Im also a "talking person" and, for this reason, i have few friends and spend too much time dancing alone in 3DX. I think there are two kind of people out there. Some have a lot of friend, lot of time in 3DX and don't care about the newbies, like me. Other people just want to quick chat and sex and this type don't fit me well. Its really SUCK A LOT trying approach people there...still looking to find my people lol