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  1. Sexypaige

    Clothes

    Recategorize this piece to the bra section so girls can wear it as lingerie and worn with a skirt or pants. Rarely do you see it being worn and by being able to use it in different ways the piece might get worn more. Its a cute piece, but needs to be more versatile. I think a lot of girls want more sear and lace fabrics.
    5 points
  2. TonyFrx

    New couples dances added

    Two new couples dances have been added and thank you, it's very nice. I suggest they be moved from Forplay and put under slowdance so it won't be necessary to be a partner to invite someone to dance. A Rock&Roll style dance would be great too.
    4 points
  3. Xizi

    Clothes

    Maybe it doesn't work good on clothes because the 3d models of many clothes are too thick or something. I mean, other sheer clothes that are now in the game are very thin, some even looking like they have almost no volume, either very thin layer on top of the skin or maybe even just texture. Or maybe the problem is with pattern mixing. Would be good if devs would actually provide some information about highly requested stuff like: Request A in work, gonna be in game in one of the nearest updates. Request B in work, but we have this and that troubles with implementing it, so have no idea when it will arrive or if it will arrive. Request C is not gonna be implemented, we can't because of technical difficulties. Request D, F and E - we did not even touch so can't say anything. Like, I can't understand how we still don't have any panties with new material system while the material system is already in game for 1.5 years...
    4 points
  4. The issue with this Ideas and suggestions part it's often ignored a lot and some things have been asked since 2014 and some longer that means 10 years of waiting. Some of these things also make the game look bad such as. 1. Allowing females to have penis but not allowing men the same fortitude of having a pussy this cuts off Nonbinary, Transmen, Intersex men and so many more people who actually wanna join the game. This should have been updated when woman were allowed to have dicks. Cause more and more games allow males, females, and nonbinary avatars but this one. This is also why there's a huge amount of female avatars that are not actual females. I mean trans men or intersex men have to run a female avatar to get semi close to what they are. 2. Men still can not pole dance this has been an issue for years! Yet even with all the begging they ignore that and put sex poses on it that now will force the female avatar stuck on the pole forcing you to have to refresh. 3. Why can men not paint there finger nails or ware make up? Still after all the begging! 4. why are the cloths separated instead of put together where everyone can ware them so that way people can express themselves with out having to be forced on a male avatar. 5. Men's cloths and objects have been lacking for years!!! Why don't men get the cat feet or the hooves? Men get 1 item and girls well get 10 like what? have you ever heard of a femboy that are stuck on female avys cause you wont allow them to be the way they want to. Again every game offers it but this one. 6. Why cant men and females change there skin texture like no offence but everyone's avy's still look cookie cut like not every guy has the same abs not every girl has the same body yet there's nothing we can do to change that. Just like guys cant even pick foreskin or not. 7. Let the community make things for you as many have wanted to help and been ignored. The updates and creation process is so long that there is almost no updates. And main things are being ignored. I mean you have people getting x gold why not expand on that and make more and let people buy things that are created? Including when you guys take 10 percent of it after we pay the subscription fee. Just to have more money taken when we send it to others. At least let us get something more then Photos and name changes and marriages and sticker gifts. 8. No group cuddles yet its all just sex no way for more then 3 people to dance on the same dance at the same time 9. Poses for photos group and solos why group pose sexual in nature. Also why does MMM have a cuddle pose and FMM Don't 10. A way for block list to be exported and put in a new profile. This would be helpful instead of us dealing with people harassing us and stalking just cause we block there main avatar. A person should be able to block someone with out being harassed by their alt avatars 11. Better reporting system where the whole convo is looked at instead of temporarily banning someone for losing there cool over a stalker who wont leave them alone. This has happened to many friends and the person causing the issue won't lose time at all. 12. Oh and your subs can't be turned off when you pay monthly for the first time cause I am still being charged for an account that doesn't even exist anymore. Cause when you go to deactivate it nothing happens no notification that it went through that would help and it shouldn't even be turned on auto repay that should be an option not forced. 13. How about making it so you can set your profile to friends only instead of the public! 14. Why is it cheaper to pay for a full new profile then to change your name. Why don't you put marriages at 20k and deforces at 10k cause those happen the most. It will stop people from messing around with people and not being serious about marrage in the game. I am sure all these points will remain ignored and this is why this game has more bots and alts look at almost every dance team they are mostly alt profiles that make up 50 people in a room. I remember when this game use to be fun honestly but with it ignoring half the population it could have its making it very hard to want to stay in a game where you pay for yearly profiles and get almost nothing you ask for in return. Also again if the dev creation team can not keep up then again open it to the public so people who wanna create things can make money for it and help instead of us waiting 10 more years for simple things.
    4 points
  5. many characters in the game are crossdressers, gays, and lesbians, given the times we are living in, it would be appropriate and would bring a great variety to the game if all types of clothes, shoes, makeup and hairstyles were wearable by all genders of character, so to be able to best express your personality and gaming experience... adding chasity cages as accessories could help characters who are not comfortable with their always penis to overcome quickly the problem. precisely due the nature of the game itself, i believe it is an important step for the 3dx community.
    3 points
  6. This is what I get for obsessing over every detail. I'm never gonna be able to unsee this haha
    3 points
  7. LOL... I see this other typo all the time, but I take it with a fun attitude.
    3 points
  8. xaxy00

    Clothes

    i'd love to see seethrough dress for woman (babydoll or other)
    3 points
  9. I had a guy telling me in walls and walls of purple how he was breathing on my earlobes ... while i was laying in a free fuck room wearing nothing but heels and a slut collar ...
    2 points
  10. 2 points
  11. OliverX

    OliverX Creations gallery

    10 - 3DXchat Saint Patrick's day 2024 This room won first prize in 3DXC Saint Patrick's Day-themed build competition. It was the first room for which I explored green palettes in their entirety, and I thoroughly enjoyed the experience, even though the work had to be completed in 12 days, which made for a particularly intense period of work. Like some of my other rooms, the boundaries of the room are blurred from the visitor's view, increasing immersion and giving the sensation of being in the middle of a vast, impenetrable forest. My interpretation of the theme is a little "fantasy", and I could almost have built elves too ! Event date : March. 17th 2024
    2 points
  12. Every orbit of the new Waltz dance comes with a squishy sex noise. Any idea why? It's very distracting.
    2 points
  13. VETTING VETTED In terms of the BDSM world, vetting a person is a direct and somewhat fast way to get to know if a potential partner is compatible with your vision of a dynamic. The vetting process allows two people to compare wants, needs, desires, morals, limits, etc. against one another. It also helps them test the waters of the other people to get a taste of how the Dom/sub would react in their desired role. Here is some information I gathered from the net and added in my own words and experiences to help make this clearer. When do you start the vetting process? In most cases, when we meet or start talking with a potential partner, we tend to get to know that person in a more organic way. This is a form of vetting, so you could say vetting starts as soon as you start having extended conversations with that person. We tend to allow the conversation to flow through basic questions like: How old are you? Where are you from? Are you a Dom, sub, switch? How much experience do you have? These questions pop up within the first 10 minutes of a conversation when someone is looking for a potential Lifestyle partner. I believe this is a very good way to start a conversation with people because if you just meet someone and start asking the more invasive questions you would ask a Dom/sub, many, if not most, would be put off and shut you down right then. If after talking with someone for a while and getting to know them better, you feel a connection, then by all means move on to the more pointed questions. How do you vet a person? To vet a person, you get to know them. You ask questions and gather that information to form your conclusion. Some questions you should ask a partner are: What are their limits? What form of BDSM do they practice or want in a relationship? Are they wanting a single or multiple partner situation? Do they practice in real life or online only? Are they active in the local BDSM community? What are their views on safe words? Are they a sadist/masochist? If so, to what degree? What are some common protocols they expect? What are some examples of punishments they use? Vetting is a very in-depth way to ensure compatibility with a partner by getting to know their history, style of BDSM, and other relevant information. While vetting will definitely not ensure a successful outcome, it will help you pick and choose partners that meet up with the version of the Lifestyle you are trying to practice. Now, one thing I want to NOTE here.. As a rule of thumb I use is 1 month, giving this process time to work. I go over it at least 2 times. and I offer the person their first out, or get out of jail free card. No harm, no foul. Walk cleanly out the door, and part as friends. I do this offer once again at the end of the vetting process before the first trial session. I give them the option, walk cleanly, no harm, no foul. We stay friends, and move on. After the 3rd and final trial session, the offer is made the last time. Walk cleanly away, no harm, no foul. By this time, it is the end of the vetting process Now, we get serious.. Here is where the above teachings I have already posted come out. And as the submissives call it.. The "Game" begins... Enjoy darlings! ~Z
    2 points
  14. The Wanna-Be's Darlings.. I write in great concern over some confusions that I have ran into with some close friends and with other submissives that have contacted Me over the behavior of those that Call themselves Dominants who just do not know their backsides from a hole in the ground. Yes, that is harsh. So is playing games with a person's Heart and feelings you twits! So let us clarify some things here. A REAL Dominant (Real life or Online) will have some specific behaviors that are noticeable... A good Dom is being cool, calm and collected. They must be able to operate under pressure, and to not get flustered easily. A good Dom/me will listen, care, make adjustments, discuss those with you, go back over them after a session to check on that adjustments. A good Dom/me will be straightforward in their dealings. They do this out of care, concern, and love for their charge. A good Dom/me nurture you, teach you, honor you, and cherish you for your accomplishments and your struggles. A good Dom/me be responsible in their dealings with you and others. Being fair in all things, for We the Dominants, know that no one is perfect. That is not the Goal, the Goal is to make our charges better them Us, teach they how to thrive, to excel, to reach for new heights and accomplish more than they thought they could. Now I already COVERED in FAKE Dom/Me https://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/15473-teachings-and-musing-of-a-retired-pro-dominatrix/&do=findComment&comment=450663 In specifics of how to see one, their behaviors, ABANDONMENT Ok sweet submissives.. So many of you wait in vain for asshats that have used you, tossed you into the land of forgetfulness and still you sit around and mope, not knowing what to do, where to go, and what options you have. Let us fix that, shall we? You are still aching from being abandoned, first you need to learn to exist on your own again. You need to be your own Dominant/boss again for a bit, remember that you do not need a Dominant. Start by blatantly breaking EVERY rules you ever had in the relationship. If you weren’t allowed to orgasm or touch yourself, go do that... NOW. If you were not allowed to use certain words, use them. ERASE your dumbass old Dominant’s influence on your life in EVERY WAY you can imagine, withing reason, get back to being in control of you. DO NOT LIE TO YOURSELF! ‘In his defense’ isn’t really a defense. It is AVOIDENCE by you submissive. The asshat left. Left you to your own to wallow around lost. Darlings, its ok to be MAD. It is ok to be angry! It is NOT ok to harm yourself. It is NOT ok to obsess thinking you will 'win' them back. There is no winning, They LEFT Honey, end of story. Nothing to claim, nothing to have, just nothing. I am so sorry that is a bit in your face, but some submissive lie to themselves and put themselves into the complete falsehood that they are at fault, or being tested, or need to be loyal when they return and the Dom has not sent a shred of contact to them. No info, no promises, just dead silence... Listen darlings, You want to know how The Relationship should be? you will find it here... https://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/15473-teachings-and-musing-of-a-retired-pro-dominatrix/&do=findComment&comment=450664 NOW, we have the important darlings taken care of that.. Let us talk about the absolute idiotic behavior I have seen some WannaBe's do. Fake Dom/me READ THIS FIRST... IF ANYTHING In here describe you... then YOU may want to slam on the brakes and get your head out of your ass, before you harm the heart that is willing to be with you. https://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/15473-teachings-and-musing-of-a-retired-pro-dominatrix/&do=findComment&comment=450663 What makes a Good Dominant... You will find My writings on this, from these posts THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE DOM/TOPS - https://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/15473-teachings-and-musing-of-a-retired-pro-dominatrix/&do=findComment&comment=450666 And THE RELATIONSHIP, both parts.. Part 1: https://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/15473-teachings-and-musing-of-a-retired-pro-dominatrix/&do=findComment&comment=450664 Part 2: https://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/15473-teachings-and-musing-of-a-retired-pro-dominatrix/&do=findComment&comment=450665 LETS also address a kind of Fetish (top) that I just.. H A T E The COLLECTOR... This kind of WannaBe is one of the WORST kind of a Fake Dom/me AND submissive. They have STABLES of people on 'collars' or 'collection of collars. Owning them with no work from themselves and no work to better the submissive that has mistakenly attach themselves to this person and their lies about being their 'special' one. This individual only cares about 1 thing. Themselves. They do NOT care for the harem they are creating. It is only about THEM and THEM only. More toys for the child to play with. IF you are a fetish'r, and like this. HEY have at it. If you are a submissive, caught in this harmful delusion of utter falsehood. Then you know the pain and damage this can cause... Be mindful darlings always, and do not be afraid to challenge. It is your GIFT, and you have the RIGHT to remove it from dumbasses any time you need. Be warned too, the Acceptance from the Dominant, also can be removed, at any time. So make sure you are doing your part, too. Toodles! ~Z
    2 points
  15. TashaTight

    Clothes

    Think they could essentially also add some transparent texture for clothing maybe some with patterns or embroidered ones
    2 points
  16. Please tan lines! They are sure to be very popular! Thank you very much!
    2 points
  17. OliverX

    OliverX Creations gallery

    ... And here are a few portraits taken during the last part of the event
    1 point
  18. what GPU does she use? Did she update the drivers? This looks like more like a display bug than anything else. Did she try to reduce all graphics settings in 3DXC?
    1 point
  19. Check under the dances and you'll find Applause for clapping but cheering would also be nice to have.
    1 point
  20. Nice new updates but really would like to see outfits that provide more cleavage....look at all the womens' tops. With the exception of one, there's no decent cleavage, and the dresses aren't much better. One of the dresses from the "old" series is great, but since its not updated, you can;t style it up or use different "fabrics" like you can on the new ones. That goes for the shoes too....more strappy, open toe options would be great. Can we get some pearls and diamond necklaces and bracelets? Anklets too! Great that the fellas are getting better options!
    1 point
  21. Lunarelf

    ram horns?

    we already have large and small demon horns... and the old-cartoonic demon horn, so...... would we have this as a more succubus vibe choice in future?
    1 point
  22. Atle

    Clothes

    Maybe everything is made like the coat with just air underneath instead of skin to make the items and the avi`s lighter, thus making it impossible to use sheer fabric without adding the body and a lot more work in the process first ? It sure would.
    1 point
  23. Andel

    [SGC] Sex Games Club

    Hey everyone! I'm creating a new group for people that enjoy casual sex games, orgies and group roleplays. The first event will be a tried and true game called Roll the Dice on March 23rd. For details, check out this thread: https://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/15765-sgc-roll-the-dice-a-sexy-game-saturday-march-23rd-9pm-cet The event after that will be decided by the group members. I already have a lot of ideas for each category: Sex Games: - Roll the Dice! - Musical Chairs Adult Edition - Strip Blackjack - Guessing Game - Fashion Show - Snakes and Ladders - Catch and Fuck - Suck Off Race - Blowjob Roulette - Red vs Blue - Sex Championship Orgies: - Swap Orgy - Gangbang - Blowbang - Bukkake RPs: - Free Use Mansion - Eyes Wide Shut Masquerade Ball - Free Use Fuckbunny Resort - Sperm Clinic - Breeders - Sex Ed Class - Succubus Island - Succubus Lair - Werewolf Island - Occult Ritual - Incest RP But of course, I would also love to hear the ideas of the group! If you're interested in joining, please check out our Discord server. You can also read in detail about each of my ideas, share your own ideas and vote for the next event. I'd love to have you there! https://discord.gg/aFcu56raGW
    1 point
  24. Try these steps: And since you already tried a VPN maybe try another one, not all of them allow games and some are just not compatible.
    1 point
  25. Salut Khall et merci, mais je ne sais pas si c'est la même ^^ J'avais une ancienne room et celle ci est récente, je refais tout depuis zéro. Je trouvais que l'ancienne avait vieilli et manquait de verticalité et de dénivelés. Je travaille quelques assets quand j'ai le temps mais ça demandera encore un peu de temps. Surtout que j'ai encore deux gros projets en cours sur un espèce de donjon prison/aliens ( oui c'est bizarre ^^) et un autre de SciFi avec un vaisseau spatial. Pour l'heroic fantasy j'ai établi un système de chasse au trésor et d'énigme ou il sera impossible de tricher. Hi Khall and thank you, but I don't know if it's the same ^^ I had an old room and this one is recent, I'm redoing everything from scratch. I found that the old one had aged and lacked verticality and height differences. I work on a few assets when I have time but it will still take a little time. Especially since I still have two big projects in progress on a kind of prison/aliens dungeon (yes it's weird ^^) and another SciFi with a spaceship. For heroic fantasy I have established a treasure hunt and puzzle system where it will be impossible to cheat.
    1 point
  26. j'ai déjà eut l'occasion, la chance de visiter cette room de Lyndiana, il y a quelques mois et tout ce que je peux vous dire, c'est que : les photos sont certes jolies, mais ne lui rendent pas grâce. Cette room est tout simplement impressionnante et encore plus magnifique, lorsqu'on se trouve à l'intérieur. C'est incroyable tout ce qu'elle a fait à l'intérieur. Les effets de lumières, les textures. Les personnes qui font de l'héroïc Fantaisy vont vraiment se plaire dans cette room. -------------------------------- I already had the opportunity, the chance to visit Lyndiana's room, a few months ago and all I can tell you is that: the photos are certainly pretty, but they don't do it justice. This room is simply impressive and even more magnificent when you are inside. It's amazing what she did inside. Lighting effects, textures. People who do heroic fantasy will really enjoy this room.
    1 point
  27. futashemale

    radio dont work

    it works all in the other clubs sometimes it works and just wants to quite i was in my room all day fixing and no music i can hear sounds no music
    1 point
  28. Small preview for the next tool I am working on A tool for duplicating objects For the start I will provide presets of objects to duplicate, like books
    1 point
  29. Looking forward to your next installment MissZee!
    1 point
  30. Hi! One thing I always missed in Character editor is the possibility to see the % when I adjust the sizes of my body parts, or the opacity of my tattoos, or anything else involving a scrollbar. I saved hundreds of avatars, and maybe at some point I want to change something in my appearence and it would be cool to see the %, so I could replicate the same exact changes in old avatars too, without wasting too much time.
    1 point
  31. First rule of World Chat: Never mention (or look into) World Chat!
    1 point
  32. Hello everyone, the project is progressing slowly, I am refining the wings of the dragon from the Dragon Tower. A central location which can be accessed by steps or halfway up with a TP in the form of a griffin or magic portal.
    1 point
  33. As promised dears here is the first steps of what I call.. THE TASKS Now darlings we are going to talk about something that many do not know of. Those of us whom practice the Art in Life know of, only from being trained in the old ways of the association. Each proper House has a form of this in their teachings. This is the main structure of how a submissive go from badges, to trainees, to initiates, to owned. They are called, The TASKS. Sounds oh so mysterious! But this is a basic structure of development from the young submissive, until a proper submissive. The task is not just for the submissive, but are an equal learning plan for both the Dominant, and the submissive to grow together. I practice the Tasks of Five. These are specific in each degree, in the building stage of the D/s relationship. Pain Training Compassion Knowledge Openness These are set stages and hard requirements that are met by both, in order to progress the relationship to each level. What each of these consist of, is up to the Dominant, who is the Teacher, Leading the one. Yet, a couple of those levels require the input of both to move to the next. Pain This is the initial part of the Path, the joining, or agreement of One(Dominant) to the request of the one(submissive). Pain is the description for this phase of the TASKS, as it is describing of the initial phase of the Path of the D/s who begin talking, learning each other, sharing themselves. This part also involved what I call the "Sharing". This is where both whom have accepted the role of Chosen to chosen, share their past with each other. It is a thing of longing, a thing of sharing, a thing of no secrets between the two. Because of this, it can be a painful thing, expressing each other's past experiences. Each triumph, each failure. Every pain of your life to the other. This is a place of no secrets. If you keep them, then you are hung here until your own heart expels them. You see, those pains of your past are poison to the soul. Until you bare it, get it from you heart, your mind, and share it with the hope of your Chosen/chosen, you will never be free of it. It is so important for all to share the pain here. It is also a Place of healing, where trust in each other begins to bloom. Where love begins to swell, and two, become one. It is in this stage most stay the longest. For here it where Love gives to the other and the two learn the most from each other. Seventy percent of your time as Chosen and chosen are spent in this phase that will last through until the Fourth Task. This step is the most crucial because it is the start Path, and the beginning of the Bond. The Path is the journey both take, hand in hand as they begin their relationship. The Bond is the sharing of hearts, the honesty of each other, absence of lies. Note: withholding information here at this stage, is the same as lying to your Chosen/chosen. Do so at your own risk. As a Dominant, I can tell you many a darling suddenly sprang a rather HUGE thing on Me later in the Tasks that they did not share here. This is where you have to be a little bit brave Dears and dears, and realize this is how you start a love affair. CLARIFICATION 02/14/2024: I dismissed two whom served Me for this alone whom WILLINGLY held back information in this step that would of shown them in a bad light. Some may call that harsh. I call it lying to your Dominant who has shared their very heart and hope with you. Their vision and wish for us both. Either you trust, or you do not. You earn trust here by BOTH sharing. No secrets. If you have those, then you do not need to even START a relationship of that Art until you have dealt with those completely The Exception to this is when you are dealing with a chosen, who has suffered emotional trauma. Such individuals will have repress memories of certain events in their lives that as the relationship progresses, will get triggered and come out. THIS IS NOT an attempt to deceive in any way. This is actually a GREAT THING of the Art, pulling these kinds of things out of a chosen to be addressed, cared for, talked about, and if needed proper treatment sought to help your charge to get that poison out of themselves. So be mindful when this occurs, for it will. You get out the part of Loving, Protect, Guide, from the credo, and you do those things for your charge, leading them and holding them the whole way if needed. So think hard on this before going to the next task. This is a place of honesty, forgiveness, acceptance, and the beginning of Love. If you sabotage it here, then you are a fool to think you will make it through the tasks. Now, take your time do this. You both engage as you wish in this, play, date, have fun. But make SURE this is done before the last part of the Task of Pain is done. And that last task is "The Contract." I have written about this specifically. In life, you get a lawyer to write this out. It is that important. Online, you can follow the guide I wrote out, and you can make it as simply or as complex as you wish. I tend to try to keep things simple. The discussion of the Contract is the last part of this. What is allowed, not allowed, safe words, limits hard and soft. You would of read my detail info for this step before reaching The Tasks. Feel free to scroll back and review it!. TRAINING Now this is where as Dominants, we have a plan, following the Contract/Agreement to where we set out goals to address what, where, how we are going to expand our chosen. Gain them knowledge, take care of them, address their needs, and explore new things with them based on a basic idea or plan. And this where most get a little lost. So, I am going to share what I outline for My kitten Lexxy so you can see the methodology of this process. Address all known skills Put the darling through the ringer a few times, see where they shine, see where they do not. I this step you want to be the nurturer, encourage, be the cheerleader. Praise, and note to yourself things you see. Make a journal, and begin addressing things that are missing if the darling has a specific wish. In Lexxy case she wanted Me to teach her Masochism. Now, look at the discussion that was already done in the Pain stage. Begin comparing what you see the goal that you wish and the chosen wishes to have. Understand, this is not just Your work as the Dominant, but also the work of the submissive. Share you views, listen to their. Both of you hear the words of each other, discuss and talk Make proper changes, and apply those changes. COMMUNICATE! ALWAYS! Then after a couple of times with those changes, adjustments see how well they are doing. Be OPEN minded. Remember, you two are STILL LEARNING EACH OTHER at this stage. Keep on this stage all the way until the final Stage, Openness. Training once started keeps going on continuously. It never stops for the rest of your Union. Each can learn from each encounter, each session, each moment. This is more than just sex, it is knowing each other, understanding reactions. wanting to learn, do new things, try other things, etc. It is a never ending process. I found it best to have specific times and days for this each week, bi-weekly, or even monthly. (though that is a LONG time for your chosen to wait for what they crave to attend to their fetish, and You yours.) The biggest thing to do in this phase is to HAVE FUN! if it is not fun, you are not doing it right. Now understand, everyone has their own IDEA of fun. One is no better, or worse than the other, so long as you keep all things in context of the Contract/Agreement. Q: Why do I hark so much on "keep all things in context of the Contract/Agreement." A: Because this is the guide that will help both a Young Dom, and a young submissive in what to expect, how to be, and what is expected of them. It is that thing that will help them when they feel lost, or overwhelmed. It is there for that reason, to assist BOTH in what is expected, agreed to, and desired from each. Now this is only part of it. I will post about Compassion and Knowledge next... Until then Toodles ~Z
    1 point
  34. Hey @Wizard If you want to know my opinion, I like it, and I would gladly do something like that. Unfortunately, we are not currently working on it, and it's not in the plans for the near future. However, the idea of updating voices and moans resonates with me. Thank you for mentioning it
    1 point
  35. hotmaya

    Clothes

    Love to have more bodysuits in differnet shapes of bust and leg cuts, also bikinis need another update. PLEASE
    1 point
  36. Mondayy

    Music at the Sin Club

    To me, almost everything is better than the so-called ''DJ's'', when people are allowed to stream their music in public rooms, almost always a disaster. Residental dj's, whatever they are called, they are a total disaster most of the time. It is true that streams in Public Rooms, are not many times updated...but still compare it to those DJ's, they are pure music hamorny. I don't want to name anyone personally, but 90 % + of all these DJs in this game are a disaster, which I don't mind at all as long as they are in their own hosting rooms....but when they destroy the atmosphere of certain Public Rooms, it's annoying, as they all turn everything into their rave, edm, house party, mute function is among the most useful in this game.
    1 point
  37. Aeliana

    Clothes

    I can tell you EXACTLY what needs to happen for us to get these clothes. Get users the ability to create clothes. Open that gate. Mister Gorbachev! Tear down that wall! (Ronald Reagan, a few months before the US won --began to win, I should say-- the Cold War)
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  38. LABELLING/LABELS (Tops, Dom, Domme, bottoms, submissives) There is a thing, that a darling asked me about. When I began to examine it, I realized I had generalized some things about it. So I gave them a kiss, for their brilliance, and decided to expand on this topic. Labels. Society is so caught up in fast labels, so organize, categorize, and fit each and everything in its own sweet little pocket for easy processing. That it forgets... such things are not so easy to define. Let us take a long look at some things that are common in the Art(BDSM). It will surprise you what and whom can be these things... A top is someone who prefers to be the person in control during sex. Tops generally prefer to take a more active role in sex by acting as the person who penetrates, gives oral sex, or does other sexual acts. A top is the leader in giving a sexual action to the partner, (a.k.a. bottom) Being the top is a role that ANY can fulfill. It is NOT a determination of a specific role. A top may be leading in the sexual scene, but is only the giver. This role can be done by ANY of the members of the scene. An example is when my Husband and I make love, He tops Me. Yes, a Mistress can be topped. I know breaks what porn industry, fictional writes and the lies of Hollywood movies spread around. But, does not change the simple truth. He leads in our love making, I am his wife and I stay in the bottom position until he wishes us to Switch. A Dominant (both Dom/me) is an individual having a controlling, prevailing, or powerful position in a social hierarchy. A Dominant may be a Top, as most enjoy leading in sexual activities, directing their submissive(s), or leading in the sexual activity that is ongoing at the time. A Dominant may also be a bottom. Directing from the receiving position, their partners and/or submissive(s). A Dominant does not have to be a strong physical presence to be such. However having a strong Mental presence is essential. Being Loud is not being Dominant. Being demanding is not being Dominant. A submissive is one who enjoys having any of a variety of BDSM practices performed upon them by a "Dominant"; or one who holds a submissive position within a relationship based upon dominance and submission (Ds or D/s). Submissives can be tops. Submissives can be bottoms. NEVER MISTAKE that being a submissive means that person is weak MENTALLY or PHYSICALLY. It takes a VERY Confident person to understand their needs to submit to another. They have the strength of character to actually do it, as it is a CHOICE. Being brat is not being submissive. DO NOT mistake bratiness as the normal behavior for a submissive, it is actually quite the opposite. being a TRUE BRAT is a fantasy dream, while fits well in many things when it is a man/women. In RL, most of the time it comes across all wrong, and causes some strife. One of My own male submissive's was a nice man. I will call him Charlie, no as normal that is not his real name. But he actually was a man who served time in jail. He was a very large man, who had issues with authority. I was one of the most experienced Black Widows of the Coven house and I was asked by Head of Household to take him on. Now this was a man who you could tell by the scars on his body, had hurt people. Maybe even killed them, being a former special forces from Vietnam. He knew he needed help and regular therapy sessions were not taking hold with him. So.. I tried a.... different approach ^-. He caught the eye of our residential Amazon. Foxtrot, again a fake name to protect them both, and after his 90 days She put in the request to take him over from Me. Yeah those two kids hit it off so much.. They married, he has his own successful trucking company and are happy out west today, as he has a pretty thriving business. And in the background, His loving Domineering wife keeping him focused. ^- Bottoms are usually on the receiving end of sex, as opposed to the giving end. Meaning, they are the ones receiving the effort of the Top. Bottoms can be Dominants, or submissives Bottoms will never lead and are what we consider "head over heels" receiving all attention and effort. Bottoms can be loud. Bottoms can be demanding. You see, the clarifications of the roles shows what some understand and or call some things incorrectly. Tops are not Dominants, bottoms are not submissive's. D/s can be both according to the scene and how the wishes of the two play out. It is a dance of passions colliding and expanding those desires deep inside out for two of like mind, to share and to fulfill each other in their loving enjoyment. Until later darlings! Toodles! ~Z
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  39. GottaGo

    3dx qrcode generator

    To give you some example, here is what i'm doing on the map i'm working on. When you scan the character, you land on my website and some RPG system i'm reworking (the one that was previously used in Vice City/Police 3DX map some time ago). It let you land here (which is really proof of concept right now) : In the future it should let me connect with my RPG system with things like Shops and Quests and such. But again all of this is probably not for the "core" players of 3dx, not even for all the roleplayers are some tend to prefer something simplier. But my point is just "the imagination is the limit", somehow
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  40. And here is the rather large, heavily worked on-condense version to demystify what is called the AGREEMENT/CONTRACT. Once again Dears and dears, this is NOT the bible it is simply a guide written from My experience as a RL Domme, to provide some basic understanding of this important article that is cruicial if you want to get really in depth. One of My normal RL contracts, I think the smallest was 59 pages, and the largest was over 195 pages. This is due to all the things in the request/assignment that needed to be gone over, yes even the legal and money stuff Dears/dears. Online I use a simply contract, it starts out at about 9 pages. My current chosen, with all of our talks that we do each day and sessions, aftercare and discussions of the scene, has one that is about ohhh.. 15 pages currently. I will not be sharing the whole thing, as it has a LOT of personal data about her in it. I will pull some of it to allow you all to see pieces that will be about some of the things posted here for example/reference use only. Now... let us get into it, Shall We? A BDSM contract contains what both parties will and won’t do. It clearly spells out the roles expected for each person and what these involve. It will also explain a sub’s availability: is this part-time, long distance, 24/7, or total power exchange? Other things that are good to have listed in it are the start date, and how long the relationship will last. It can be mostly sexual, or include emotional and physical aspects. Here is a list of other topics to include: BDSM Safe words BDSM Rules Hard and Soft Limits BDSM Punishments Some example of rules I can share from My online contract with My chosen... This contract is written in the express interest of the acquisition, collection, training, and ownership of the hereto mentioned individual XXXXX_XXXXXX. This is based on the request and desire of said parties to enter into joint conditions of Online ownership and slavery in the Online Worlds. This documentation, thenceforth to be called the “Contract” is to outline the boundaries, stages, and successions of this agreement to the mutual benefit of both outline parties which will be called “Domina”, Mistress Zee (a.k.a. XXXXXXX), as her player at the time of her retirement of Mistress status within her former circle, and the in game “slave”, XXXXX-XXXXXX.  ((PERSONAL IDENTIFICATION ITEMS/PARAGRAPHS REMOVED)) SAFE WORDS Here is the insert I have for Us over these. Now Safe words are used to stop scenes when SAFETY for one, or both, the Dom/me-sub are struggling, limits reached, violations of agreement, etc. WHEN they occur. EVERYTHING, and I mean EVERYTHING stops... the scene is at its end. Care is given immediately to the one who stated the safe word. And Darlings/darlings DO NOT run off, CLING to each other and talk. I mean REALLY talk! You just called a halt to a entire scene. It happens. But, you better have a damn good reason, or you will start to build animosity with your partner fast. If something simple is wrong, try talking first. Once a Safe Word kills a scene, with Me, that is the end of the day. Period. nothing else will be done as that Care will continue for the rest of the day. Example.. Safe Words  Here in are the following safe words to be used by both the Domina and slave to signify stoppage of any scene. At the stoppage of any scene the following will be adhere to by both parties…  Talking about the scene/being quiet  Cuddling/time together/alone time  Leaving cleanup for later/putting away tools immediately  Domina Safe Word: XXXXXXXXXX  Slave Safe Word: XXXXXXX BDSM Rules Here is some examples of some rules/expectations I have (these are not all but enough to get the idea) Expectations of the slave to the Domina (Regardless of Collar Rank) The slave will be taught proper etiquette in responses, positions, and mannerism that are expected by the Domina while in her presence. Including proper conduct, when not in the presence of the Domina, as the slave behavior will reflect to the Domina who is fully responsible for the slave behavior in game. The slave agrees that their body belongs to the Domina while online, to be used as seen fit, within the guidelines defined.  The slave agrees to please the Domina to the best of their ability, in that they now exist solely for the pleasure of said Domina while online. The slave WILL be engaged, by the Domina, in the following activities...  Caressing while kneeling/sitting at the feet or lap of the Domina. Open chat and verbal exchange, which may involve cuddling.  Sexual contact which can include kissing, touching and fondling as forms of reward for proper fulfillment of assigned duties or proper behavior. Also that can include more indulgent sexual content in the fulfillment role at later stages. The slave agrees to submit completely to the Domina in all ways while online. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which the slave may willfully refuse to obey the directive of the Domina without risking punishment, except in situations where the Articles of Refusal apply. The slave WILL fully submit to the Domina all aspects of her online persona in-game. This does not however include the following…  Earned in game currency of any kind  Awarded prizes (not given by the Domina) Won or discovered items of rare or unique value  The slave will submit their time, energy and persona to the whim of the Domina.  This includes their online body, the use of them as party member in instances, adventuring, and/or social events. Such events can include..  Dance parties  meetings  Social gatherings Social events This is to be while the Domina is online. When the Domina is not online the mentioned slave is classified to FREE status and may conduct and enjoy herself to her fulfillment save for the following conditions…  The slave may not seek any other Dom/Domina(s), lover(s) or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without the Domina’s permission. To do so will be considered a breach of contract, and will result in immediate termination of service.  The slave may not dishonor, or disrespect the Domina’s or members of the Sisterhood. Nor may the slave conduct themselves in like manner that would discredit the Domina, or Her House. Furthermore the slave agrees to answer any and all questions asked by the Domina freely, promptly, and to the best of her knowledge. The slave further agrees to volunteer any information that the Domina should know regarding the slave's physical or emotional state. The Domina agrees to never use this information to harm slave in any way, as all such information is needed to evaluate the emotional health and wellbeing of the slave. Examples of HARD/SOFT limits These can include anything that the submissive or the Dom/me question, do not practice, or find outside their Limit levels. For instance, My chosen and I both deplore Scat/pee play of any kind. This is a limit that we both agree on and no scene shall this be allowed, mentioned, or indulged in ANY way. Now. Understand this is a serious conversation that you have One to one, and MAKE NOTES. Then make sure both sets of notes agree to what is said. These are good starting points for future conversations and paths as the relationship expands. NOTE: include your boundaries on whether or not either of you can have other partners, or practice consensual non-monogamy. Now PUNISHMENTS... Here is an example from My contract with My chosen so you can see several things... Punishments is dealt through the Role play, at the discretion of the Domina. For some infractions, if severe, the Domina may penalize the slave with loss of time with the Domina which the slave will be placed in a time out and not allowed to address or speak to the Domina for a set time relative to the nature of the infraction. The Domina will not speak to, or address the slave while in this state, nor may the slave be allowed in the company of the Domina or her court/lover. This time will be no less than 4 hours and will be no more than 8 hours per violation.  On the third such punishment of "loss of time", the Domina may opt to move to possible termination phase of the contract. Now let us talk about What not to include in a BDSM contract One of the biggest mistakes I see couples make is to try to include every rule they have in their dynamic. This can go bad for several reasons. First off, if a submissive slips from their role and says or does something disrespectful, they could use the excuse that what they did or said wasn’t specifically mentioned in the contract. This can also be a sign of topping from the bottom. Sweet subs.. if you do the OOPSY, man/woman up, take your meds, and move on. Simple. Trying to top of the bottom WILL bite you in the ass, and NOT in the nice way you wish. Dom/me do not become overwhelmed in the clerical documentation of each thing. This is because they will have to add and update the document as new rules are added or taken away. It’s much easier if your written agreement focuses more on the broader rules of your dynamic and the overall principles of each person’s roles. So what do you do instead with all of those everyday rule changes and adaptations? Something you can do is create a separate note or shared task list. This can contain each individual rule you are currently working on. That way the Dom/me-sub contract becomes more like a guide of your relationship, and doesn’t get easily broken/misunderstood. There has been debate in the Houses/Community about who these written agreements are best for. Beginners in BDSM are sometimes reluctant to create one because they think they are just for hardcore veterans. While advanced relationships sometimes believe they are only useful for new Paths. Truthfully, both experience levels benefit greatly from using a traditional power exchange document. This gives beginners a way to start the kink conversation with their partner. Learning their likes and dislikes. Where advanced Dom/me's and subs can use this tool to stay on track with the lifestyle in their relationship. This will help them to stay out of the dreaded “rut” that can sometimes happen. Many times when a long-term D/s relationship is starting to fall apart, one of the biggest reasons I have found is because the couple stopped using a contract. Or worse: they never even had one to begin with. If you are a beginner or more advanced, do yourself a favor and your Chosen/chosen one by taking time to create one. A semi decent site is https://bdsmcontracts.org under their FREE, which you can tune to your specifications. As with all things Dears and dears, this is a guide only. If you want to discussion or have any questions, feel free to reach out to Me and I will try My best to answer, or help you find the answer. Until later! ~Z
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  41. Meaning to the Structure BDSM is an acronym that stands for Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism. It’s an umbrella term that is used to describe a sexual practice involving physical control, psychological power, or pain. It typically includes the components of bondage and discipline, domination and submission, or sadism or masochism. Bondage is any type of consensual activity in BDSM that consists of restraining your partner in some shape or form. This could include the use of ropes, handcuffs, Japanese rope bondage, or Shibari, mental bondage, the use of collars, and gags, as well as breast and genital binding. Discipline during BDSM play is when the dominant partner “punishes” the submissive partner for breaking the “rules”. This is often done to teach their sub “proper” behavior so they can become better at submitting. In this type of relationship, consent is also used, as the submissive has given consent to the dominant prior to this arrangement. While a sub may be disciplined for mistakes they have made, some submissives may break the rules on purpose because they desire punishment. Sadomasochism is a term that combines both sadism and masochism. Sadism gets its name from the Marquis de Sade (1740–1814), who was a sadist, libertine, and writer famous for literary fantasies featuring acts of graphic sexual cruelty, including “The 120 Days of Sodom”. Sadism is an eroticized form of sexual torture, and a sadist derives pleasure and sexual gratification from inflicting pain, humiliation, or erotic punishments on others. Masochism gets its name from Leopold von Sacher-Masoch (1836–1895), a writer also famous for novels containing descriptions of his masochistic fantasies, including his most famous “Venus in Furs”. Masochism describes the desire to experience pain as a form of sexual gratification, and a masochist enjoys some forms of pain or humiliation. It is important to note, just because one enjoys one type of pain, such as erotic spanking, they may not enjoy all types of pain. An individual may enjoy pain without humiliation and vice versa. There are also degrees and limits to an individual’s preferences for pain, or pain tolerance as well. One may like light spanking or cruel hard punishment with a cane. With S/M there are always limits and boundaries that must be respected. Now that we have covered the Basics of the Art, let's get a bit more deeper. Inside the Art is what is called the Union. This is a representation of the relationships between Disciplines (those things that can be taught) and Fetish (primal urges that are personal choices of the individual). The Flow goes like this... BONDAGE --> Fetish DOMINATION --> Discipline SADOMASOCHISM --> Fetish MASOCHISM --> Discipline Yes, believe it or not, Domination and Masochism are a trainable skill set that people can learn. Bondage and Sadomasochism are personal preferences that people choose. That is a little bit Eye opening for most when you start breaking down the structures. There is a cause/effect that also works in the Relationship of the Art as it is applied. It goes like this... You cannot have a Fetish without a Discipline. You cannot have a Discipline without a Fetish. Sounds Oxymoronic a touch, no? Let me put it into this perspective. You have an individual that enjoys BONDAGE, yet also is Masochist. So, in theory, without ever touching them with any hand held object, never dominating them or striking them to inflict pain in any form, you can meet the needs of this person. Simply by applying the Bondage, in positions, equipment, tools, toy, etc. That will begin to slowly enter them into the Masochism that is their end goal. This is their fix, that need to inspire them to sexual stimulation. Each bondage scene, devices can be manipulated slowly to allow the individual to experience the pain, that they are wishing to be taught to turn into sexual pleasure. Within the Union is the "Sets". The "Sets" are simply logical flow of the Art in all its forms. Bondage leads into Domination Domination leads into Sadomasochism Sadomasochism leads into Masochism Masochism leads to Bondage These are what are called 4 "Sets", which is commonly known. What is unknown is that the relationship of the Art is not Linear, but is done by association of one Science to the other. Remember the rule above, you have to have at least 1 Fetish, working with 1 Discipline and Vice/Versa. You can have 3 or all 4 in this relationship using all forms of the Art, but you must have 1 of each to tie the structure together to provide a proper flow and balance. I.e.: You cannot have Domination and Masochism, two disciplines working together. For the Art to enlighten the sexual experience a fetish has to be the go between, or the tie that BINDS the two together. If there is No Bondage, then there is no tie for the Domination to make control the Masochism. If there is no Sadomasochism, then there is no receptacle for the Masochism to receive the Domination. People get out of sync, and things get one sided when this balance is not adhered to. This can happen both to the Individual in the Relationship Path AND to the Couple as a whole. Too Much on X versus not enough of Y, with Z not relating to A and folks trying to brute force the relationship, on both sides, doing more harm than good. So, understanding this basic you can now begin to see how the relationship of the Union actually is. So when you have that feeling that something is missing in your relationships of the Art, with your Dom/me, or with your submissive. Stop, think a moment and make sure you have some balance in your relationship. Too much of one, cancels out the other. To understand how to maintain that balance, read My blog about The Relationship (parts 1 and 2). As with all things Dears and dears, these are here not as a bible, but as the sharing of experiences from a woman who has been there, done that, and has the negligee to prove it. So until later Darlings and darlings, I am working on the rather Massive topic of "The Contract". That will take Me a couple of days to put together. Toodles, ~Z
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  42. Are there structures or Rankings, in 'collars'? ABSOULTELY! (and yes Dears and dears I misspelled it on purpose.) You see each should have an attainable rank and file system to help their chosen to gauge their accomplishments. To give you an example I have the following, when I practiced RL.. Badge of Inquisitive - The badge of Inquisitive is a ‘protected’ status given to those who are curious and wish to learn more of the teachings, methods, and philosophy of the Domina. This signifies a learning stage at which time the said subject will not be touch, confined, or subjugated in any way. However, the holders of such badges are responsible for their actions and must maintain complete mannerism at all times.   Badge Holders are not allowed physical contact to the Domina, or the current submissive She is in session with.    If a holder of a badge fails to maintain mannerism or objectivity, the badge will be revoked by the Domina, and the subject excused from service and the presence of the Domina and House.   Collar of the First - The collar of consideration is the first step into actual servitude. This collar signifies a willing subject vying for the honorific of the designation of submissive. The duties of position will also include proper greetings for the Domina, her Lover/Friends, other members of the House and/or any Online community, and any appropriate staff of said entity.  Collar of the Initiate – This collar signifies more direct and personal training of the Domina to the submissive. In this configuration the "slave" has been taken for full training by the Domina.  The slave will enter a period of advance training, to include sexual scene conducted in private with the Domina only. In these sessions the slave will be subjected to new sexual scenarios which will include fulfillment, bondage, S&M scenarios at the discretion of the Domina.    Collar of Acceptance(Ownership) – this collar is awarded by the Domina on satisfactory completion of training of etiquette, mannerism, protocols of conduct, including all proper private sexual scenarios.  This also may lead to the honorific of being asked by the Domina to become Her "Live In', literally moving in with the Domina in question to live with her 24/7. This is, of course at the discretion of the Domina, in accordance to Her wishes.
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  43. The responsibility of the Sub (part 2) What is the responsibility of the submissive? Here are some basics... always put their Dom/me first. They are willingly His/Her property and their guiding objective is to serve them. act with grace and humility, performing their duties efficiently, with minimal fuss. be mindful and work with purpose. They should not let their mind wander or get caught out by losing focus. be available to do their Dom/me’s bidding when they need them. be respectful and not talk back to their Dom/me. Some Dom/me will only let their submissive speak after permission is asked for. Some will allow freedom, either way is correct so long it is in the articles of the Contract. be clear on their duties, and ask their Dom/me for clarity if unsure. Communication is key to any relationship dears. work to improve their service whenever possible, refining the skills they need to get the job done. For example, if their Dom/me enjoys a massage, they should take instruction or watch YouTube videos to improve their technique, also a simple guide book will be a boon to them. never put themselves in harm’s way, or do anything they morally object to, or is illegal. If your Dom/me is putting you in these types of situations, it’s time to break the dynamic and have a talk. What are a submissive’s duties? That can include the following... Carrying out chores. Their Dom/me sets for them tasks to do during the day, either in person or remotely via text message. The submissive should carry out those tasks within an acceptable time limit and to a high standard. Providing sexual services. A submissive is responsible for providing their Dom/me with sexual pleasure. This might mean the submissive actively engaging to make their Dom/me orgasm through manual or oral stimulation, or simply be an object available to be used as a sex toy. Performing rituals. A ritual is a sequence of activities performed to highlight submission to a submissive’s Dom/me. Examples of rituals might be texting their Dom/me ‘Good morning’ every day, cock-warming him daily, or worship ceremonies where great lengths are taken to worship the Dom/me by kneeling or adopting submissive poses. As will all things Dears and dears, all of this is taken from My Memoirs and My years of experience. Also note, this is the view of Myself, a former RL Dominatrix. Please use as information from a Source, and not a bible. Research, ask questions, discuss with others. Discuss with your Chosen/chosen, and decide what is best for you and them. This is simply information to help clarify things others may run across in their pursuit of knowledge... Until Later ^- ~Z
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  44. Malene

    3dx Update

    The fact that this is the first time i did not anxiously wait to get in and play the second it was up and running after a new update says it all to me. it`s become meeh, i got things to do, i`ll pop in later.
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  45. Just in case anyone is one the fence about getting something new, I just bought a 12th Gen Intel(R) Core(TM) i5-12500H 3.10 GHz with 32.0 GB ram and a GTX 4060 since my poor old potato was dying, and this is the difference on all default game settings :
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