Ok I'm game Being new to this virtual world and cyber relationships has been interesting. Most of my encounters have at best been casual with a couple of them leaving me unsure as to what just happened. However, when I see someone I like there is a stirring of feelings. The pulse quickens, breath comes a little faster. Trepidation and desire arise and I find myself wanting to learn more about this person. These are real feelings and not to be discounted. Whats in our hearts and minds are the things that make us who we are. Our values and principles, whether we are spiritual, religious, happy or sad. This is what leads to lasting relationships and the process of learning about each other is not only fun but can be very exciting as well. With open and honest communication this is certainly within our grasp in this virtual world. And yet... What of the physical intimacies? The touch of another, the feel of their soft skin. Their scent or the sound of their voices. The warmth of another as we pull them in closer to us. And lets not forget the eyes. When we look into another's eyes with love and see that love returned is arguably one of the best natural highs I have ever experienced. I'll leave you with these questions. Are our imaginations enough to compensate for the lack of the physical? Does it even matter in developing a meaningful relationship? I don't know yet. Do you?