aurelia

When I click on 3dx, it opens and then immediately opens the patcher and closes itself. The patcher is just a white screen that won't go away unless I close it. Open the game again and either the same thing will happen or I'll get an error message "data folder not found: there should be '3DXChat_Data' folder next to the executable. I've tried everything I can find about this, downloaded all of the things in the FAQ, restarted my computer, ran as administrator, whitelisted the game and the patcher, uninstalled and reinstalled the game over and over again and still no luck. I'd really appreciate some help :<