Domonique

This dude gets the ring -

Personally, I don't RP much.. but most commonly, people will RP a persona, they'll RP their fantasy self. They'll design the person that they want to be in the game and will often design their profile to reflect it. You'll get the obvious vampires, demons and nekos and then the not so obvious where they'll just be RPing a more confident or slutty version of themselves.
 
It's completely up to you who you want to be, but as you've found out, there needs to be a level of respect. Public sex happens quite often in places like Sin Club, but it often happens in the back rooms for instance, rather than on the bar, as an example. The longer you're in the game, the more you'll learn this stuff, when in doubt: ask :3 you'll notice the people who are around a lot and most 'veteran' players will be happy to give you advice :3

O.o I don't like the sound of this slow-cooked cat.. /me mews and cowers in her kitty hideout

I hope I won't be grilled for reviving this my first and oldest thread, but, for some reasons I thought I wanted to make my voice heard again
 
First a friendly hello after a longer time away, but ... I have been busy elsewhere.
 
The reason I'm back here in the forum is because many of the things that have happened in the last couple of months started with 3dx, and in particular with this thread.
 
In the past couple of months I have been operating a fetish blog, that has gained a significant audience (no worries, no advertisement ahead lol) and that has proven to be a hell lot of fun.
 
And all of this has started here.
 
3dx allowed me to untie my sexuality, much more than I had ever imagined. What had started as a nice way do distract myself and to relieve some of the "sexual pressure" that builds up in long term relationships, has allowed me to stand up and reclaim my sexuality, to open up to my long hidden fetishes and desires and find me not being alone with them
 
I learned to express them in words, much based on the things I have "learned" here in 3dx, when interacting with people.
 
And I learned to talk to my real life partner about all this, about 3dx and eventually also about my blog. LilCal's advice to talk to my partner has been the best advice in a long time.
 
At the bottom line I have somehow changed from being passive to active, from passively watching porn to much more embracing my sexuality.
 
Real real life effects.
 
Just wanted to share that - have fun all you naughty pervs!!!
 

I'm sorry to hear you weren't able to make it work
 
KimmyFox is right, before you get serious with someone, the most important thing to do is make sure you're on the same page about what you want, especially if you're looking for a relationship in 3DX where temptations and jealousy run rampant. If you think you've found someone you want a relationship with, make sure you are 100% clear with them what you want in the relationship.. it helps to avoid the confusion and heartache that you've just experienced.
 
Loruna is also right, I wouldn't recommend coming to 3DX with the sole intention of finding a relationship. It's so very rare that it works out because of the nature of the game. I suggest just to have fun, take every day as it comes and be yourself.. eventually if there's a special someone for you in this virtual world, you'll find them!
 
My final piece of advice.. because love, real love, is rare to find here and crazy difficult to keep hold of.. always be honest. So many relationships here fail because one or both people in the relationship are not honest. Then they get caught out and things fall apart. If you're both clear from the start about expectations and don't try to hide anything from each other then you'll give the relationship its best chance.
 
I hope this has helped :3 

Briana, don't be so cynical.. It's rare, I'll give you that, but it's not impossible!

I wonder the same thing Ana.. I wonder the same thing

Hehe nah, Nora's a blast ;3 She knows how to have a good time!

With the amount you spent.. you could probably have bought her a Nora and been able to control it for her ;3

Making a cock of myself
 
 
“Vince, I want your cock!”

“Ok…. let’s log in then”, I replied excitedly.

“No….. I want YOUR cock!”

About a week later the mould-a-willy kit arrived at my house…

Now, you’d think this would be a simple process: wank… insert…. wait… withdraw… fill…. bingo. It developed into a living Hell.

I didn’t take long to realise, this was designed to be a two-person task, something for couples to do together, largely those in a long-distance relationship, but not for Freya and I; not for two people who hadn’t yet met. And I could hardly recruit a right-hand man, could I? No, if I was gonna get this done, I was flying solo.

Now, I don’t know about anyone else but I don’t diarize bouts of self-pleasuring, they just kinda happen. But for this I needed to prepare. Mould resin? Check. Mixing container? Check. Spatula? Check. Correct amount of water? Check. Water at precisely 60c? Check (yeah, a thermometer was provided) Laptop? Check. Cat locked out of kitchen? Check. Porn clip? Check. Erection?…………..


Well…………………………………



                                                                                                                                 **some little time later**



….……………………. everything comes to he who waits - and watches a lot of You Porn clips - and eventually I was good to go, but I have to be honest this wasn’t in any way sexy. Now guys, I’m sure I’m not alone, but carefully emptying a packet of powder and mixing in a precise quantity of water are not thoughts which usually race through my mind while engrossed in carnal pleasure-seeking. And it’s not like I had a big ‘window’. No, this resin would set hard within two minutes from when it was mixed with water.

If only other things set hard with such inevitability…

There’s no easy way to describe this but my first attempt was a flop as the drawbridge slowly lowered - afterall both my hands were busy elsewhere - at exactly the wrong time as my mind was forced from thinking about sex to ‘hmmmm there’s still some lumps in this’. But regardless, I pressed on, feeding my rapidly-diminishing manhood into the rapidly-setting moulding liquid like a Victorian washer woman offering up clothes to a mangle.

The outcome was not good. Less lifelike cock, more grotesquely melted candle, with a collapsed bellend, which sounds like a medical condition. Take two….

I awaited the arrival of mould-a-willy 2.0 with trepidation and some genuine anxiety, deflecting Freya with excuses that the kit had yet to arrive, which was technically true, because the second kit was still on dispatch.  

But don’t despair, this story has a happy ending - quite literally. Take two was an unqualified success (practice makes perfect) and to this day she has a little (err… reasonably well proportioned) piece of me with her whenever we get some naughty time….

But go on, have a laugh at my expense. It’s okay, I’m good at making a cock of myself…. eventually.

lol i don't think I ever asked how/why you called yourself that xD

I don't hate who I am, sometimes I'm in denial about it, sometimes I get irritated by it.. but I'll always be me at the core: a little weird, someone who gets a severe case of word vomit (some people have experienced this first hand!) and someone who's naive and sometimes trust the wrong people
 
I don't think the game itself has the capacity to create changes for us, more the people we meet along the way. Before 3DX, I was a very different person than who I am today. I'm still all those things I mentioned, but the people who I've met have shown me that it's ok to be those things, they love me for and in spite of those things. They've given me RL confidence to completely change my RL for the better, knowing that there are people out there who accept me just the way I am.

I don't hate who I am, sometimes I'm in denial about it, sometimes I get irritated by it.. but I'll always be me at the core: a little weird, someone who gets a severe case of word vomit (some people have experienced this first hand!) and someone who's naive and sometimes trust the wrong people
 
I don't think the game itself has the capacity to create changes for us, more the people we meet along the way. Before 3DX, I was a very different person than who I am today. I'm still all those things I mentioned, but the people who I've met have shown me that it's ok to be those things, they love me for and in spite of those things. They've given me RL confidence to completely change my RL for the better, knowing that there are people out there who accept me just the way I am.

I don't hate who I am, sometimes I'm in denial about it, sometimes I get irritated by it.. but I'll always be me at the core: a little weird, someone who gets a severe case of word vomit (some people have experienced this first hand!) and someone who's naive and sometimes trust the wrong people
 
I don't think the game itself has the capacity to create changes for us, more the people we meet along the way. Before 3DX, I was a very different person than who I am today. I'm still all those things I mentioned, but the people who I've met have shown me that it's ok to be those things, they love me for and in spite of those things. They've given me RL confidence to completely change my RL for the better, knowing that there are people out there who accept me just the way I am.

Oh Reds xD trust you to take a mature conversation and ruin it lol it must be snoopy o'clock!

Oh Reds xD trust you to take a mature conversation and ruin it lol it must be snoopy o'clock!

And like in real life: enjoy each moment as the last one and when it blows up in your face....recall this moments. 

I think that like real life, with great reward comes great risk... if you're involved and on a massive high with someone, it's probably good to bear in mind that it's really going to suck if it blows up in your face.
 
Of course, sometimes it doesn't blow up, and you really need to appreciate that situation.
 
Now excuse me while I go wash all this soot off my face. 

I'm so sorry that happened to you Tom, I can't imagine what that must have been like for you.
 
What I can imagine is how far you went with this person because I am there with Fox. We text and talk everyday, we visit each other as much as possible. We have been completely real and honest with each other and we have a real, albeit long distance, relationship that we intend on taking to the next level and we are working towards moving countries to be together.
 
I guess my point is this, there are always two sides to every coin and although there are a lot of people out there who will hurt you, not everyone out there is out to use you as a play thing to pass the time.
 
Yes, be careful who you share your heart with, tread slowly and carefully if you choose to open yourself up to another person, but don't completely shut yourself off from the possibilities.
 
(Yes I'm a complete romantic at heart!)

I'm so sorry that happened to you Tom, I can't imagine what that must have been like for you.
 
What I can imagine is how far you went with this person because I am there with Fox. We text and talk everyday, we visit each other as much as possible. We have been completely real and honest with each other and we have a real, albeit long distance, relationship that we intend on taking to the next level and we are working towards moving countries to be together.
 
I guess my point is this, there are always two sides to every coin and although there are a lot of people out there who will hurt you, not everyone out there is out to use you as a play thing to pass the time.
 
Yes, be careful who you share your heart with, tread slowly and carefully if you choose to open yourself up to another person, but don't completely shut yourself off from the possibilities.
 
(Yes I'm a complete romantic at heart!)

Hi there lads and ladies,
 
I guess the reason for this post is that I'm curious. I know that it's rare that a virtual couple in a sex game can take it to the real world and make it work, both in game and out (especially if you don't want an open relationship). I want to know how rare it really is, so far I've not met anyone yet who has met in the game and then taken it into reality, is there anyone else out there who has made it work? If any of you are happy to share, I want to know your stories, how it happened and what you did to make it work. What were your biggest struggles and how did you resolve them?
 
Maybe we could hear from people who haven't managed to make it work in the real world too? What struggles you faced, why (in your opinion) didn't it work and what would you do differently if you had the chance? Maybe give some advice for people looking to take that step? We're all aware of that common problem where someone has turned out to be the opposite gender to their avi, but I'm talking about beyond that, where you've spoken to them through skype, discord or any other method and tried to have a relationship outside the restraints of 3DX, maybe even met up with them IRL, but it didn't last.
 
Your stories don't have to be 3DX specific, maybe if you have experiences with Achat, RLC or some other sex game? Or even if you just wanted to share an opinion on the subject (though please keep it constructive!) I'd love to hear from you.
 
If anyone wants me to, I'm happy to share my experiences and answer any questions about mine and RomanFoxs relationship.

I understand and support what you're doing if it makes the game a pleasant experience for you, but I won't be joining you in ignoring people. Personally, when people troll or are hateful towards me, I find it amusing. It gets even more entertaining when the someone starts trolling the trolls. I know and am comfortable with who I am, my friends know my truth and anyone who chooses to join the trolls or believe what they say about me.. well I'm better off not knowing them and just sitting back with my popcorn and entertaining myself.

I understand and support what you're doing if it makes the game a pleasant experience for you, but I won't be joining you in ignoring people. Personally, when people troll or are hateful towards me, I find it amusing. It gets even more entertaining when the someone starts trolling the trolls. I know and am comfortable with who I am, my friends know my truth and anyone who chooses to join the trolls or believe what they say about me.. well I'm better off not knowing them and just sitting back with my popcorn and entertaining myself.

in the situation you describe, you're right, there is no fun in newbs not getting the help they need and no one deserves to be harassed, which is why I said I support Bree and others who choose to ignore them.
 
What I said was very generalized and maybe I should have explained better. Using your examples, if I saw a newb not getting the help they needed, I'd PM them and offer them my help, being what Fox calls a veteran player. In the instance where someone is being harassed, I'd find amusement in it when an 'anti-troll' steps in and takes the trolls attention away from them, sometimes I try to be that 'anti-troll' but unfortunately I am not as good at it as others. On the side, I might PM the person being harassed and make sure they're ok.
 
I'm far from heartless, as my first response probably made me out to be.

I understand and support what you're doing if it makes the game a pleasant experience for you, but I won't be joining you in ignoring people. Personally, when people troll or are hateful towards me, I find it amusing. It gets even more entertaining when the someone starts trolling the trolls. I know and am comfortable with who I am, my friends know my truth and anyone who chooses to join the trolls or believe what they say about me.. well I'm better off not knowing them and just sitting back with my popcorn and entertaining myself.