I think two things should always be considered. 1. Did you have a conversation with them before you started role playing? Get to know them first to find if you are a match in personal tastes . Not every one likes the same kind of role play so its so important to find out likes and dislikes from the get go. It also lets you know if there is a language barrier. 2. Read profiles. They will tell you if they enjoy role play. Also put down on your profile that you do. They might find you if they know you are looking.