This my first official post, so hello all! I'm new to 3DX but I've chatted for a long time and used various platforms from IRC to Java to virtual platforms. I love 3DX and MMF is the best. Would also love to try a gang bang. This is my two cents on the subject..Over time, I've developed certain tastes when it comes to MMF play, like hotwife, cuck, D/s (with either two doms or two subs) and/or bi play online. This makes a good trio harder to find, but it narrows down the interests of all partners and makes things more enjoyable for all. Sex and fantasy is always subjective. No matter the kink or dynamic. That said, its been my experience that time zones are the biggest deterrent for online MMF as with any online play partner. After that its the inability to express one's kinks or interests. Men are always threatened by the presence of another man even when they are bi, I've found. And, there is always the question of dynamic; who is a top or bottom/dom or sub/alpha or beta. These are perhaps is the most important questions for men, are they are bi or not and if they are, or not, what role do they play? Men want to know their boundaries are not going to be crossed just as much as women do. After all its fairly easy to mess up one's proverbial wet dream when your partner does something you're not into, isn't it? Add that to the insecurity we all feel at times when we feel exposed and vulnerable relative to sex and it makes MMF as elusive as unicorns, lol. At any rate, I wonder if it would be possible to start a private group somewhere where people feel okay about divulging (maybe even anonymously) and specific interests can be listed? Either in a forum or in game, I have no idea how to do this. But, a place where people could screen each other and make connections would be awesome!
