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Okay appreciate your inputs. Thanks.

Sorry Amber you lost me at " it is a physical desire that feeds the sex, not the emotional connection." When you say you're a creature of needing to feel love before physically diving in, I can relate to it because that is exactly what I am talking about here. But for me I don't feel loved when someone says "I love you but only in 3dx world. It might be fantasy world for others, you and in SL, Achat... and I sound like a broken record but for the nth time, I respect that. Its your choice, your subscription hard earned money, your time ... everyone is saying the same thing. I made this post for one reason and one reason only with an open mind that I need to understand people's mindset. I won't disrespect others by saying I have seen worse in online or RL, but I've been some places too. But that doesn't equate to online life is not equal to real life. Bad shit happen to everyone whether you're online or in real life. I am sure you've lent your shoulder for a friend to cry on after she was ditched. I am sure you've learnt your lessons. I am not this close to otherwise accepting that my post was just a pointless rant than a wishful debate.

Think again what you wrote and think again if John doe can't send his friends to test it out on Sherry. p.s. stop assuming I am a noob with life like experiences please?

I understand and accept that everyone has their way of playing and is free to do so. I am not unhappy being here or indicating this place is bad to be. I am wishfully hoping that there wasn't so much shielding when it came to emotions among users. I am okay with the rejection and people's choice and method of playing. I am wishing people would be more accepting (few at least) so that people like me feel embraced and feel hopeful. If I am respecting your community, I feel like I deserve to be heard and not just ridiculed. There are people who are hanging by the thread and asking for a fair chance, including me. I will just quote a monologue of my favorite song "Sometimes people don't see there's a whole another life happening outside your bubble, and when that outside is gone, you realize all you've left is the bubble." p.s. Thanks for the advice. I have done so in the past and intend to continue.

I am sorry, did I smell sarcasm here? Didn't I mention TWICE that I respect your perception and not attempting to change it? What I wrote as reply to your previous comment were few points to ponder, if you will. Just because you CAN doesn't mean you SHOULD, in this case your disrespect you're so much advocating for not being thrown back at you. This thread is a debate and lets not troll the poster shall we?

Thanks Sherry, I respect your opinion but please don't assume I have written this post being completely blind of a woman's point of view. Also don't assume I am new to this like RobT did. I am in no way going to try to change your views but I have to re assert what I am trying to say. Now everyone has been screwed over and over again by someone or the other in real life or in open. But no one in real life tells you to stop dating because you might get cheated on or whatever, but ... in virtual world people are quick to say you're a fool if you trusted someone online. Why? Because there's a fair more chance to catch him/her in the real world and you can't do the same online? Imagine if your real world turned into like this where you won't let anyone just anyone enter your house or life fearing and paranoid that they will Rob you off your life or wealth or hurt you in some way or take advantage or play some sick game. But you can't behave that way in your real life because people will start calling you crazy. But since it's okay to do this online, people do it. It's normal out here to be paranoid (read - careful). Sorry but I never stopped eating when I got food poisoning, i just stopped eating from that particular restaurant ... Didn't ban the whole city food. I am not asking anyone to let your guards off or trust blindly. From the time I have spent in any virtual platform I have seen that 1 out of 100 will give you a fair chance to even earn that trust RobT is talking about, why? Because a jerk once hurt you and you haven't moved on. I am sorry learning from mistakes is one thing and closing your doors on opportunity is another. Thanks though, I respect your insight and perception.

For the most part I would happily agree but if this is in true sense a community, people need to look out for new as well as old people. Not caring or being paranoid doesn't help. You're free to take measures to protect yourself from getting hurt but when your security measures become generic and clichéd it starts degrading the whole idea of socialising. You're right about the people need something to trust in; part.

Agreed, and this isn't exclusive to just 3dxchat. It's for any virtual social platform.

DISCLAIMER: This topic is for expressing my views and your opinions in what you say, however I am sure many of you would find this downright silly and non agreeable. That doesn't give you the right to be harsh or rude. I am a simple Indian guy who joined with a lot of expectations (read -unrealistic in this virtual world). It's wouldn't be fair to say, I didn't give it time or enough efforts. I did, and I will continue to do so. I am well aware that this isn't a dating site and the center piece of this game being 'sex' makes it difficult for an emotional barter. I am however that virus in a sterile world with people immune to the kind like me and I would soon die or casted out if I don't infect anyone soon. Again, I am a sucker of emotions and feelings. I fantasize romance rather than dominance and hit n run. But it is sinful in this world. People's lack of trust and shell named privacy is hardcore than their fuckery. I geddit, this world of stalkers and rare chance of getting profit out of emotional investment gets you scared but I fail to understand how can you drive without fuel? How is your sky full of stars not incomplete without a moon? Why won't you let me in and love you like I would if I met you at the bar or library or if you were my new neighbor? I will take no for an answer, I definitely will smile if you say because you're creepy and ugly as fuck. I will accept that I am just not your type and oblige if you ask me to piss off... But I will never understand why you put your kinks and fantasies above your heart, and when did you stop taking risks. When did you decide you will not fail anymore? P.s. please be very convincing.