Ms.Dani

A PHILIosophy of life
 
WHEN PEOPLE TELL ME I AM DIFFERENT, I AM COMPLIMENTED BECAUSE I DO NOT LIVE MY LIFE TO BE LIKE ANYONE ELSE.
I REFUSE TO COMPARE MYSELF TO ANYONE, BECAUSE I AM WHO I AM AND MY LIFE EXPERIENCES ARE UNIQUE TO ME.
I ACTUALLY FEEL SORRY FOR THOSE WHO ARE IN CONSTANT COMPETITION FOR RECOGNITION OF "BEING LIKE SOMEONE " OR "BELIEVING THE SAME THINGS", IT MUST BE TIRING AND DEPRESSING TO TRY TO KEEP UP AND BE SOMEONE YOU AREN'T AND FIGHTING FOR THEIR APPROVAL. TO ME, IT SMELLS OF SOMEONE WHO IS UNCOMFORTABLE IN THEIR OWN SKIN.
BE YOURSELF, THINK FOR YOURSELF (NOT ABOUT JUST YOURSELF OR YOUR APPROVAL), BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE. BECAUSE IF YOU CAN NOT BE PROUD OF YOURSELF OR WHO YOU ARE, THEN WHO CAN BE PROUD OF YOU?
TRULY, I DON'T GIVE A FUCK IF MY BEING "DIFFERENT" CAUSE YOU TO DISLIKE ME. THAT JUST TELLS ME THAT YOU FEAR SOMEONE WHO THINKS FOR THEMSELVES AND YOU FEEL THREATENED BECAUSE YOU CAN'T, SOMEWHERE YOU LOST THAT ABILITY.
SO, IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT I SAY ABOUT SOMEONE, PERHAPS I HAVE MY REASONS. I WILL TELL YOU MY REASONS IF, YOU ASK, BUT I DON'T EXPECT YOU TO LIKE/DISLIKE THE PERSON BECAUSE I DO.
IT IS CALLED BEING AN INDIVIDUAL AND RECOGNIZING WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT. THE WORLD WOULD BE BORING IF WE WERE ALL THE SAME, THOUGHT THE SAME AND LOOKED THE SAME.
IN THE END, THE ONLY THING WE HAVE IS OURSELVES. MONEY COMES AND GOES, LOVERS FALL OUT OF LOVE, CHILDREN MOVE ON, FRIENDS AREN'T AROUND 24/7. JOBS, YOU ARE ONLY AS GOOD AS THE BOSS ALLOWS YOU TO BE AND ONE MINUTE YOU CAN BE ON TOP, THE NEXT YOU'RE HEAD IS ON THE CHOPPING BLOCK....
THE ONLY THING IN LIFE THAT IS 100% CONSISTENT IS THAT YOU ARE YOU AND IN BEING YOU, YOU NEED TO BE COMFORTABLE WITH WHO YOU ARE. ARE YOU?