what Mei and Rob said are true you take a risk with everyone you met, but you can't let it change you, or close you off from other's like Mei be more mindful, watch people cause yes in time you see true person and true colors, there are some really good people here, just cause some have alts does not mean their bad, I have, My Wonderful Brother Rob who spoke has, he always tells me when he change avatars, good people do, me and Mei, don't speak, but I know she good people, she does her thing and never rude or hurtful, some get off on that others don't, in time you will learn to take things with a grain of salt, and Laugh, I know right now what I am saying sounds careless, it's not, you just can't let it get to you to much, or you will lose who you are, real people are never a game we make friends, we start to care we check up on each other when away to long like you did with your's I have found some people like that, always give time before you let them in, they people that care you will see in their actions, their kindness, and like my Bro said it ain't over till you quit the community, that what I call it not game Smiling Be safe, be smart, and have fun.