It is a sex game, not a social meet and greet app, although many seem to treat it like one, and I think a friend of mine had the right approach, and a rather easy solution to the issue. that went something like this :
" I don`t think i had any dudes, but i guess a female avatar in the hands of a man, can be more attractive to many than a real woman. The best of both worlds so to speak. The female shape combined with someone that knows what most men wants in a woman, usually straight to the point and none of the bs men only put up with in the hopes of getting some. And honestly... if it got me off, and i didn`t know it was a guy, why would i care ?"