social communication. Some people like attending events and parties. It's all good, and it gives everyone choices in how to interact with others. 

I'm here mostly for events and social chat. Although I do not judge others for their own agenda. If I get a PM that does not line up with what I am looking for, then I simply close it and do not reply. If they do it repeatedly, I kindly explain to them that I am not interested and wish them a good evening. If it still continues, then I ignore them. I can't fault anyone for playing the game in the way they want to play it, just because it clashes with my own interests and reasoning. It's really no different than someone who logs in purely for a sexual RP and ends up somehow talking to me. I am quite literally going to be a waste of their time. So this does go both ways. 

I think what's important is that people should try to keep in mind that no matter what your interests are, please don't forget the fact that there is a living, breathing, human on the other side of the screen with real feelings, real emotions, and very likely someone who is fighting their own battles. This is why no matter what reason you have for spending time in 3dx, You really should try to be patient and respectful to everyone you meet, even if they send you what appears to be a rude PM. In many cases, I have discovered that the person sending the PM is usually not rude. They are just someone spending time in 3dx the way they want to. I have forged some good friendships with some of these people, even though our playstyles don't match up. We can still find some common group and have some nice conversations. 

The TL:DR here is... Just be kind and respectful to one another and I think overall you will see your enjoyment factor raise substantially. But at the same time, there's just some people that need to be put on ignore forever. 🙂
 

Ironic that these posts are literally back to back. 
 
Anyhoo...

As far as the OP, The "ignore feature" (if you want to label it as such), is there for a reason and I would simply suggest you use it. There are people here from all walks of life and everyone has their own reasoning and agenda for being here. Some people literally log on, search for sex, log off. Some people are here purely for social communication. Some people like attending events and parties. It's all good, and it gives everyone choices in how to interact with others. 

I'm here mostly for events and social chat. Although I do not judge others for their own agenda. If I get a PM that does not line up with what I am looking for, then I simply close it and do not reply. If they do it repeatedly, I kindly explain to them that I am not interested and wish them a good evening. If it still continues, then I ignore them. I can't fault anyone for playing the game in the way they want to play it, just because it clashes with my own interests and reasoning. It's really no different than someone who logs in purely for a sexual RP and ends up somehow talking to me. I am quite literally going to be a waste of their time. So this does go both ways. 

I think what's important is that people should try to keep in mind that no matter what your interests are, please don't forget the fact that there is a living, breathing, human on the other side of the screen with real feelings, real emotions, and very likely someone who is fighting their own battles. This is why no matter what reason you have for spending time in 3dx, You really should try to be patient and respectful to everyone you meet, even if they send you what appears to be a rude PM. In many cases, I have discovered that the person sending the PM is usually not rude. They are just someone spending time in 3dx the way they want to. I have forged some good friendships with some of these people, even though our playstyles don't match up. We can still find some common group and have some nice conversations. 

The TL:DR here is... Just be kind and respectful to one another and I think overall you will see your enjoyment factor raise substantially. But at the same time, there's just some people that need to be put on ignore forever. 🙂
 

It's always a treat to step into the Rock Bunker. Thanks for the great music by Arran, Xanar, Felia, and Chloe.  See you all next time!

Thank you so much all DJ's, friends, SIRENS & SAILORS and Guest, who celebrated with us yesterday. A special thanks to our special DJ guest JessicaX.
Your Rock Mix was great.

See you at the next Party. 
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CHLOE & FELIA

Yes, you have me figured out. The only room I open is a lounge for Romantic events. I want to shut down the rape rooms because im jealous that my patrons might go there when faced with such a difficult choice. *facepalm*

There's no confusion. It is against ToS. It's odd that you would question that. I dont know if there's a problem with your comprehension. There is no "grey area". 
Tho I do not see anything in the ToS agreement relating to slavery. I have my opinions but that's irrelevant to this topic. We can all sit here and bend and shape and assume and rationalize all day. Fact is... Rape rooms are against ToS and bannable. 

I'm not sure what to even say about your last comment. My head hurts trying to make sense of it or even understand where you are trying to go with it.

In any case.. Rape rooms are against ToS and people will be banned for advertising or opening them. 

Yes, you have me figured out. The only room I open is a lounge for Romantic events. I want to shut down the rape rooms because im jealous that my patrons might go there when faced with such a difficult choice. *facepalm*

There's no confusion. It is against ToS. It's odd that you would question that. I dont know if there's a problem with your comprehension. There is no "grey area". 
Tho I do not see anything in the ToS agreement relating to slavery. I have my opinions but that's irrelevant to this topic. We can all sit here and bend and shape and assume and rationalize all day. Fact is... Rape rooms are against ToS and bannable. 

I'm not sure what to even say about your last comment. My head hurts trying to make sense of it or even understand where you are trying to go with it.

In any case.. Rape rooms are against ToS and people will be banned for advertising or opening them. 

Yes, you have me figured out. The only room I open is a lounge for Romantic events. I want to shut down the rape rooms because im jealous that my patrons might go there when faced with such a difficult choice. *facepalm*

There's no confusion. It is against ToS. It's odd that you would question that. I dont know if there's a problem with your comprehension. There is no "grey area". 
Tho I do not see anything in the ToS agreement relating to slavery. I have my opinions but that's irrelevant to this topic. We can all sit here and bend and shape and assume and rationalize all day. Fact is... Rape rooms are against ToS and bannable. 

I'm not sure what to even say about your last comment. My head hurts trying to make sense of it or even understand where you are trying to go with it.

In any case.. Rape rooms are against ToS and people will be banned for advertising or opening them. 

What garbage is this, look back to start of this thread and what you will find are people defending these rooms and going people like the person who opened the thread for not liking those rooms. Yes we end up getting pissed off and strongly making our points, but it is always the same in these threads. It is always after idiots come in defending the rooms.
So what do you want, these rooms to be allowed? or just for people to not care if they keep getting opened, that is the same thing. If these rooms are left to be opened without any restrictions what do you think will happen. They will become common and you will see these rooms constantly opened. As it is now it is likely that most that go to those rooms aren't doing so because of rape fantasies but if they become common place I think you will find that will change. And I am talking about males having fantasies of being the rapist, not females who have so called rape fantasies that are not real rape fantasies. Do you think that will be good for the game, that it will attract new custom, maybe it will attract some new custom but do you really want those sort of people to be attracted while others who see it as disgusting avoid the place. Is that what you want the game to be, somewhere where things like rape are included as being sex. Just because it is a sex game does it mean it has to cater for the disgusting. It is called a sex game, not a porn game and to most people sex does not mean porn or the disgusting. So I think for most people who venture into the game if they were to see multiple rooms listed saying rape rooms they would find the place very unattractive. Likely you would soon find the authorities closing it down. 

1st of all, i didn't know someone had to be "qualified" in any way to be offended by something. But let's skip all the stupid reasoning and discussion and  just point out the obvious that has already been posted many times:

IT'S AGAINST 3DX TERMS OF SERVICE AND NOT ALLOWED.
I'm not sure why this is so hard for people to understand. 

Thanks to everyone who came to this event and made it great and so much fun!!  I give big thanks to creator of the room TerryScrew and DJ Great comeback set Terry was great! DanyFR ur always amazing in the music u bring expecially to Club Frost.  Club Frost hasnt ever opened with out Dany and Terry.  I try to keep that spirit alive.  Thanks for CardinalCopia for that massive set u had me blown away along with the others!! Zanok always a pleasure having u play great set also,  JessicaX what can i say bout you u always deliver great music where ever u go was excited for you to be a part of Club Frost, DyllanD and Biffy the newest part of the crew u both were super amazing and i love both sets.  Will def ask for future events.  Thanks everyone for supporting me i really appreciate it all.  Club Frost is very special to me so it was great to see everyone come and enjoy themselves.  <3

It's actually untrue because those types of rooms open much less frequently than they used to. I am going to assume that you have not been here as long as I have, or else you would know this. 

It's actually untrue because those types of rooms open much less frequently than they used to. I am going to assume that you have not been here as long as I have, or else you would know this. 

That is splitting hairs. Are rape rooms still unwanted and are the owners banned? Yes! 

You still miss the point. Rape rooms are against Terms of Service. I don't understand your need to want to defend this behavior. What you "think" is irrelevant.  Your opinions on this matter are irrelevant. Your many assumptions are baseless claims and also irrelevant. 

You still miss the point. Rape rooms are against Terms of Service. I don't understand your need to want to defend this behavior. What you "think" is irrelevant.  Your opinions on this matter are irrelevant. Your many assumptions are baseless claims and also irrelevant. 

"Rape" is a Crime pure and simple....using "Rape" in a Room name is no different to using another criminal "Act" in a Room name. I think we are all smart enough to realize we cant be actually "Raped" in game, maybe in RP thats eet, but tha problem is using that "Label" "Term" in a Room name. This has been addressed so many times with adequate explanation yet some choose to argue tha point. WE KNOW WE CANT BE RAPED in game..this isnt tha point.
For one using a Violent Criminal Term as a room name is insensitive and also shows tha hosts own views on this particular personal violation.
If youre OK with Rape being used in a Room name then you open tha Door for other Terms that you yourself, an advocate for this kind of Freedom in game, might find hurtful, insensitive, Just Wrong!
If Rape is ok as a Room name then any Criminal Term is ok also. You cant Cherry Pick from these, they are all Wrong. 
If "Rape Street" is ok then you peeps who argue for eet will also be happy with other such Rooms...
Cut your cock off Street
Murder Street
Burn you alive Street
Cut her head off Street
see where im going, this argument shouldnt even be one...eets ridiculous to even stand for such a Room name to be used......if you still disagree then ah really wonder about your state of mind seriously.......let alone your soul if you have one 👿

It is always easy to tell when a person hasn't got a decent argument, when they repeatedly fail to answer a question they have no answer to. Instead they will continue to answer with dribble that has little to nothing to do with the question asked. But I will respond to your dribble and hope you will choose to answer my question eventually.
Ebstien Island not only attracted paedophiles. it also attracted rapists, where most of the women and children who were taken there knew nothing of what was installed for them. Ebstien not only supplied the location he also supplied the victims. Name a place rape ally without supplying the victims and yes you are right, likely no rapists would go there, but take the same place and let it be known that unknowing victims are supplied and like Ebstien Island they would flock there. So your first point is BS dribble. If 3DXChat continues to allow people to openly act out their rape fantasies it will certainly attract potential rapists. If you think that no harm can come from that you are mistaken, put so many of them together where they can swap their views like have been said in these forums. Things like 60% of women have fantasies of being raped, when they say no they actually mean yes, rape isn't such a bad thing, all the bullshit these guys come up with to give them excuses they need to allow them to actually commit rape. Now you may think what I have just said is over reacting but it is fact. 
Yes we all know that we share the Internet with all types. But that does not give people the right to do as they please on the Internet. Just because we all know that they are there does not mean we have to accept them, does not mean it gives them the right to openly do what they do because we should expect it. We should not put any of the blame on victims of Internet abuse by saying it is the Internet and you should expect it. Yes people need to be careful, but defending abuse by saying it should have been expected will only encourage abuse. 
So I will ask the question again, why is it that you and others accept that if a room was to open for child sex abuse you would agree that it needs to be stopped, but when it comes to rape you think differently?