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RobbertM

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  1. Sorry...protesting human contact? Really?? LOL....but you're right...there are weird people here
  2. Hi all, I've been away for a while, so maybe this suggestion has been made before. I think 3dxchat still allows for some harassment, namely unwanted kiss cheeks and cuddles. Now some will probably say that is harmless harassment, but...harassment is still harassment, there is nothing harmless about it. And I do know people complaining about it. I have 2 suggestions that would fix this: Only allow kiss cheeks and cuddles between friends, that is...the option only appears when the target is in your friends list Always present it as an option, but for people not on your friendlist it results in a question just like with the slow danceNow...i know i'm a male suggesting this and that this sounds as another male coming to the rescue of those poor defenseless women. I get that, and it almost stopped me from posting this. But harassment affects us all actually, regardless of race and gender. And although it is unfortunately true some genders are more affected then others, we can only reduce it in our society (and 3dx) if we all see it for hwat it truly is: unwanted and petty behaviour.
  3. I met a few couples within this game. Of course I can't say for sure that they were also REALLY married in real, but they at least said they were. So I would think...yes!
  4. Not coming Back, though :)

    1. RobbertM

      RobbertM

      Oeps, I am back :)

  5. trying 3dx 2.0...

  6. I have been in 3dxchat for 2 years, and after that time I felt it was time to leave. Not because the game changed, probably because I did, lol. But...did it change in that time? Yes, it certainly did. But I have the idea it changed for the better. Let me give you a few examples: Two years ago, approx 75% what you saw walking around was females, all dancing together and a few guys around them watching that. Now, its a bit more balanced, certainly many more male avatars visible when you walk into a roomThe first half year I was there, almost all women complained about the rudeness of the average male. If I ask women about it today I often hear the comment that most guys are actually quite decent and niceI also think that more women also joined the community. Ofc the there are still many more male members which makes sense it being a sex game, but as the game has become more social too, more female joined alsoOf course I am not sure, it is also possible that in that time I view a different subsystem of the community, and that that makes it appear as if things changed, but it does feel a bit more mature and social. We all know that the possibility of user rooms is nice, but it has changed the local chats in the public rooms. There is not much of that going on, probably also due to the possibility of group chats. And any change always has positive and negative effects, and its almost impossible to exactly predict an effect. History is full of examples of that, lol. One famous scientist said: predictions are always hard, especially about the future. Overall I had a good time in 3dx, and it is still not having much competition. That will change, obviously. So I look back at many good adventures, and sometimes I do miss it. But in the end, reallife is what it is all about, people
  7. In your eyes by Peter Gabriel....best love song ever
  8. left 3dx...will check forum occasionally...

    1. Jenzi

      Jenzi

      tc, all the best for your rl.

  9. It feels it is time to go...finally...

    1. Jenzi

      Jenzi

      tc, all the best for your rl.

  10. Going in circles... ;-)

  11. Well, I agree. I am here 2 years, and the first months I had a lot of drama (also created by me as I wasn't completely honest). But after that, I learned that most drama can be avoided by just being honest and open. And take into account that chatting is very limited (much information is missing) so be: overly clear, lol. If you do that and meet the right people, it can be an awesome place. Of course it isn't real-life, it is sharing of fantasies, and those fantasies can include sex, romance or whatever you like. I don't consider the friendships fantasy though
  12. Ha ha. Well, for me its not the sexual aspect that is issue in these cases. I think most will agree that when you stay longer this becomes more and more a social game, despite the obvious fantasy aspect of it. And that means that apart from the sexual stuff (which doesn't really bother me, I am pretty sure I have had sex with guys too, lol), its the sharing of other real-life things that you hope aren't all based on lies.
  13. Very true. What amazes me is that sometimes people that are very active in those discussions later appear to be a guy too, lol. I guess the trick of 3dx is walking that thin line between trusting people and being paranoid, haha. And all in all, I have much more good experiences then bad.
  14. It is indeed a very common story. I started that way too in 3dx, to be honest. We all know the reality of 3dx. With some you are more surprised then with others though. I guess what matters to me more is how much of the character was a lie, right? Gender is just one aspect...
  15. This thread is indeed an old one, and I decided to read up not see if there was anything new. I must say that I do agree with the "tagging the alt as being an alt system". It would again make it a little more difficult. However...the people that are really there to play with others have usually multiple accounts, not just multiple avatars. And for that (apart from IP tracking), not much can be done
  16. I seem to be back. And very happy to be, too :)

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